This topic was created not to make any advertisement. Talking about agencies I don't mean dating sites, but local agencies where women come to find their men from abroad. Such local agencies cooperate with different sites and there are thousands of them all over Ukraine. I created this topic for men to ask questions if they wish to know how it works from inside.
Ragingbull, everything is not just black and white. Are the girls paid? It depends on the agency. Some agencies prefer to pay girls and in such a way they are attracting young model-looking girls as clients but everything is not so bad, there are many agencies who work to get a definite result - married couples. Fortunately this practice (paying girls) is not too frequent but still as far as I have heard it exists. People who do it just don't care about tomorrow. They don't think that sooner or later it will become evident and their business will fail. They don't think about their reputation that is one of the most important things in our business because only good reputation attracts more clients to the agency. For sure we are trying to fight with that because then those girls are running from one agency to another trying to sell themselves at a higher price. But any respectable agency who cares about its reputation won't take such girl as a client. I have also heard that some interpreters tell men such things about the whole business but more often such interpreters are just the ones who were fired because of scam or something else and in such a way they are trying to take vengeance. Here you just have to be able to sort the wheat from the chaff.
If you gave a girl from a poor country a choice between two agencies, one who pays her and one who does not, which would she choose? In that sense, I don't believe agencies who don't pay their girls can survive. Or can they?
Hello to everyone! I'm a representative of Ukrainian marriage agency.
Working for 6 years in this field I realized that it's very complicated for many men to understand what is true interest from the lady and what is false. Please don't think that I'm here to advertise my agency (I've enough clients). I'm not here to tell you that UA girls are 100% please write them and come to visit, no.
But I'm going to tell you the truth, maybe sometimes you will not like my honesty. But if you would like to hear the truth you are welcome to ask me.
First of misunderstanding for many men is to call one or another site good or bad, scam or honest. Please remember that everything depends on the local agency. For ex. one of the last topics here is NatashaClub. some men called it scam. What do u mean when you call it scam? at the same site you can find a genuine lady and a scamer. It depends on the control: 1. of the local agency 2. the site.
Still Anastasia has very strict rules for agencies and ladies. But if you really believe that a typical UA lady will sit at the computer for several hrs a day 5 days a week... I have nothing to add! Please understand a REAL lady has to go to her work, she has to study, she has to spend the time with her child... Our UA nature is that we are waiting for a first step from the men, we don't like to impose themselves.
I have come here not with the purposes of advertising, so I won't write any names. You just have to be careful when you chose women. Fake agencies have only model looking beautiful young clients and real agencies have more women over 30, often with children. So if you are 50 years old, don't look for girls who can be your daughters of even granddaughters. More and more often our femal clients of 35-40 years old get letters from 55-65 years old men that they (women) are too old for them and that they (men) are looking for someone under 25. I know that when a new man comes to the dating sites his head starts twirling after so many beautiful young women's profiles but after looking at them, you have to turn on your sober mind. Too often it is not a matter of good or bad agencies, but of men who don't wish to face the truth and prefer to be lied.
If you gave a girl from a poor country a choice between two agencies, one who pays her and one who does not, which would she choose? In that sense, I don't believe agencies who don't pay their girls can survive. Or can they?
1. The country is not as poor as you imagine.
2. If a girl has serious intentions, the fact that the agency will pay her for corresponding with men will call for many suspicions in its reputation and a serious lady won't go to such an agency. TRy to put yourself on a place of such a lady. What would you think and do? Personally I, if I looked for my man abroad, would have too many questions about real intentions of such agencies.
Shine_bright is 100% right. Please make your desicion before you start writing to a lady: you come to the site to meet a lady to be happy with, to take her to your country, to share lonely evenings, to have a supportive, sweet and loving wife OR you come just to have a FUN!?! If you (confess to yourself honestly, not to other people) the first option that please be more realistic. A modeal young lady will never be with a man around 50 and older.
She will write you in her letters that it's normal age difference in our country (that's lie) and of course she will tell you that there are many mn in UA who are bad, who are alcoholic, etc. That's also not true. There are many good men here also, BUT unfortunately not many of them could treat a lady like other Western men. And of course there is another problem here - there are more men than women((
I know many good Ukrainian men (and if the lady tells you there are only bad men, just think that she probably has got a brother, father, any other men in her family, I'm sure she loves her dear people) but still I know many stories when men treated our UA ladies very bad.
There are thousands of agencies in Ukraine?? I agree,,,, but yet nobody here seems to know of an honest one!
Can you name one or two??
Lonelyranger, you have the wrong attitude from the very beginning. One more time let me underline that I have come here not with the purpose of advertising or telling the names of sites or local agencies because all sites have pretty large database of serious women along with scammers. You don't have to look for a good agency, you have to look for a good woman. Not an 18-25 years old model, not someone who stays in chatrooms for 24 hours a day, but a woman that will be closer to your age and your life style. Men usually think that if they find an honest agency, all their problems will be solved but it is not true. How can you know the name of the local agency the lady belongs to if you correspond with her through the site? So the best advice here is to be more realistic during your search.
I can see that you have not even collected your facts right. According to the statistics in the past decades, in places like Russia and the Ukraine there have been more women than men in the age groups we are talking about, evn if it is just a small proportion. Ladies do not always complain that their men drink, they also say that there arfe not enough men (especially eligible men) to find one at least. They cannot even afford to shoose from a few.