What causes the western male brain to shut down from all logic when a woman that you never met in your life, regardless of origin and who in many cases you don't even have concrete proof that she even exists, convinces you to send her some of your money?
time after time western idiots keep posting their pathetic stories about how they got lured, deceived, robbed...
"I sent her visa and ticket money...but she never showed up at the airport"...."her mother was in the hospital and needed money for medicine"..."her sister needs money for university tuition"...etc etc etc...
The level of naivete buy these men is of such gigantic proportions that it has long crossed the border of blatant stupidity.
I hereby by declare the following, lol...:)))
.....By the power invested in me...(by MOI, of course), I declare it UNLAWFUL to send money to any woman you have never met........
The appropriate enforceable law has long been in existence and if you break this law, you will never, ever, ever, EVER get what you're searching for.
This particular law, of course, is the LAW OF PROBABILITIES.
You, my dear western sucker, have no chance whatsoever of ever earning the affection of a respectable, decent FSU woman with a solid background of family values if you keep trying to earn their attention, affection, love and loyalty with moola, money, dinero, rupies, gold or sterling....not even bare bonds will do the trick.
Toad- What better person to write about the "Disfunctional western male brain" than you, yourself! LOL! Do you ever have anything good to say about anyone? Haven't heard too much from you in awhile. Figured you've been busy brainstorming. :o)
I've been working hard for a change, lol....all of a sudden, new clients showed up with immediate needs and I had to get my priorities straight to take care of them.
And yes, I often say nice things to those who earned them or wish well to those who deserve it...
In general, everyone who visits this forum deserves the best of all situations....including the idiots who send unknown women money and make us ALL look like a bunch of ignorant bozos with "target" painted on our backs.
Your formula sounded overly cynical, even for my well known devil advocate standards, lol...
I personally do not blame any woman who, knowing money is short in FSU, takes advantage of the idiot who approaches her flashing his wallet to earn her heart, loyalty or devotion.....that picture is the worst combination of low self steem, cultural ignorance and desperate need for immediate gratification.
US men are notorious for even doing it for the western women, lol...P-A-T H-E-T-I-C....
You're right Toad, If I could erase it I would. You and I are alot more knowledgable than we were 3 or 4 months ago. If it wasn't for this forum, you could have painted a bullseye on my back also. Too many men who have no knowledge of the basics of the visas and of the scams are the ones who get burnt. I personally think that the ratio of scammers is very small but the amount of ill-informed men is mountain high. Also many won't take any advice because their woman is not like that! They are so much in love that they forget about commonsense. I don't need to go on as I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. To all the newbies here, know the basics of the visas laws and know the scamming tricks, THEN find yourself a good woman.
Dale,
I have talked to, emailed and snailed mailed dozens of FSU women since I made up my mind and started searching....and only once did I did send gifts to a lady in Tuymen, Russia.....and she's not even someone with whom I would seek a serious romantic relationship.
She got fired from her job a few weeks before her birthday, so I sent her a nice BD card and an exclusive Bloomindale's tight white 'wife beater' type shirt with the words: "You're fired - The Donald", (because she thought the Donald Trupm show was hilarious)....she's a self declared "friend for life" now because of my rotten sense of humor, lol...
I have summarily dropped women like a bad habit at the first sign of "neededness" or "great idea" (that invariably involves ME paying for something).
Once again, the only reason why scamming survives is because the morons keep feeding it.
Isn't that strange. I said a long time ago here that to send money to any girl you have not met is stupid. Even if it is in small repeated amounts which quickly adds up. When I said this, more than one person( mostly lead by tim) called me tight and that I had no business looking in FSU for a girl with such an attitude. At least someone aggrees with me, I think
I also aree with you, idiotdetector.
I think to truly get to know a woman just writing her is not enuogh. There are too many
distractions and you cannot know a person's soul through a letter, you must see it in their eyes.
If you met her in person and totally sure in her then you could decide whether to send her money or not.
Anyway, I should think to hire some girls in Moldova, give them some nice pics from Claudia Schiffer, Heidi Klum, Kate Moss and let them publish their high-styled and desperated announces in the web :-))))
Should I also include pics from Naomi Campbell?? HHHMM :-))
ID,
I agree with you.
In my not so humble opinion it is totally senseless, tasteless and detrimental to the potential of a long term relationship with anyone if a man creates, encourages and feeds a state of financial dependency.
I cannot speak for TimH or any of the others you refer to, but maybe they meant that once you meet in person and start establishing an ongoing "exclusive" relationship it is reasonable to send gifts, buy english lessons, etc...but send cash??? No way Jose!!
And if a woman expects you to take her shopping when she meets you, it should be your first clue that you're only one of many 'walking wallets'.
Hello everyone!
At some point I begin to think that you guys generalize a little bit. The Danish man I met
through the Internet sent me money for visa, and I got here tickets he bought there.
This was a good opportunity to meet for us, and, actually, I appeared in the airport
after he sent me money for visa and tickets. It depends on a person, on a relationship between people. At your point I wouldn't say that to send money is the stupidest thing.
It's just life, it's different, no one should say that the best way to meet a woman
through Internet is to go first to visit her and never send her money. Don't be so narrow-minded. I wish you luck in finding your one because it's often about luck.
LOL@tOAD, a lot of commonsense toad, I have to say in 4 months I never sent any money, was never asked, but I did not write to any needy women, they all had university educations and good jobs(not well off by western standards but middle class in their own countries. I am now going to pay for my girl to have one to one english lessons, because it is beyond her means, she studies in a class of 20 and the moment, I am doing this because it is in my interest as well, She is the only one I have given money to, I took her shopping one day, but she turned down the opprtunity every other day...My advice is not to send money to someone you have not met, not because everyone has bad intentions, but just because you are not in a position to judge, having never met her....I have met 4 Fsu girls, all of them completely genuine, now I am lucky to have never fallen foul of a scammer, but maybe this more a reflection on who I chose to write to. Why would any man try to attract a woman by flashing his money, what sort of message is he sending out, one of low confidence and low esteem in his looks and personality...I have to say that while in Moldova, I observed an american about 50 and a Moldovan girl about 25 who he had maybe met only a day or two before. I was embarrased to be from the west, the guy talked for hours about his achievements, never once made eye contact with her, was rude and obnoxious to the waitresses, who he obviously regarded as some kind of lower life form. The coup de grace was when 2 Moldovan guys walked in, they gave myself and the American guy some dirty looks and called us a few names, he went to the toilet and did not apear again for 45 minutes..left his girl sitting at the table till they had gone....priceless......
Never been asked for money either, can't believe people that's sending money to who know who, maybe that the future to make a few quid (maybe I don't look to bad in drag) ;-)))
"...The Danish man I met through the Internet sent me money for visa, and I got here tickets he bought there..."
Sorry, Marisima...I just do not believe you!
Unless you are from a EU member country, visas for FSU young people to travel or emigrate to western european countries or even the US are not that simple to obtain.
And I state again:
Sending money for any purpose to any woman you have never met is against the law!!!!
The Law of Probabilities that anything good will come out of such a foolish action, that is.