Dale, let they stay the way they are. With a little help of medicine... It that stuff...what you call it...I forgot the name of it. It starts with "V". Is it a prescription drug or not?!
It takes 4 years to get citizenship in the US after marriage. I agree that old men looking for women younger than there own daughter is very unrealistic. In my case, I am 37 and my fiance is 26. I don't think that is too bad of an age difference. She knows what she wants in life and I know what I want and we both know it includes eachother. We are very similar in our personalities and in many other aspects of our lives. We both consider ourselves very lucky people to have found each other. If she would have come from my own country or vice versa, things would be the same for us although it is very unlikely that would ever happen. We both have looked in our own countries with no luck. Now that we have found eachother there isnt anything that could ever seperate us. Growing old with eachother and having an unending love for eachother is something we both cherish, I will never let her go..
As an agency stated that 55% of its women are from 18-29 and that the secund largest group is from 40-49 and i personaly notice that on average the women in the 30-39 range are less interesting and most demanding one has to look to the younger women as well. And if the (very) young mention that they are interested in older man it is not the older man to blame but the younger women. If she decideds to pimp herself out and then afterwards blame the man it is her lack of taking responsibilty for her own actions that is the problem.
Luckely the period of marriage necessary to get citizenship is longer than 2 years.
Do i understand my double dutch? Yes. Nowhere in this tread was anything mentioned about man marrying very much younger women, its is quite common for man to marrie 5-10 year below their own age more than 20 years is even for rich guys seldom. I believe that bringing up the subject of man chasing the younger than doughter type comes from something in your own mind. Fustrated that only older man write to your profile or know of a friend of you that married an old man and later got unhappy about it?
Ron I mentioned somewhere about my friend, who is 1 year older then me, and she got married with an American who is 30 years older then she or even a little bit more. She gave birth to a child recently, and they seam to be very very happy:)
Ptichka- Every time I hear something about old men and young girls, I think about your friend. But honestly, I would say that their story is an exception to the rule.
Arta- Those "V" pills are known as Valium. Toad could stand to eat a big handful of them. Would have a very calming effect for him. But I think that he would still mumble on as usual. :o)
No its not the same Dale. But she cannot get citizenship status if she is not married to you in that time. The US has changed the rules since 9/11 and there is no way she is going to stay in this country legally without you unless you are still married (and in love) in that time period. They will check.
I only know for sure because me and my fiance are in the visa process now.
I know Tim said in the past not to get a lawyer and maybe that is ok in the UK, but in the states if you go it alone your chances of denial are much, much higher.
At 46 I'm neither bald or fat and I sure as hell don't want some girl in her 20's, I've already raised one child thank you!
Arta, as for the ex taking you to the cleaners, women have such leverage in the courts in the states it's not even just. Hell my ex was an adulteress and she still gets half of everything, along with that you still have to pay for college and child support for the child, along with losing half of everything you worked for. Also in some states it's a double whammy, you pay alimony. When you sue there are winners and losers only in divorce courts in the states there are three winners, the two attorneys and the woman.
I'm not even bitter about it, but I sure as hell will be smarter and that includes letting the pretty 20 years know I have no interest.
Without knowing about any personal details
and without commenting about any personal details
I think a 47 year old woman should be allowed to and entitled to seek happiness here just as anybody else.
Dale, Green Card may not mean that you are a citizen but it does give you permanent resisdent status. You cant vote and they will take it off you if you go out of the country for too long.Otherwise it is for life.
Arta,
There you go again...Talking like a western woman.
First you provoke, criticize and belittle the quest western men embark on by saying we will get dumped for a younger man after the woman gets her green card (btw, it's no longer green), then you cry foul and ask to be treated like the lady you are not when I tell you we don't mind if she does, because we can always upgrade...
You can't have it both ways, Arta, babe....
And no, if you're going to get down and dirty with the boys, do not expect to be treated like a little princess with gentlemanly manners. I will reserve those for the ladies who deserve it.
You have learnt the western ways very well, Arta.
Enjoy taking advantage of the poor sods who fall for them.
I'm not one of them.
Dale,
The 'resident' status is absolutely revokable in cases like Arta described in last page.
US citizenship requires a minimum of 5 years as a permanent resident with little or no significant time living outside of the US.
Pitchka,
There are always exceptions to the general rule.
But frankly, the life experience gaps alone is enough to discourage me from seeking any woman younger than 30 to establish a serious relationship or marriage, even if ron is right and the 30-35 age is the least available group among FSU women. I don't think it is, though. I have no problem finding interested women in that age group all over FSU.
Is your friend's husband named Tio Alberto?
There is a song by J. M. Serrat, the Catalan singer/writer with lyrics that describe that exact type of age difference.
"....Una piel dulce the veinte anos,
donde olvidar los desenganos,
de diez lustros de amor, tio Alberto...."
30 years gap is exactly my daughter's age, lol....the mere thought is a complete turn off for me!!
But for Arta I will make an exception...:))...I can always play the part of the old wolf who needs to chew on young tender flesh. But only for a meal or two, lol.
"...Dale, let they stay the way they are. With a little help of medicine... It that stuff...what you call it...I forgot the name of it. It starts with "V". Is it a prescription drug or not?!...."
Toad, I think that you and Arta might not be the most compatible of couples. I think that she would agree also. All the women that visit here are giving us an excellent opportunity for questions and answers. Most women seem to gladly answer any question we ask of them. How about letting them hang around for awhile so we can learn something instead of angering them to leave? Start using the terms ( I, me, and myself) instead of
(we, us, the men, the boys). I don't want to be included in your posts. ie: (trade-ups, disposable Kleenex)