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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Question about greeting customs Author Post DaveS Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/28/2007 4:14:44 PM   Hello and sorry if this question was already answered. I searched and didn't find anything. I am due to meet my lady in Kazan for the very first time in a few days. We are both very excited and nervous at the same time. We have been writing to each other for over 6 months and now it's finally going to happen! She is meeting me at the airport. Sorry if this sounds silly, but what is the proper way to greet her? Is it a double kiss as in some of Europe, or "air kisses" or just a hug or what? I'm sure I won't offend her, but I just want to make sure I don't embarrass her. As I said we are nervous already, anything to make the transition smoother would be helpful. Can anyone tell me what the custom is for our first time greeting? Thank you! DaveS Olga Moderator send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/28/2007 4:34:51 PM   be yourself. smile, hug and kiss her. you have been friends for 6 months. Cycleserg Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/28/2007 6:25:27 PM   Just don't slip her the tongue. That would be bad form. I actually wondered the both times I went to the FSU what to do when I met her. I was nervous like you. The first lady gave me a peck. The second lady practically jumped me. Go figure. boredffukka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/28/2007 7:20:02 PM   I have discovered the best greeting is to drop your trousers down to your ankles. very effective,works every time aussieman41 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/29/2007 12:27:43 AM   Does not that mean, getting her to take her knickers off too and getting her to bend over so you can take her from behind, boredffukka..I think a lot of FSU girls will give you a slap acroos the face and storm out if you do that kind of insubtle rough greeting! What happenned to male chivalry in you you, boredffukka..I think you would have to one the clowns and insensitive pricks of this forum..whats your next subject, russian ptung! jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/29/2007 2:42:51 AM   The two Eastern European laidies ladies I have met in arports tend to be fairly reserved in public. As a result, since the initial meeting tends to occur in high traffic areas, its best to give a quick hug or perhaps a peck on the cheek and move on. She is likely to be as unsure as you are as to what to expect. And she is quite likely to be aware that the customs of YOUR culture might be very disimilar to hers. And if you screw it up altogether - you will probably get over it quite quickly. stevecentral Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/29/2007 6:23:25 AM   Please do not expect too much of Kazan Airport. It is very small and there was a dreadful smell, the only thing to worry about is the taxi drivers that will pester you when you arrive there. Cycleserg Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/29/2007 11:34:58 AM   I think Jet said it best, a peck on the check and move on. aussieman41 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/30/2007 6:23:39 AM   I remember when I meet my first foreign wife in Fiji in 1989, which was a former British colony and Westernised, her Indian culture frowned on showing affection including kissing and hugging in public between man and woman and she never ever displayed that, even after years in Australia with me as it was her cultural raising and belief not to do it and it was perfectly normal for her..For a long time, I did not really understand it and why. I suspect FSU girl will be publically reserved too and not display affection but that does not mean she does not love you, its what goes on behind closed doors that matters and to be able to get a woman, that if she is even pissed with you, she cools down reasonably quickly and that you can talk it over in bed and make up..thats love! nasfan6 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/30/2007 6:48:01 AM   Maybe you should ask her how she would like to be received before arrival? This isn't some mystic country you are going to. After talking to my wife for months on the phone before my arrival, I knew what to do without asking the question and if I didn't kiss her on my arrival she would have been offended. I think you guys will know what to do depending on the level of communication you've had. boredffukka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/30/2007 7:15:40 AM   aussieman61 This is a custom i learnt in australia. Many Australian men practice my recommended custom of introduction. Fiore Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/30/2007 2:34:06 PM   I can't agree more with Olga :-) aussieman41 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/30/2007 10:46:39 PM   Boredffukka, all men want to eventually get inside a girls panties..its a matter of just how fast you can do it as all girls are different, some will spread there legs for you on the first date while others you have to earn there respect or even marry them first before they do it..I prefer a girl does it well before marriage as each must sample the goods on offer before making a serious committment. Seriously most men who go the FSU or internationally to meet a girl will want to and expect to "sow there oats" when they are abroad. Its tricky in a foreign country with foreign customs..when is the right time to take the clothes off and screw a FSU girl or make a come on to go to bed, without offending the girl or her cultural beliefs. I agree a lot of men want to wine and dine a date in Australia and then after the meal, go to the bedroom, get the clothes off and fook her. The last 2 Aussie chicks I had, we fooked at the second meeting, within a couple of days of first meeting each other as they were sexually frustrated, so was I and we wanted to blow our loads! The last chick I meet, we meet in the afternoon