In your home country, can you spot the gold diggers from the good prospects? I've written too many times how this worked out for me to repeat it again but here you go for the fine points. I turned 55 three days ago. The woman i married last night is 35. She is so far out of my league it's not for certain if she's even a human, not an angel. So you older guys, drop all idea of leagues. Don't marry any that are more than 20 years younger, and don't marry any under 30 any way. I've done harder things in the rest room than finding a great woman here. Use the multi letter, 4 day stay method,
Hers an idea, my way i ended up writing a total of about 800 honest open and sincere letters in 6 months. Maybe my honest letters got honest responses. Maybe you can't get away with the same 13 form letters? Miracles don't happen unless you make them.
The age difference is relative and it is more about maturity than years.
Take two examples:
One girl is 25, she is divorced and from the provinces, has a 5 year old child which she conceived when she was 20, the guy disappeared when the kid was 1 year old as he decided he was not prepared to take the responsibilty for the kid. She has had to fend for herself and the kid through the best years of her life.
Another girl is 35, she lives in a city like Kiev. She has never been married or had a long term relationship. She has spent her time living it up in th city, picking up guys for fun, not for commitment, then one day she decided she needs to catch a foreigner as she is getting too old for the local men. But with foreigners she can still have fun.
Which one is more likely to be more mature and be careful to be loyal and nice to you for fear of being left again?
The way you went about finding your woman worked for you but it is not THE formula by any means.
Are you writing your messages from the honeymoon suite?
There are a lot of Ukrainian women who would jump at the chance to meet a decent man but getting them together is the problem. My wife knows many women who do not have a husband, she is thinking of making a website but is hesitant since you only make money when they visit.
My site only has links to affiliates. She might try starting one that just uses affiliates since it pays good. I have so much work I am having a hard time keeping up with my website.
well the whole porn industry is built on affiliates but she will have some original content if she does a weekly or monthly interview with a perspective lady.
I think they try to change things up just to screw with the people who are making a lot of money. I finally got her sumyukraine site up she is busy posting pictures.
Google updates have been coming four times a year. They named them Panda updates and Penguin updates. They change the rules because people have been finding ways to exploit them. That is what they say. It is confirmed when I run into an explanation of what they did on the updates.
If you have ways of getting traffic other than search engines other than email marketing, I would appreciate a PM. Thanks.
A psychologist on TV once said that the magic age is 26 for male and female. The divorce rate after that age dramatically decreases. Before that, people are still searching for and adjusting their character attributes.
You dispute the statistics the, Wifeseeker? When one speaks of rate, they are talking about statistics. The average age when divorce rate goes down. It is not the same for everyone.
You can chance it with a 22 year old, and you could be right. You could chance it with a 30 year old and be wrong.
"Don't marry any that are more than 20 years younger"...
You don't say?? Jesus you guys scare me... so a 20 years younger is OK??? where the hell are you people from? US? EUROPE? I wonder if any of you would let me marry your 19 years old daughter when i'm 40 :D Cause if you wouldn't let us, then your a total freak to look for such a girl yourself!!!
Jesus! Old Freaks... And you wonder why every girl is either a scam or gets together with you because of your money... what else do you think you could have to give when your only 10 years away from the average life expectancy, and she still doesn't have 1 white hair on her?
Freaks...
I will tell you what I would not let my daughter do: get involved in an affair with a man with no principles like you, when she is married, even if her husband is 50 years older tham her.
What statistics? did that psychologist turn up at the TV programme with a full report carried out by the United Nations or WHO or somebody like that?
Here are some real statistics in the UK:
The number of divorces in 2011 was highest among men and women aged 40 to 44.
If you do not believe it here it is. GOVERNMENT statistics:
http://www.ons.gov.uk/ons/rel/vsob1/divorces-in-england-and-wale s/2011/stb-divorces-2011.html
The opinion of that psychologist has as much validity as what Hamid... comes here to say, in my book.
You take a chance with anybody, you could get involved with a horny 50 year old woman with an STD.
Look at the profiles of some women in those dating sites. You get 40 year old women (never married) dressed like 22 year old hookers telling you there is a lot of fun awaiting you with them. What maturity?
I have a Facebook friend (no love interest) who is this gorgeous 24 year old Ukrainian girl. She works from home trying to build up a business and in her spare time she works in her local church helping with all kinds of things like charity events for children, old people and people affected by the current troubles. That is maturity.
I would rather chance it with my Facebook friend.
I do not approach girls under 25 but that is my choice due to the age difference rather than me thinking they are not mature.
It has been a while since I first heard the psychologist on TV, Wifeseeker. I did look for statistics at that time and it was confirmed.
I scrutinize statistics whenever I see them. Your data does not say UK. It says England and Wales. I do not know the UK as much as you do, but do you wonder why that is? What would the statistics say if it is the whole UK?
I also looked at the data. Honestly, I don't understand it. But, I did notice the dates. The dates were statistics of 1957 - 2011. It makes me wonder why they only state 2011 England and Wales when there is a lot more data there.
Believe what you want. If I clicked with a 24 year old, I would probably do the same thing. It makes sense that younger ages, men as well as women must have time to form their personality. That is what the psychologist said. The statistics I looked at long ago I will not look for, but here is an updated version.
The only places that were missing from the UK in the statistics were Scotland and Northern Ireland, with much smaller populations than England and Wales combined and bigger family problems due to the Scots' drinking.
England and Wales are usually dealt with separately as Scotland has its own laws, statistics, etc.
I am too busy to set about looking for statistics for Scotland and N Ireland.
As I have heard it, things got worse for divorces among the middle aged in 2012-13. Ohterwise, why do you think there are so many middle aged divorced men looking for a wife in the FSU?
The statistics on that USA page only go to show that there are vast differences even between two 'cousin' Western countries, let alone places like the FSU, Thailand, Mexico, etc.
Your statistics are for American women, not FSU women.
I understand that in the FSU the divorce rate among young people is high. Many young women in the dating sites have already been married and even have a baby but what about the factors surrounding the marital problems? money, drinking, infidelity, political and economic conditions, health and education services, jobs, etc. Little to do with personality forming.
What I hear from FSU women, in the dating sites, about their marriages are:
"We lived in a room in his mother's tiny flat and she did not like me"
"He never managed to hold a job"
"He was cheating on me from day one"
"We had nothing"
"He drank and mistreated me"
Etc.
The girls must have done their bad things too.
One can look at a data and come up with their own conclusions. I often see along the web claims that the US debt increased more under President Reagan than under President Obama. If you look at the rate (they almost always say rate), they are right. Using round numbers, the US debt increased under Reagan from $1 trillion to $2 trillion, a 100% increase. With President Obama, it went from $9 trillion to now, almost $17 trillion. He has another trillion to go to match Reagan.
Global warming advocates also use the data to substantiate their claims. They show data that the temperature increased in the US in the last decade. What they failed to show is the rest of the world, which has remained steady. We even see it in the forum. Some came up with data that guns increased crime. Others, decrease.
As it relates to divorce Wifeseeker, we can also come up with our own conclusions. I have not seen anything in your claims that made me change my mind. The data is with the US, but I believe it can also apply to other countries, in principle. Divorces because drinking, cheating, mistreating, financial problems usually occur quickly as compared with other problems. If it suddenly rose in 2012 - 2013 among the middle aged, I can see that it is probably because of the recession. If it doesn't decrease as times get better, then I will agree with you.
Funny that you state that the divorce rate among the young people is high. That supports my claim and not yours that there is a "magic age" when one's maturity and personality has reached the marrying age.