How come they do not have a chat page here, I hate jumpimg in and messing up the threads, if everybody had you know what we could do you know what. Since so many of you don't have you know what and you know who you are that don't have you know what then we are Sol. We need a chat thread. Ptichka, do you have any Idea what someone means when you see this at the end of a letter. (niv)
Buckeye the girl from Oshkar-Ola showed up you know R**a she is writing only to me and waiting for me to come to see her so we can get married she said she has not written because she is looking for a job she said she was writing this leter to calm me down. What do you think that means. and the other one from Maruipol I spelled that wrong for sure but she said she is waiting for me to come there for her so she can be Mrs. Wessman. Miss Moldova 2004 is just chillin with me I am stressed man. How did I create this mess and what do I do know.
Do they black out the addresses woman send in a letter from the agency, I keep asking for air mail addresses post addresses and alternate e-mail addresses. they all want me to ask the agency for the street address and I still do not have one, does fiance.com not want me to be able to send a gift unless I pay here, or what.
Wes, fiance does not black out addresses. IF they are unwilling to give postal addresses....WHO KNOWS!! I have never heard of a legit lady not willing to give out her postal address. Tell her you want to be able to send her flowers sometime and you really need her postal address.
Dont sweat the moldovan babe. Give her time. But keep writing Ella and the other chickie!!!
Wessman, Fiance.com doesn't edit letters.
if you wish to get girl's private email, here is how to do it. Write her a letter asking to give her direct email address. If she wants she'll give it to you and you'll get it in her reply. But it could be that she doesn't want. That doesn't really mean that she is a scummer or that she has something to hide. Some ladies would prefer to keep privacy and to correspond through fiance.com for safety reasons. So ask her personally why wouldn't she give her private contacts to you.
Once again we don't black out phone numbers, postal or email addresses that women write in letters. Hovewer we do keep all information about customers private. Noone can call our office and get somebody's direct phone number or private email from us.
Wessman, How will you ever know these ladies are serious and sincere if they can not give an address. If they are that afraid. Do you really want anything to do with them? There is a thread about addresses and contact imformation. Buckeye and myself have a guide and I believe you talk about the book "How to marry a russian lady like myself". Ask them very direct and without address it can never be serious. Sorry friend. Next Lady please!!! Many of the ladies do want to know you better before they give imformation to you. I can not see going to see a lady that will not give me her address. You know the stories we hear. I am sure they hear many stories to and I know there are some wild and crazy men in the world. Chances are she will have nothing invested to show up or not. If you have her address and she does not show up you can write or even if you are a little off the wall go to the address to find her. Do you see the investment with an address a little better. Of course we would not waste our time with this but they are afraid of it, I believe. I have stoped may correspondence with ladies because of no address. And have insisted on a few too, in a kind way of course. The agencies sell the addresses so they ask girls to not give them out. Find her agency and you can buy her address. Also remember some of the agencies do write for the ladies. The lady I will visit, ask me to send some pictures when she gave me the address and phone number. I have not called but I did get the pictures in the mail last week. Now I wait on her to express the suprize of the pictures, if they make costumes. The agencies are also business in Russia, If a girl writes to many men, adds up to good income for the agency. If they get every man to pay 10$ for address times so many men equals, much money!!! I really liked a lady in Latvia and ask many times for the address. The last answer I got was, that would be like letting the cat out of the bag. No more letters from me. I could go on but it is like never send money, No address no serious correspondence. I you have not been writing for sometime, understand they want to trust you, first. After sometime and no address, Next lady please!!
Right South I agree, I knew there was something wrong, now I know I need to buy the address. Just before I posted this thread I received a letter from a female(I think)from this site, I had asked her to send me her address, I don't really want an e-mail address if they do not edit the letters as Olga has stated. I really want the post address. So I can send a card or a little present. I can e-mail all the letters from here that I want to and I prefer to stay within the agency and we know why, I promised Olga I would not advertise here so I can not mention the bo** which I am read-uknow-what! It is very informative.
