Nice day to everyone.I am Russian lady trying to find a good and caring husband.I had no idea that so many men in internet are not serious.I just found this site. Is there someone serious?
But I guess you are right about serious and not serious.. We (the guys) are focusing on girls that are scammers and so on, but I guess it cannot be easy for you either.. A lot of guys promising gold and diamonds, and never even have the guts to get on a plane, or worse.. may be already married (I heard a terrible story the other day..), and are using FSU women just to kill some time, while the women believe they are seriously looking for a partner in life... Unfortunately ruslady, there are a lot of men that are just jerks! We tend to call them keyboard-Romeos :)) I think you will find most guys in the forum serious, but it also seem like most of them have been lucky already... but.. who knows? Good Luck!
There are worse than keyboard Romeo's. There are also those that go to these countries only to have a good time. It's more than just killing time, they looking for sex under the pretense of a permanent relationship.
Miss, there are certainly serious men here and those that either are not serious, not prepared, or out to take advantage of you.
All you can do is try. Of course, this forum is here to answer what we can reasonably answer.
Don't look south of you say Greece:) men are awful treating their wives as maids, they scream and yell all the time, and are womanizers as well. Assuming we're talking about those men seriously thinking to get married, Americans are just a better breed, they make better, more dedicated husbands overall (with exceptions of course).
I would include Greece as well into Wtravs accounts of places NOT to go find husbands.
My fiance's best friend is married to one of those greek bozos and lives there.
He treats her like dog poop stuck at the bottom of his shoe.
She is so worried about her, that she seriously thinks he is going to kill her one of these days.
American men are your best choice...(unless they're from New York, they do not like anybody and nobody likes them, either..:)
California is the best place to live in US despite the earthquakes, mudslides, forest fires, freeway shootings, gay marriages, the many 'nuts, fruits & flakes' people and the governor with heavy Austrian accent.
I am sorry Toad.. I cannot just sit here quietly and agree with you on this one.. ;))
How can you say such a thing?? Americans are people from all over the world.. If you are not a native indian..
Italians, Norwegians, Swedes, Spanish, Britons, french and so on.. You are all immigrants... What makes you a better choise??
From it's creation in 1776, America has been a country made up of groups of immigrants from many different nations. Virtually everyone has come from somewhere else. Either their ancestors, or they, were born in this country. The majority did not speak english when they arrived. America has often been described as a melting pot - a place where people from many nations come together to be "mixed and melted" together to form a new race of individuals - called Americans... But anyone who has ever visited USA realizes that this prosess does not always work. More often than not, ethnic groups remain "unmelted" side by side. And instead of America changing them, it is often they who change America. Today, America can probably be better described as a pot of stew than a melting pot. The different ethnic groups, like vegetables in a stew pot, retain their own special characteristics and flavors while contributing to the overall success of the dish...
But better than the rest?? I don't think so.. you are like us, just as we are like you... The difference is not big as long as we talk about modern, democratic, civilized countries :)
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(I knew this one would raffle some feathers)
ruslady,
Allow me to correct my previous statements.
American men are NOT your best choice.
Only men from all over the world who live in California are your best choice. Ditch all the other ones..:))
I am doing just great to be honest :) Hope you are too!
Yes, I think it is a good idea to keep away from us Norwegians :) you see... If you experience a Norwegian, you will never be able to enjoy something else.. You don't wanna lower your standards, do you??
LOL :)))
Let's get some action in this forum.. it have been kind of slow the last couple of days...
Toad,
Have you heard anything about how izi is doing? I hope he didn't get the whole stay ruined by the accident..
Oh, Thank you all for your responses. This is very interesting. It was funny about all people from all over the world but who live in California:)
As to be serious, yes, I was talking about men who just like to play games. How to protect from them? Maybe you can help how to recognize a not honest man? (at least in correspondence?). You are men and so I think you can explain such things much better than any woman.
I see you are from different countries. This is so nice. Do you have a warm weather there already? I do miss summer and sun.
Well, I guess our californian friend have pretty warm weather...pfffffff
In southern Norway we have spring now, and pretty warm and nice weather :))
Where do you live?
About recognizing a honest man.. hmm.. I understand this is a problem for you girls.. I think what makes this difficult to answer is the fact that some of these guys are great talkers.. They know exactly what to say, and when to say the right thing.. That is their skill... I think you could ask him for his phone-number, if he tell you to call at specific times, or send an sms before calling, or other things this could be "red flags".. May be write down key words of your conversations to check if he keep to his story, also after a while.. -or just find a Norwegian... Great guys.. LOL
I could bet I just heard someone mumbling about California again...!
Who needs the coastal town of Eureka, the vineyards of Sonoma and Napa, stunning mount Sasha, Lake Tahoe or some other Californian tourist-magnet as long as there is Norwegian guys just a couple of hours away... Close to friends and family, close to happiness.. LOL ----ok Californian.. Beat that!!! :))))))
"...Do you have a warm weather there already? I do miss summer and sun..."
Sorry guys, another russian lady falls in love with California...(too bad neither the laws of the land not russian women are fans of poligamy)...I seriously doubt Lena would ever go for it, lol.
ruslady,
Among other signs, you can recognize a player if he ever asks you to meet him somewhere far from your hometown...or refuses to give you his mailing address or home phone number (wife at home?)..or name his kids...or give you his last name.
I'll think of someother ones later...boy, there are 1000s, lol
I know my geography my friend :)
To tell you the truth I wrote an essay about California in high school :)
**At first "California" meant the peninsula on the west coast of modern Mexico, now known as Baja California or Lower California. The Spaniards believed they had discovered an enormous island. Only as they ventured further inland did they find that "california" extended north to join the continent. They named this extension "Alta California", the region that now forms
the 31st state of the United states of America :)))***
**There are heavy snow in the high mountain ranges, mild and temperate conditions along the coast, wide variations in temperature and humidity in the valley's, and very hot in the desert*** :)))
Sounds ok actually..
I'll call you an hour before I arrive so you will have time to warm up the BBQ....
Just make sure the beer is cold! ;)