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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Why are we here???? Author Post rrlinders Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 7:21:36 PM   Guys, I have written to this forum twice in the past few days looking for some advice which concerns my first trip to Russia.The advice and input has been very helpful. I have been writing to this lady for 8 months and understand wo she is and what she wants. It is all so simple, she wants happiness and man that will be true to her and love her on a daily basis. I have been reading some of the topics of the forum and it amazes me at some of the topics that are discussed here. Please tell me what these topics has to do with finding a lady in Russia or preparing a trip to see her. I have read a lot about how bad and corrupt that Fiance .Com is and I think we should keep a couple of things in mind. One is if it were not for this agency none of us would be writing anything to anyone. The second thing to consider is how many of us would even be able to think about this great opportunity to look at photos of the most beautiful ladies,read their profiles, and write to them when ever we wish.Keep in mind this is a business, and I know of no perfect business in the world. We are here by choice , no one twisted our arm. I am here because the Russian ladies appeal to me in every aspect of life, and the America lady for the most part does not even compare to them. Please read read the members comment about what is about American ladies that have driven us across the globe to look for happiness and love. I believe it is on page 4,5 or 6 in the forum. We are very fortunate as America men to have the options,freedom, and means to look in Russia for love. Most Russian ladies are not this fortunate, so they turn to us and most only are looking for happiness, love and a better life. I will say this when I meet my lady for the first time if we click, I know I will be treated well. and she will make me very happy, and you can be sure I will being treating her like a queen. The Russian ladies are looking for the same things we are lets be professional and help each other out in our dreams. The agency could pull the plug tomorrow and we would be looking on American Singles. com. Wouldnt that be great!!!! Bob gladiatorUK Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 7:35:22 PM   Well said Bob, it's only having used other dating sites that you begin to realise how good this one is,nothing is ever perfect but this site certianly takes a lot of the danger away from the dating scene. I agree that some of the topics here do stray from the main objective,and that has been mentioned quite frequently too,but as I said nothing is perfect and luckily...(or perhaps not),the diversity here helps maintain a healthy debate. Recently it has wandered more than usual and I am with you in the hope that things will get back to more relevant subjects.Not that I am wife-hunting ( I am already spoken for in that respect),but just to try and share experiences and useful info with those still to find their lady. Good luck in your search Bob. gladiator. crashnsplash Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 8:14:42 PM   Yes well said Bob. I am spoken for now as well and I don't need this site for anything anymore. For the most part I still check by every now and then to see whats going on, maybe I could help someone out if there is a need. ALso you are correct that this forum does spin off into another dimension quite often, but it always seemed to do that but moreso now, just look at the history. All the words you say about finding your lady over there is so true. Ive lived it already and there is no experience that can even come close. Shes my beautiful Russian flower.. my princess, and because of this forum and the help of a few experienced friends I met here giving me sound advice from the beginning, my dream became reality. Good luck to you. shaggy47435 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 8:37:42 PM   Bob, yes it has been interesting lately. I think the holidays and other things slowed things down abit and of course the ukraine and other issues slid us off track. Many of us are new here and learning to sharpen our claws a little as the hazing that took place when I first started was quite severe. Anyway like any playground everyone had to run around and establish the way things are. I think things are leveling out. The issues with fiance.com are issues that for some have been around quite awhile. Some things have gotten better but the main issue has been the just ignore it and go on thing. It would seem that for $30 bucks a month if you don't like it you would just move on but after 3 months of establishing friendships and such to just walk away is much harder than it sounds. Remember too that some of our efforts are to improve what is here and yes it gets heated and off topic sometimes but is it wrong to want clear expectations of the services and agencies that use it? Well as it has been said I will not start again. My first post when I started were almost identical to yours. I came in to horrible fighting and personal shreading of almost anything said and now we only want to kill each other over politics so it has gotten better. I think too as we have shared our fights and squalbles just as brothers might do we are learning and finding we all have much more in common. I think about all of us that you see often have had our differences and fights but for the most part we are back on track and sharing much better. Because this forum has to topic catagories it is hard to seperate daily business talk with the off shoots that come up. Many folks also are in different time zones so what on most forums here would be gone and over in hours here gets brought back up several times over and over as the different people add there 2 cents. I wish I could say it would be over but it seems someone new comes along and things will rise and fall as usual. Stick with us awhile and I think that you will find out that most of us even that complain do it for the right reasons. shaggy47435 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 8:39:11 PM   no topic ...not to topic...lol GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 8:59:14 PM   Rrlinders and Glad, I wholeheartedly agree with you on the subject of topics unrelated to our quest...We should do something to keep everyone focused on the important things, damn it!! BTW, has anyone seen my new Rapala tuna lure? toad wtrav02 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 9:06:22 PM   Wonderfully articulated rrlinders and if I may say you're so much on the right track, you sound you speak out of the heart and I know