So I get this letter from R^** in Oshkar-Ola, who tells me she is not writing to anyone but me now and she wants me to come to her soon. She has not sent the address again but she gives me the e-mail address to Alina”: C254@marriage-4u.com and tells me to write here for her address which I do and they want like fifty bucks maybe 25 but I think she said 50 for one either way what freaking ever. Why is this woman from Fiance.com sending me to Alina's site? Twenty bucks is 300 rubles maybe all of these agencies are sleeping together and scamming all of us. Why would this girlnot want me to contact fiancé .com for the address. Well I am not going to ever reply to this girl again. Period no matter even if there is a good explanation I don’t even care. What I do want to know is why fiancé.com would let Alina’s site sell me her address unless Alina @marriage 4U and fiancé.com are one and the same. Maybe Buckeyeman might give me the straight and skinny! Olga if you are reading I thank you for the information you provided me.
She may ask you everything. for exmple 1000$ for her new shoes. If you are smart enought you'll never give it to her. So don't write to her any more. if you wish us to investigate please forward her letters where she asks you for money to firstname.lastname@example.org
Olga, She has not aked me for money, I asked for her air mail post address, she sent me this address Alina @marriage 4U and fiancé.com and told me to get it from them, I wrote to them and they want me to pay them for her address, my question is why would she send me to them for her address and not ask me to get the address from here.
Wes, here is the skinny you asked for...I really dont know!! But I agree with S-man that if you do not get a post address after a request or two, move on. Every girl I was serious with before I got engaged was more than happy to provide phone and addresses. Some gave them to me before I asked. Just forget about this lady and move on, wes. It is not worth the agravation, if you ask me.
re.: "... She may ask you everything. for exmple 1000$ for her new shoes. If you are smart enought you'll never give it to her. ..."
-quite apart from all the other aspects:
A girl who has expensive habits or bad 'life skills' (incl. money management) before marriage is likely to continue the behaviour after marriage...
Even if her request for money is totally 'honest' 'she' might not be the best wife for you...
Wessman, I believe the girl must give you the agency as a part of , say like a contract for her to be able to correspond for free. If you really like this girl, is she worth the x$ to communicate. All this kind of puzzles me. I believe many agencies use the girl for income in exchange for correspondence. To some extent even fiance does this, right. It is a business, we should always remember that. It is customer satisfaction that will keep them in business. Even some of the really good sites sell addresses. Go to alina agency in the search engine and see there site. I always seem to find my girls agency by there city. Then I put in the search engine on the site everything that is similar to her and prestoe. I find her. Fiance has many small agencies that post there ladies on fiance. When you are on your home page of the site fiance, look down to were the ladies post and it will say agency. See they can post profiles of ladies as well.Sometimes I think they post ladies and try to get men to correspond though the agency. The search engine google has good comments about the companies. If they are bad business google will say it. So the site alina has, how much they charge. It should be a one time fee. The ladies that would not give there address to me never gave me the agency either. Remember some ladies get in the search and then are persuaded otherwise by family and friends. How many people do you know that are rooting for you in all? Most people I know tell me the bad things that they have heard, GOD I hope I can say different. Wessman C254 is the control number so the agency will know who the letter and address is for. I know you like this girl because you want to send something. It is usualy 10$ for address. You write to her on her email so that is done. What is 10 more with the gift. When you send the gift send it small package air mail at the post office. If it valueable send it fedex or secure mail where it is signed for. My lady got the pictures and was very happy for them. I now know she has given the right address and is real. Many questions are answered by post. I wish everything was true and honest on the internet, maybe in the future but not now!! I wish you the best. I am not saying for you to do it or not, only my experience. Every girl and situation is different and you will decide by the value you have in your correspondence. I don't believe this girl will go against the agency and loss the ablity to use them, if it does not work out between you. That sounds like character that I could like. If she ask you for money then that is all together different. You said she had not!!! Fiance does not sell addresses or give out personal imformation. I hope this may help if not with this lady but maybe with your future experience. Have a good day my friend!!