''What's the best way to send Money'' - DON'T - is the best advise !!!!
I have many friends who are ladies here , who would like to meet a genuine guy, Kharkov is full of them. There is no problem with speaking English. Best advise is get on a plane and come to Kharkov, then go for a walk in the centre of the city , where you will see loads of beautiful girls, just walk up to them, ask them if they speak a little English, if not just move on to the next beautiful girl. Its that simple ! - I had an American guy staying last week, he did just that and dated 12 different girls in 5 days !!
Forget long winded emails and the scammers and get yourself here for a few days - you wont regret it !!
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Sounds good advice. The letter writing is a load of cack. The ladies have scores of letters to write to guys and t is completely non personal. In many cases it becomes expensive to reply, what with membership fees, pay per letter and all the other fees that crop up. IMO the agencies are making a fortune from letters and on some sites, the girls are too (( I'm sick of little Lolitas thinking that I'm stupid enough to send them money too. I've just chased two from this website. When will they realise that their emails are easily traced! XMailer The Bat is just a big giveaway! Another on here tried to get me to join another agency?? Thankfully there are nice girls to write to as well and I've got a few that I would like to meet but not after months of emails. I'm not desparate either, but I would prefer a meeting and a real conversation than writing polite cack for months on end.
So if what you are saying is true, I'll look at a flight over in the Summer. I prefer to talk to a woman than hide behind a keyboard. )) Do you have any personal recommendations as to accomodation. best places to meet women while there?
How many more times is he going to commercially advertise that bloody website before he reads the "about" (above) regarding commercial postings on this forum not being allowed?
Everyone is so sure of this, yet most do it on the side and not discuss it. I can understand not sending money to women you have not met, but there are exceptions. Suppose you want to meet in Kiev and she's in Simferopol? It's great if she has the money to travel and do not need any, but it is not expensive to give train fare.
I believe if you have decided to marry, it's a different ball game. I have shared in this forum what I do and was told I am ruining it for everyone. Sorry, but it has now become a family matter. Noone will tell me how to run my family. The only reason I share it here is because it is anonymous and we are here to solve and discuss our experiences.
I doesn't sit well with me...sending money to a woman I met on the internet.
It's just my opinion and I have various reasons. It's been my experience that if you start this way then the woman will feel entitled.
The woman I'm with now...who is not Ukrainian or fsu, would never accept money from me. There have been a few times when she has been in need but and I offered but was refused point blank.
She is very scornful of a woman who accepts money from a man.
A woman met on the internet is still a woman. She still will be my wife. Her daughter will still be my daughter. Whether or not it sits well with someone or if someone is scornful, is not enough to keep me from my duties or what I perceive my duties to be.
Not trying to tell you how to live your life or anything...I ain't walked in your mocassins. Just expressing a point of view is all.
I'd never give a woman money who asked for it. And for any European woman who even hinted that she was entitled she got the heave.
I don't see that any woman in any country should be treated differently.
I don't recommend my methods with anyone because I realize people have been burned. She is my loved one and she is having a hard time. I don't give much. I have not given close to the amount some of those who disclosed how much they lost. I just want her to be a little more comfortable.
RB, no criticism is being directed to you by me whatsover. We come on here to provide a pov.
Mine is that too many women from use the "traditional values" card to their advantage. Meaning the woman stays at home and the man is the breadwinner. This doesn't happen in the real world for most working people.
My parents both worked because they had to. My ex-wife never had a full time job in her life; chose to work part time and never contributed whatshe earned to the household. I would never put myself in this situation again.
Of course; do with your own money as you choose.
It just sems to me the question is never asked:- How did these girls manage before the western man came along?
Like I've said before; I wasn't averse to giving a woman a few quid to help her out...but nowadays I stay away from women who, once they recieve a little decide that they are entitled to some more.
Maybe it's just my scottish meanness.
''Not-so-Smart Martin''
I thought this forum was for genuine guys to exchange help, ideas, experiences etc about meeting FSU ladies. Surely the best advise is from someone who has actually done it, ie come to Ukraine, meet a beautiful lady, sell up in Uk, move to Ukraine, arrange Visas for both Ukraine and UK travel, invest in and run a business here. AND along the way meet many guys that come here from all over the world and then pass on any advise. I'm very sorry with you 'The great master' who is so obviously so much more experienced than me.
I Tried to find something interesting and useful for everyone that you have written reasontly on this forum - all I found was a posting written to you by one of your many fans!!
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''Martin, your a lonely old man who thinks that he's years on this planet have made into a man full of wealth and wisdom.
It's now time, to pack your bags and go away from the forum, even the moderators, who protected you for so long, have had enough of you.
Thanks for the memories and the lies.
Goodbye not-so-smart martin''
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RB<RacingBoll, sorry RadingBullocks, or whatever - I HAVE CHECKED SPELLING AND I HOPE EVERYTHING IS UP TO YOUR STANDARD
I know the behavior of a woman must be scrutinized, especially when you give her money. My biggest red flag is if she is a liar.
Now, you're into name calling, sjk. The spelling criticism was meant as a criticism. There is a poster here under different names and makes offensive posts. I don't claim to be a great speller. Yet, this poster, has criticized my spelling, and yet he also misspells.
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