at McDonalds McCafe for a coffee and cake for the first meeting and then she rang me up the same day around 11 p.m and came over to my house, we went to bed and fooked! I don't know if this kind of sexual behaviour after a meeting is the done thing in the FSU..I think these girls are more conservative..you may loose the girl very quickly if you ask her to take of her clothes too soon. I really don't know what the sexual behaviour or etiquette is for girls from say 25 to 40 years old in places like the Ukraine and Russia..maybe some of the more seasoned veterans of this forum who have made the trips to the FSU, meet the girls and fooked them, might enlighten us, inexperienced foreign travellers here! beemer18 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/31/2007 1:07:34 AM   Seriously most men who go the FSU or internationally to meet a girl will want to and expect to "sow there oats" when they are abroad So where did you get this fact from, Aussie?????????? I really don't know what the sexual behaviour or etiquette is for girls from say 25 to 40 years old in places like the Ukraine and Russia Now you say you really don't know??????????? I would think not too different than any where else in the world!!! boredffukka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/31/2007 8:16:37 AM   beemer i agree with you i think the appaling behaviour promoted by aussieman61 is a disgrace to this forum, is it any wonder women from Russia and other fsu countries run a mile when confronted by the - "all men want to eventually get inside a girls panties" attitude that aussieman lives his life by. Globus Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/31/2007 8:18:47 AM   I think any guy who is really attracted to and interested in a girl is going to want to get her into bed, it's just how we are. It doesn't matter if she is a Russian woman you have travelled all the way around the world to meet or a girl you date who lives down the road from you. Whether you can get a Russian women into bed or not (or any girl for that matter) probably depends on how much she is into you, that's all. If you meet and things are going well but she has no interest in you intimately and maybe even romantically then that should be a red flag for you I think. My former lady who I met three times told me she loved me and wanted to marry me, thought I was beautiful, told me she loved when we held hands and kissed and loved when I touched her BUT she would not sleep with me at all no matter how hard I tried to get with her the last time we met. That turned me off of her a lot and really made me wonder what was really going on with her. I really loved her and probably could have waited for her but it was getting very frustrating for me. It's partly why things went sour between us I think. Personally I am not going to wait to get married to someone before I sleep with them. If any girl ever wanted me to go along with that archaic ritual she would be out the door fast. You should at least know whether or not you are compatible sexually before you decide to spend your whole lives together. aussieman41 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/31/2007 10:23:04 AM   Beemer,I had one successful personal visit with a foreign girl, my former wife. Yes, you do play it by ear, as you go along..go with the flow. The Indian culture is strict..no sex before marriage that sort of things but me and my ex got away with a lot of taboo things in the culture when I visited her, behind closed doors, behind the bushes, out of sight..fooked her a dozen times in a 3 week visit..it was wild love, fairy tale stuff..the fairy tale love can happen..one of my friends said to me before I left for Fiji on the personal visit, you are going over there to fook her and come back with a wife and sure enough I did all that. Maybe I will adopt my former strategy, carefully, naturally and as steady as she goes and put on the romantic charm and get into a girls panties when ever I do another foreign trip..foreign girls are not totally dismissed, plenty of countries to choose from..the local Aussie women are crap and spoilt and ungrateful b's. Beemer when are you going on another trip? As to where I get the fact from..for years many Aussie men have gone to Asia on sex trips, to sow the oats and its no big secret and theres lots of other countries to (FSU would be very expensive for a sex trip for an Aussie about 3 or 4 times the cost of Thailand etc.) choose from. Every man expects sex on a personal visit abroad, you put on the romantic charm, open your wallet a bit and the girl may open her legs if she is a real girl and you do it right and show you are "the catch" for her. 9davo Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/31/2007 10:56:04 AM   to "get inside a girls panties" as somone here mentioned is why many Russian ladies avoid contact with western men. These ladies can quickly suss out a sex tourist . Sex tourists give western man a bad name. gladiatorUK Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/31/2007 2:01:39 PM   aussieman: "Every man expects sex on a personal visit abroad, you put on the romantic charm, open your wallet a bit and the girl may open her legs if she is a real girl and you do it right and show you are "the catch" for her" love the stone age thinking aussie,with an attitude like you have you are sure to add to the overwhelming success you have already enjoyed. Should you ever visit the FSU I suspect another type of dinosaur will soon become extinct!!! Thunderdome Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/31/2007 7:17:08 PM   Gladdie, of all his posts this one's the one who says it all. If he's from Sydney he frequents King Cross no doubt, showing his wallet making clear he's a great 'catch'. Ozzi, no doubt you're a man, and no doubt either you're a disgrace to your nation. You will be single still at 81, so go change yer nick..... Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Question about greeting customs
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