No different than going to a club nearby home dressed to kill and lying your ass off for a piece of ass right, it is done evryday the basic human needs Power,Safe Enviroment, Money, Sex and love, some do not care about how they get the sex. But this is just the nature of humanity it takes all kinds.The problem comes when we appoint ourselves a postion to bring it to their attention.
Your British nature was exposed in your last post mate.
"You took wesman's comment out of context. This IS a men's forum after all so he has the right to state a mans opinion - regardless of what your tiny feminist mind thinks. "
Why is it feminist to think you should take your lady and the vows you made to her seriously? I personally have never cheated on any of my girlfriends and never will. I know when I feel the urge to be with another woman there is someting wrong with the relationship I am in and have a choice. I can try to work out the issues in my current relationship or I can end it and pursue another. Cheating is not an option. I have tried the whole try to work things out with a girl that cheated on me. She wanted desprately to work it out. I on the other hand could not get past the fact that she betrayed me. In my eyes the woman I loved died the moment I found out. All she was afterwards was tainted goods. What I expect from my partner I also expect of myself. We have choices. We can choose to let instincts rule us or we can choose to excert some self control and honor the woman we are with. It's very simple.
fjaeril- when I was in Ukraine there was this movie on that my lady was watching. This beautiful girl was in a room with a man and she just dropped all her clothes and laid on the bed basicaly begging for sex. She had met this man in the street and she thought him a foriegner as he spoke to her in English. When she was on the bed he started to speak Russian. All of a sudden she tried to cover herself. She relised he was not forien at all and did not want sex anymore. Poor girls you say. In another post you were trying to say that things have changed and my general felling was that we are all waiting our time. Now you are accusing use of using them. Make up you mind. They are big girls who know what they want. Some of them just wanrt sex with a foriener, some want more, let them decide O.K. I know plenty of girls here who desire sex when they hear an accent, why do you thing Russian are any different?
fjaeril, I do understand your point and yes there are those that feel they must put on a macho show here. Do believe me that it is very easy to find sex in america and other countries and it is very cheap compared to the trouble of traveling around the world. Anything that can be found their is here and has a price. The point being that if sex is all they wanted there are much easier ways to get it. Yes I do feel it wrong what goes on in some cases but that is our world. I can only tell you that not all of men are like this and yes some are very sincere and yes some are sincerely jerks but as the others have said this is not the place to have this discussion. We as individuals do not want to be classified in general groups but we must also fight the urge to treat others in the same way we are objecting to. Please if you want to participate we welcome your imput even if some of us do not admit it. We do however wish to be treated with respect same as you, and not all be classified in the same manner.
That is very true Shaggy. If sex was all that was required all that is needed is a trip to a) Yahoo yellowpages and type in sex or escort.
b) A trip to the bank.
This is a whole other ballgame.
However I have a problem with guys saying that sex is lying on the street over here in the states, it isn't true. Girls are not very approachable here, same in England. Our work places are full of idiots who scream sexual harassment at the drop of a hat. What the hell do they get tarted up for if they don't want you to take a good look? That is what nature intended.
"You look beautiful, can I buy you a drink"?
Slap, belt, knee to the groin. "Help rape"!!
In the end I said why bother, I have better things to do.
I have never (knowingly) been with a practicing hooker (they practice because they haven't got it right yet) but I will say this for them, they are frigging HONEST. You want this, you pay this much.
However we are looking for something else right? That wonderful, beautiful girl we wish we had been good enough for back in high school? The one that wouldn't look at you if you were on fire?
Well now there is an opportunity to finally have your cake and eat it too. Just wish I had enough time and money to take off right now.
Just to prove my previous statement I have today received 2 great canned emails from a couple of beauties 36/38 with only one child who in both cases I could act as a substitute for a natural father. There is hope yet, I see this working. I have a good proportion of tugboats write to me but I also have received some pretty ladies emails. Slightly out of balance right now but the night is young :)