Hi everyone! I have been reading this forum on and off for a couple of months and never taking the plunge, but I am here to tell you that come the 13th, I will be visiting my special lady in Moscow. Met her through another agency and now we are talking on the phone once a week. She is 40 (me 51), beautiful and with a beautiful 11 year old girld. Talked to her also! Well, she is taking the train from Ulyanovs (17 hrs) to meet me in Moscow. In our conversations even though I have tried not to reference should we say...intimacy, we have indirectly and in a mature way discuss kids and the sort. Now, for your advise: I will be staying in Moscow for 6 nights and, even though she never asked for a seperate room, I have also booked her a room for only 2 nights. I did not tell her that her room is booked for only 2 days. Am I assuming too much? Will she be offended? The reason I booked her a room in the first place is to show her that I have no asumptions. By the way, it was her suggestion that we meet in Moscow since my visit was short and she never asked for $$. Tanya will be arriving earlier in the day than my flight, so I arranged for a car to pick her up at the train station, take her to the hotel and then bring her to the airport to meet me upon my arrival. She insisted on meeting me at the airport.
Staying at a nice hotel. Her English is a 2 on a scale of 5. I have been learning some basic Russian phrases and words and have purchased an electronic translator. I am as prepared as anyone can be, even purchased tickets to the Bolshoi ballet! What am I missing!!??
have fun. to communicate better, get electronic dictionary, or normal dictionaries and write each other. I am sure she can read and write and will translate with the dictionary.
The 2 day room booking is ideal, mate. Good move...!!
There is nothing wrong with your expectations for intimacy after a couple of days/nights.
I'm pretty sure no FSU 40 year old woman thinks a man will travel half way around the globe to meet her to have a platonic relationship.....
Since your booking plan lives a minimum of 4 nights to get kinky with each other, I'd suggest a separate suitcase to pack your condoms, lol...:))
And don't forget the customary teddy bear "Thank you for meeting me at the airport" gift.
In my opinion, if she likes you, she will sleep with you, if she doesn't she won't, they want you to want to sleep with them, or they think you do not desire them, however, they want you to make a move, even if they are going to rebuff you, they expect men, to act like men and want sex
Nobody seems to be addressing the issue that he might not like her. This is always a risk with WOVO (from both perspectives). So you get there and she likes you but you don't care for her, the two days are up. What are you going to do throw her out on the street? Put her A$$ on a train and send her home? You tell her you don't see her as your future wife. Maybe she wants to go home, maybe she is embarrassed to go home early. Who knows. Just because you booked her a seperate hotel room doesn't mean she HAS to stay there.
It amuses the hell out of me when westerners with no knowledge talk about the Bolshoi ballet.
They talk about it with great reverence as though the name is something of great importance, like the Tate Gallery, or the Albert Hall, yet all it means is Big Ballet !!! ;o))
I have "Balshoi feet" !! It doesnt make them any more impressive or exciting than anyone elses feet, just they sound like they have a fancy name thats all :o))
I talk bolshoi:))) I am in Moldova in 9 days.... seems a good place to search, get a visa on landing, so no hassle, girls are gorgeous but still have all the fsu attractions, think I have cracked it.lol
Jetson----I booked my girl a room for the whole 7 days I was staying, in Moscow, in August. Like you I hope we will be changing room accomdations after a day or two or three. Meaning her staying in my room. If your girl paid for her train ride herself she has probably spent over a hundred dollars or more of her own money to come to see you. Says a lot of good about her!-------------- As far as missing anything, don't. Unless the two of you just totatly don't hit it off; you will a least have fun seeing the sights, circus, zoo, etc. Just because she wouldn't sleep with you the first 6 days you were together doesn't neccessarily meam she's not a keeper. But I do think it is probably that you will get together. Just let it be her choice and you can't go wrong. Don't force the issue. Lots of luck to you!
Well guys, I am back! sorry it took so long to bring you up to date. I'll try to condense this. She met me at the airport and from that moment on we held hands the entire week. Need I say more. I did not press the issue the first 2 days, then when it was time, I was honest with her and told her I needed to get a room in another hotel because the one we were in was full (honest!). If you recall, I had reserved one room for the entire stay and the second room for only 2 days. She would not hear it and decided we should both be in one room. This was in the AM, by the PM things were in full swing. I discovered that a few well chosen words put down nicely on paper and then having it translated did the job. The lady just like the romantic side of me and let me tell you, I felt pretty romantic. I should tell you that the love bug really got to me with this lady. I was treated with respect and tenderness, and I reciprocated in kind. On the last day we went hunting for a ring and I have hired an attorney and proceeding with the K1 visa. I had a wonderful time, the Russian people were very friendly and the food was good. I felt very secured. I will warn you that staying in a nice place in Moscow and eating in nice restaurants can put a hole in your pocket, but it was well worth it. Going back in August for 2 weeks, to her town and meeting the rest of the family. She even offered (her idea) to find us an apartment for my stay so that, as she said, "we can have more privacy"! Now, what more can you ask for. The lady is anticipating my every move and taking care of business. I feel very lucky. By the way, she is beautiful with a great figure. :)))