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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > A Totally Irrelevant Extra Item of Information - or perhaps not! Author Post sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/12/2004 2:49:18 AM   It has dawned on me that what the women are looking for is what they have not yet found. And what the divorced women here are looking for is also what they did not find... So, if a woman emphasises 'Honest' and 'Faithful' in her requirements for a partner, it is because the men she has met before were not! (Sociologists who want to use the Profiles for their PhD studies can send me a monetary contribution for this idea!) And: What the women here write about themselves is - obviously - what they think is useful in their search for a husband. (and quite often they probably emphasise aspects where they think they have a 'competitive edge' over 'western women'.) Western women could learn from reading here what men are looking for. (Western women can send money for this useful advice to my Swiss bank account). Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/12/2004 3:41:45 AM   Everything you say is true! But I seriously doubt you'll be a penny richer. One point to ponder about women's profiles, if she is drop dead gorgeous, she could put "N/A" in every catagory and her mailbox will be so full the lid won't close. southernman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/12/2004 11:22:53 AM   Western woman don't care about what men are looking for, only what they are looking for and what you have that is useful to them. If there is something they don't like about you, you will have to change it. sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/13/2004 1:56:25 AM   Dale E, you write: "...if she is drop dead gorgeous, she could put "N/A" in every catagory and her mailbox will be so full the lid won't close. ..." -which says something about which part of the anatomy the men use for 'thinking'! -which is actually a useful item of information (but not quite new: the Advertising Industry has known that for years...) I was half joking, of course (in my first post), but only half: I still think that the 'requirements' the women feel are important to mention say a lot about their earlier experiences - about the men who are around them in their own 'environment'... southernman, you wrote: "... If there is something they don't like about you, you will have to change it. ..." -or stop dating them... -or start dating women with different values... -And if western women are happy with that: OK -If they are "Despearate and Dateless" (i.e. unhappy about been 'dateless') then they could review the situation! -After all: Some western women in business would happily fork out serious fees to learn 'How to be successfull in Business' -yet refuse to review their personal behaviour to be 'successful' in Dating... -It's a strange world! sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/13/2004 6:17:51 AM   She is divorced and she writes: "...I'd like to meet a kind, reliable man who wants to create a happy family. ..." I guess that her former husband was *not*... i.e. *-not kind *-not reliable *- and didn't care at all about whether the family was happy or not... -and that she has discovered that the men around where she lives are of similar quality.... Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/13/2004 6:26:15 AM   And I think that the woman who writes such things, thinks that her husband wasn't kind, reliable and so on....after all she got married with him, why did she do it then??? And when love dies people start to see everything in black tones...or maybe she just wants to create an image of an unhappy girl who needs to be feel sorry for... sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/13/2004 6:57:17 AM   re.: "... And I think that the woman who writes such things, thinks that her husband wasn't kind, reliable and so on...." Ptichka, it was my guess-work... She did not write anything about her former husband or the men where she lives... After all, which girl would not want a 'kind, reliable man who wants to create a happy family' ? It was my 'reading between the lines'. But, if ALL men were like that, there would be no reason to specify it, would there? (by the way, when Muslim parents look for a husband for their daughter, do they (need to) specify: "Alcoholics need not apply" ?) sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/16/2004 6:28:54 AM   "What men looking in Russian woman? Perfect Russian woman qualities" The men are looking for what they have not yet found... The perfect woman qualities they specifically mention and emphasise are the ones they have not found in the women where they live (e.g. USA). Am I stating the blooming obvious?? So, this Forum tells something about men (e.g. men from USA) and women from the FSU. But it also tells something about the women the men don't want (e.g. the american women, they don't want to date), and the men from the FSU (with whom some women seem to have had bad experiences - as when divorced women specify exactly what they want, and thereby: what they don't want!). sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/23/2004 11:46:02 AM   She's divorced and she wrote in her Profile: "..I would like to get acquainted with caring, tender, cheerful, and family oriented man , to create a happy family. ..." Does that allow us to guess something about her ex-husband? wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/23/2004 12:08:07 PM   Yes please guess! Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/23/2004 12:09:41 PM   I doubt that it allows to guess about her ex-husband, this is maybe just her ideal, which she may think she didn't meet. I think that after divorce girls start think about their ex-husbands in a very bad manner, forgetting all the good things that he had in his character...so I doubt very much if this allows to do some guessing..:) wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/23/2004 12:30:00 PM   here is my guess he did not care, about her, her heart, her needs and obviously he did not care to provide her with a family what's her Id no just kidding. I'm in over my head here! Well my summer is over, school starts back up today and my free time will be drastically cut here. Not to many night owls here, every body is working hard to keep up their habit here cept you sancholollapalooza. Find something good to make me laugh. Remember the profile I posted on the girl with the level two English,she knows how to use a dictionary can not talk on the phone with out an interpreter, and under job description English Teacher GHa Ha ha lmao here is the clue it is micro-cosmic man, find a girl that speaks english if you hope to be successful. this should be first criteria in the search, run a thread on this and I'll check it later, sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/27/2004 1:39:07 PM   Of course: When the men specify the characteristics for the ladies they want to find in the FSU, it can *also* be deducted that they did NOT find ladies in their own country, who met their expectations... So, the men in-directly list the short-comings of the American/English, etc. women! wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/27/2004 1:45:07 PM   We all hold an Ideal of sorts about our love and whom they may be. Part of the problem is that often love will arrive but we are confused because it at first does not appear like this ideal we have in our head. Sometimes we let love pass us by because we hold so tight to our ideal. I ask people all the time is this person you are with what you were looking for or what you expected, no, no way it just happened, sometimes we need to modify our Ideals. geriatrix Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 10/4/2004 9:15:22 AM   Another irrelevant item: Pictures show something about Fashion and Interior Design. (and those furniture give me a nostalgic feeling!) Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > A Totally Irrelevant Extra Item of Information - or perhaps not!
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