every one, just take a chill pill! That is the problem with these threads sometime! 'why cant we all just get along!' :-))
Seriously, if everyone would just watch what they say, and remember, most if not all of us are here for one reason....anyone remember what that is? LOL. To meet a wonderful, beautiful FSU woman and spend the rest of our lives together! Not to flame each other, cut each other down,right? A few of us, including me , have actually made the trip, actually MET A FSU WOMAN! I guess I am lucky, I met one and now I am engaged to her. But really, can we just try to offer help and remember, some of the new guys raise concerns that some of the older (not in age mind you:-)), find strange, even offensive. Everyone learns the ropes here eventually, I know it took me time to do that. Hell, I got into it with one veteran in particular that made me stop writing for nearly two months! Now, I write under a new name, even, just to keep the tempers low.....
Now, have I pissed anyone off? I hope not, just trying to squelch the flames, rather than fan them.
Of coarse you are correct Bucky, but if anyone is realy keen to stay they will just follow you lead if they feel that uncomfortable. Critsism does not always have to be offencive though.
id, well said. Now, lets just get back to helping each other. Man, was I ever in need of help before I actually went and learned alot in this forum. I was fairly scared sh*tless, but now, it is no big deal for me to go back to visit her while we wait for visa.