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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > sex at the first meeting? Author Post sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2004 12:09:34 PM   -is one of the topics discussed in the girls' Forum. Any opinions on it here? Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2004 12:42:09 PM   I'm all for it! Thunderdome Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2004 1:27:16 PM   Sanch', just tell us you're shy. Or impotent maybe. Inexperienced? No? Sex is great, whether on the first meeting or the last. Then again, sex on a meeting normally poses some problems because, due to the nature of the environment, hardly any comfort can be found other than that damn hard wooden conference-table. Yeah, I know, the high-pile carpet, but that produces burns normally. I'd suggest the bed Sanch', and lights ON eh, no old-fashioned silly manners here. Isn't it amazing how quickly these threads are off course these days? wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2004 2:51:47 PM   Again remember not to generalize, every situation is different, sometimes sex on the first meeting is ok but then somtimes I am not to sure. What do you think about sex on the first meeting say with the parents... maybe not. Buckeyeman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2004 4:42:32 PM   "What do you think about sex on the first meeting say with the parents..." Wess, I would certainly not suggest having sex with her parents on the first visit, but it may be up to you LOL!!!!!! Haha, seriously, it depends on the woman, the time 'in country', etc. All Russian women want to know how their prospective mates are in the sack... READ THE BOOK!! I had sex with my fiance on the first meeting, certainly not the first night, but very, very often after that. Jesus, they aren't puritans over there!!! wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2004 6:33:57 PM   Wow you mean these 27 year old women with all these values I have been touting are not virgins Buck man you're busting my bubble and raining on my parade! southernman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2004 9:38:44 PM   No wess!! They have all probably had sex with all jerks. Only I don't think we call them jerks. There are some good men in russia, I'm sure but I think these ladies have the same trouble finding men that we have finding woman in the states.Or similar wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2004 10:27:54 PM   Sure there are 13 girls to ten men, Russia and the FSU have been loosing their men to wars for a long long time, so suppose we were like that here, too many women, it would be hard to be monogomus. Too many to choose from, and then after we settle, Miss aggressive talks us out of our stupidity, you know what I mean just like during the Vietnam War alot of guys gone and alot of girls to take care of. Men do not want to settle down. Women get worried they might not get a husband. If every man was married over there out of thirteen women three would end up Sol. 13/10 it is math. ok then the alcohol problem 59% are alcoholics and thenthe remainder a percentile abuse alcohol, it is math. Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/18/2004 5:15:36 AM   Well I'm not sure how it is when writing to a girl through Internet. And I completely agree that it all depends on people. But if we talk theoretically, I suppose the majority of girls would think, "if he wants to have sex at the first date then he wants nothing more from me". having sex at the first date, creates a very delicate situation. It tells a girl, or he wants nothing else...and she can start behaving in the adequate way. Ditto Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/18/2004 12:20:09 PM   I would agree with you, Pitchka, if the meeting was at one of those socials, but I think the majority of us spent months writing to our ladies before the first "date". I would be suspicious of me also, if the primary activity of our first visit took place in the bedroom. I worry about this as my first trip is about to commence. We have been teasing each other for months about our time together. Neither of us is a child, though. I am 43 and she is 35. We both have kids and have previous marriages. Although it will be a first meeting, I don't see it as first date. If you are asking yourself the thread question, at least you are showing the right concern. As everyone else would probably say, it will be different for each couple. I don't care about the numbers. The only math I hope for is 2+2=1. sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2004 5:16:43 AM   re.: "... just tell us you're shy. Or impotent maybe. Inexperienced? ..." How did you guess, Thunderdome? Thunderdome Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2004 1:44:08 PM   Sanch' Mene mene tekel ufarsin........... Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2004 2:56:38 PM   Ditto well I could agree with you as well, but you don't know what's happening in girl's minds...something like that "oh he said that I have a nice figure, so he cares about me like a body but not like a personality", "oh he looked at another girl, he is bored with me"...and I can give thousands of such examples...and these words say girls who are married or are dating for months and years even!!! And they choose the girls patry to complain about this. And can you imagine what is happening in the girl's head when she first sees the man she has been writing for some months??? Nobody can say that!!! GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2004 4:52:16 PM   Pitchka, Wanting to have sex with the woman we're interested in is one of the many things we want to do to find out if we're compatible...not the ONLY thing we want. ................................................................. I have always suggested and advocated to speak openly about these sensitive matters with whoever you're trying build a long distance relationship that may lead to the long term thing most of us want. There's no denying that being tactful about the timing to bring up these topics is essential, but that is up to each different person because everyone will have different circumstances. So don't do what anyone else tells you to do (except me, lol) and follow your best gut instincts. Personally I will not have any sex play expectations from or towards any woman until I meet her, but all the ladies I correspong with know clearly that I regard sex as one of the vital, fundamental and most important elements of compatibility between man and woman. toad GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2004 4:57:44 PM   Pitchka, On second thought, what you wrote about how woman treat a man's sexual proposal is very similar to how women process it in the west. I wish women all over the darn world would either say YES or NAY, instead of wasting time and energy trying to do our thinking for us. When we ask you for sex, a meal or a back massage we do so because we are already interested in you, not because we're trying to find a way to leave you. The better the sex, the meals and the back massage you give us, the more interested in being around you we will be. IT IS that simple, Pitchka. Tell all yuor country women, lol... toad jjbarrier Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2004 6:55:52 PM   Now I am confused .. which order are these things supposed to come, was it meal first, then back rub and finally sex, or the other way around??? dreamfinder Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2004 7:12:39 PM   Look, jjbarrier, the thread is about the first meeting. About exact order you can read in girls eyes... GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2004 9:10:40 PM   JJ, Confused men rarely get invited to dinner. So you might as well forget about he back massage and any type of sex, lol... jjbarrier Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/20/2004 6:28:07 AM   That would explain the last year or so of my life, thanks for the clarification.... wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/20/2004 12:29:26 PM   JJ I saw your post to my letter about the emotional bond. Thanks Get the book! 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