Hello, I recently joined the site and have a question about unreceived messages.
Two weeks ago I sent out 10 letters to various ladies. Since then, I have received only three "message receipt confirmation" notices. I looked back through old threads and found a post from Olga who said that a received message confirmation means that the lady's local agency has received the letter, and downloaded, translated, and printed it, or whatever they do with it to make it available to the lady. So I guess my question is why have seven of my letters not even been received by the agency in two weeks? Has anyone else had this experience with their letters?
It is rather discouraging to think that there will be a two week (or longer) lag time for any possible correspondence that may develop if and when these ladies read my letters.
may be it is your just your email problem?
send Ids to the customer service they will figure out what happens. its is required for Ladies to send reply at least a decline message. but some of them ignore doing it. just send them letters again asking to reply - yes or now. there are more than 10000 ladies registered here, just do not pay attention to those who do not reply. it means they are not interested, or do not even care to use the site. if lady is from the agency fiance.com can always find out what is happening for you. just send a request.
again, which agency? there are ladies with agency email and ladies with private emails.
they may received your messages. you did not get confirmation sue to email problems somewhere between the site and you. if ladies from the agencies email to customer service as I said we will see if letters were read actually.
It is part of the deal VN, just like us, most ladies have somewhat an idea of what they are looking for. My first week here, I sent 4 messages, and only one answered. That eventually did not go anywhere. I realized I had made a mistake; I had posted my profile, but my pictures did not load. So, I would advise you to check that your profile is okay. Once I fixed the problem however, I changed my approach. I made a detailed list of what I was looking for, and then I just waited without contacting anybody, and allowed the ladies to contact me. Eventually two girls who had what I was looking for contacted me, and things are going great with one of them. Interestingly enough, 2 of the girls who had ignored me replied later, but by then I had shifted my interest elsewhere. Just be patient, and she will eventually come to you. I hope this helps you, and remember to re-check your profile.
I am a member at fiance.com and I am referring specifically to letters sent through the fiance.com system. I will email customer service to inquire further. Many of the letters that did not generate a "message receipt confirmation" note were to ladies that had agency emails. If I understood Olga's post from an old thread (about 25 pages back in the forum), it is the agency in Russia that downloads incoming letters. After they have done this, the agency in Russia that then sends out the message receipt email.
Thank you, I have checked my profile, and it seems to be working fine, as I have successfully received several letters from other ladies. I am not so much concerned at the moment with whether the ladies have replied to my letters. I am more curious as to why 70% of my letters do not generate a "message receipt confirmation" email. It makes me think that the agency in Russia has not even downloaded the letters to give to the ladies.
message receipt confimations are sent automatically from the site when messahe is received. When a servier is busy, they just do not get through. Same thing happen a lot with letter notifications-sometimes the server fails to send them. It just happens on the certain hours, when server is mostly busy.
So if you do not get receipt confirmation it doesnt means the mesasage was not read.
And as for the agencies-beleive me, they are interested in those letters and always check the mail. Also we send agencies weekly notifications to check the mail and take care about responses...So if you do not get receipt confirmation-do not worry. If you do not get a response in two weeks from lady from the agency-contact our administrator and we'll check with the agencies on certain ladies.