Ok this is probably the 3rd or 4th times since I get a lady's number from an agency and she keep saying call me later. Is she not interested, is this a custom in russia that I should get the hint, or is she just busy?
Third of fourth time and she keeps telling you to call later? That's got to be a scam. She'll take your money before you knew it was even gone.
Just kidding. I don't believe you have enough information at this point. I suggest that you keep calling until you get tired of it. That sounds like soon. I have called a few ladies and that has never happened to me. Usually, if they don't want to talk to me, they won't answer the phone. The reason I know they didn't want to talk to me is I persisted until I got an answer.
I think she wants you to call, but you are not one of her priorities. The priority could be another foreigner like you. There is a slight chance that she was genuinely busy all those times.
Good point. Sometimes, my gf tells me to call later because she is in a bad neighborhood and she wants to be quiet and be aware of her surroundings, and sometimes she's on the bus and she does not want people to look at her funny because she is speaking English.
I made the mistake of not calling a lady when she thought I would call. It was more of a miscommunication. But still she indicated in other words that she was p.o'd. We later met. Scheduled the next night and she sms's and cancelled an hour before date. I called a few times and got no answer. Could have been spite on her part. I assumed what Dunromin said. She just wasn't interested. Could be my mistake but the damage was done. I moved on. Your case may be different. But it's time to move on...
Making the real connection is difficult enough when she really cares. When she doesn't, it's impossible!
The problems with calling, and lack of email responses, are evidence enough. If you are a caring man, who wants to be a good husband, there's somebody out there who really wants to meet you.
I sometimes need to remind myself, "Give your time and energy to those who appreciate and care about you!"
I know that everybody already knows this... but men are stupid and we forget... there are lots of women with beautiful faces, which we can see on our computer screens, or during our visits. A good life together requires a beautiful spirit, which we can see by how she treats people. I fell in love (really hard) with a young beauty who certainly has a soft side, but I knew from the start that she can be very tough on people. Still tending to my wounds...
Call and type until your fingers bleed, then the slow realization comes that you are a stalker.....there are many girls out there happy to receive your phone calls, emails
and sms messages. Move along cube dude...
You are right, Dunromin. It is probably true in other women, other than FSU women. But there is always exception to the rule. It maybe unlikely, but it happens.
If a Russian woman is interested she’ll make the time, arrange the specifics and forgive a surprising number of transgressions.
thats true.
but,i think you just described all humans since the beginning of time. other than their model looks, is a russian woman in love any different from a thai woman in love, or an american or british. i hardly think so.
when a woman likes you you will know it.
that is why you should never try to hard to gain a womans affections. women don't like desparation.
In the event that the woman have a managerial, administrative or professional position she could certainly find difficulty answering the phone at a moments notice.
A sales girl for instance, might not be free to talk just any old time. She may have a customer waiting, or a manager.
Now it the same girl repeatedly tells you to call later - then of course you SHOULD be suspicious.
But if the women are working class - and you call them on the job without consideration for their schedules - don't be surprised if they ask you to call later.
"In the event that the woman DOESN'T have a managerial, administrative or professional position she could certainly find difficulty answering the phone at a moments notice."