you'll find happiness in your pursuit. gladiatorUK and crashnsplash, you're both right on. I'm also here because I love being here. This forum is the best of its kind that's why people stick to it. It gets off the main subject sometimes, but hey that brings a little variety. Even those who have found their loved one in FSU can still learn more about this fascinating world. I've learned quite a bit from my wife about the history and culture of her country and in many ways she has helped me further open my mind and I am most happily looking to continue to listen to her stories and insights for the rest of my life. shaggy47435, you're one of the most interesting contributors to this forum ever. I've been surprised by the knowledge that you've accumulated so quickly about FSU, FSU women, agencies and I understand you haven't even had your first trip there. I am more than willing to bet you will soon deserve the title of forum guru after you've got a couple trips under your belt :) shaggy47435 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 9:14:40 PM   Damn toad still rubbing it in...By the way that is an awsome lure! Thanks wtrav I do honestly try! Check my new stats thread! Bad news though My December/January trip is postponed! Damn! Bagira Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 9:42:36 PM   Why do Russian Ladies is watching for this forum? For me it is just possibility to recall my own unhappy experience with an American guy. He is the best person on the world but I will never see him again. Rrlingers I have put on AmericanSingle my profile today, that I am looking for a Russian guy, but have not paid and did not give them information about my credit card. I am not able to send e-mail to someone, but can I get any e-mail from men? shaggy47435 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 10:27:51 PM   Bagira try webdate.com as it is totally free! A little wild on there as they have video streaming as well. You still need your own email though. shaggy47435 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 10:29:44 PM   Duh guess you have that though...lol. It lets you have a profile and filters your email to keep it safe from anyone you do not want. Incorporates video streaming as well. Just beware there are a lot of swingers and scammers there though as well. rrlinders Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 10:41:38 PM   Bagira, I believe that you are able to post your profile with out charges on American Singles, and receive emails from men, but you will not be allowed to reply to them until you pay. I am sorry to hear of your bad experience with the American guy. Please do not give up everything we do is full of chances, but if a person keeps trying they will succeed, and so will you. To the guys once again thanks for your input, it makes me feel better about the forum, in that I know I will have to sift out the good and bad and draw my conclusions from your input. A special note to wtrav02 you sound very knowledgeble about the forum as do some others and you are right Fiance.com sounds as though it has made manty of you very happy, and I can only wish they will do the same for me. Bob GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 10:59:01 PM   "...He is the best person on the world but I will never see him again..." Pizza is the most delicious treat in the world but I will never eat it again. Sex is the most wonderful experience of intimacy the body can give, but I will never make love to anyone again. Sunrises are glorious, inspiring and give hope for a better life, but I'll never set up the alarm clock to any of them again. Bagira, please do what you can to avoid ending up like millions of western women...unhappy, angry, unsatisfied, frustrated, scorned and negative. good like to you, dear toad GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 10:59:49 PM   luck Bagira Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/12/2004 11:38:24 PM   Toad, I want to be myself. That means I want to be sad then I am sad. If something goes extremely wrong I want to have possibility to express my feeling with tears. And want that someone will comfort me. I know that from western woman in the same situation you just expect words : “Shat up” or not the Lady’s words. Thank you for good luck. Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/13/2004 2:29:48 AM   Toad- I can understand you not wanting to get up to see the sun rise, I somewhat understand you never having sex again, But HOW IN THE HELL CAN YOU SAY NO TO A GOOD SLICE OF PIZZA???????????? jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/13/2004 3:01:58 AM   In fairness - the thread that eventually meandered its way to talk of fishing and lures and which was started by me, refered directly to how this site was straying far from any discussion of Russian women. Having made that point - it seemed not to have anywhere to go. So it seemed a good outlet for such off topic subjects as fishing - after all tough the topic of this forum is clear - it seems that we know each other (perhaps sometimes more than we want to) on different levels as well. I cvan even see SOME of the political discussion about Ukraine - after all many of us have ladies there or may want to travel there. But it IS important to try and stay a LITTLE on topic more than we have been lately. I mean even discussion on the right hotels to stay at or to avoid is on subject. You have to give the moderators here credit for allowing SOME of us to trash this very forum and not making liberal use of the delete key. This is a GREAT service (fiance.com) and I'm glad I found it. Usually. jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/13/2004 3:06:55 AM   Bagira: I would like to know what happened that you met the best guy in the worlf - but you will not see him again and are now interested in Russian guys. Tis IS on subject with this forum and if you care to tell us more I for one would be very interested. GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/13/2004 8:37:52 AM   Dale, Those lines were actual statements made by several US women in conversations with me; one of them made by my ex wife. All of them frustrated, angry, man pee pee hating women. Bagira's comment about her wonderful man that she will never see or talk to again reminded me of them. toad Bagira Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/13/2004 11:20:07 AM   jetmba, When he understood that I love him he felt trapped and decided to come back to his ex-wife with whom he had divorced 5 years ago. She is a nice woman and I think they suit each other very well. And I express my feelings with tears. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Why are we here????
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