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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > 3 emails in 2 months...and she is now talking about my going to visit? This normal? Author Post groon Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/26/2004 7:43:50 PM   This is a bit crazy to me. There is a woman on here who's emailed me almost once a month. In her emails she talks as if we have shared alot of information about eachother. In reality we have not. I have to look back at the 1 or 2 other emails we have written to see what we actually did talk about. And it's not much. Her last email to me #3 she says she's been thinking alot about my coming out to visit her. She's apologetic about her HUGE gaps between replies. So she is fully aware that she's not very timely with her replies. What's up? scottlf Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/26/2004 7:50:55 PM   Everyone is different. I happen to think many girls are very busy during the summer or just find it hard to go to their agency (if they are with an agency). I will also agree that these women WILL want you to visit. There is only so much you can discover about someone over text. I've experienced this myself, and though it does not make me comfortable, I do have some patience for it. My views are neccesarily from my point of view, and I don't intend to fly all the way to the FSU to find out about someone. I expect to know most of the point of fact information BEFORE I decide to go. Anyway, no one can answer this question for you. If it does not make you comfortable, then state it. The one consistent quality I find is ALL of them want you to be honest with them. idiotdetector Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/27/2004 5:33:37 AM   My advice groon. First decide if you care at all about this girl anyway. I mean if you have any interst in her. If no, nothing to do. Send no reply and she has made you waite so now she can waite and waite and waite. If you do have interst, be extremely honest to her and tell her what you are telling us. She will maybe be offended and send no reply and that is that, or maybe she will take some offence but take more interest. I told one girl that I was never coming to meet some pretty photo I knew nothing about. Now she still has not told me about certain things but she has bared he soul a bit more and she seems realy nice. A pitty realy because now I go to meet another and she knows about it and wishes me well. If it all goes to shit she said she will be happy to meet me. Honesty never done that situatution any harm and maybe it will not hurt yours either GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/27/2004 11:13:03 AM   Groon, Never hesitate to tell any woman exactly what you want, how you wanted it delivered, within the precise time-frame you wanted and the color paper you want the wrap to be. No matter how demanding it may seem on your part, any woman will appreciate and respect you for it as long as you present it politely and assertively. An honest woman will always want to know what you stand for. Go ahead, tell her. If monthly correspondence doesn't cut it, tell her. She already knows there is a huge amount of women all over the FSU eager to establish a relationship with a good western man. No need to hammer on that point, either. If you're determined to find an eastern woman to be serious with, tell her. It directly implies that you will keep looking until you find one that suits your needs, wants and desires. toad Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/27/2004 4:43:47 PM   groon you wrote in the name of the topic "Is it normal?" there is nothing common for all relationships, they differ, and there is no a single person that will tell you this is normal or not...if you like it then it's normal for you, it may not be normal for other people, but who cares about that??? Thunderdome Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/27/2004 6:19:45 PM   Groon, Let's call her #1. Now #2 sends you instantaneous replies, talks loads about nothing, seems to forget what you guys were talking about, never asks when you will visit and seems sweet but sort-of empty. I'll take #1 anytime, especially when she's got good reasons for her intemittent corresponding. She probably has - try asking and a bit of patience? PaulM Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/27/2004 8:11:39 PM   Groon Maybe she is busy writing to other guys, due to to the lack of messages to you and also the fact you haven't talked about much, she could still be in the stage of copy paste replies to you. If she is really interested her messages if not timely should show some serious dialog with you, if not this is a bit of a red flag maybe. If a woman is seriously interested in you, she is going to put you at the top of the pile, three letters in a month is not really top of the pile, or on the other hand she is not so very serious about finding a husband. I know people will tell you, the ladies are busy, hard to get internet access ( yawn ) no money and everything else, but if they don't have time to write they are not serious. Thunderdome Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/28/2004 5:35:33 PM   Paul, you seem to (yawn) know it all - now it's time to study the underlying backgrounds, then maybe (sigh) you understand them one day. Because for many they are true, however remain incomprehensible for lots of western spoilt brats. And if a woman writes stacks to loads then also her speed is right up there - and I believe this aspect is what Groon bothers, or rather the lack of it. If you read inbetween his lines that her letters were generic you please explain that to me, because I fully missed it. Have a (yawn) nize eveningzzz z z z z z PaulM Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 7/28/2004 6:31:15 PM   she talks as if we have shared alot of information about eachother. In reality we have not. I have to look back at the 1 or 2 other emails we have written to see what we actually did talk about. And it's not much. If this doesn't cause concern keep writing, but sounds like a bit of a one sided conversation. How can it be a meaningful relationship if thet are on two different planes of understanding? ie she thinks they have shared information, he thinks not, whats going to happen when they progress beyond talking about the weather and other less meaningful stuff that is presumably in the first three emails? Did I miss something in the underlying backgrounds like she is telepathic or a mindreader or something, if so forgive my ignorance. TD , you say she has ' she's got good reasons for her intemittent corresponding. She probably has' err I missed that, maybe you can remind me where they were in the text, Obviously I downed a few too many cos my reading and understanding is so poor tonight. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > 3 emails in 2 months...and she is now talking about my going to visit? This normal?
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