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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > If you are a decent man, finding a good woman in Ukraine is relatively easy Author Post northkape Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 8:18:28 AM   When reading this forum, I somehow feel a little sorry for all those here, who are focusing only on potential scammers and not understanding which women are serious and not. I have been married with a beautiful young Ukraine woman for 14 years,, as good looking today as she was when we married in the summer of 2000 http://www.northkape.com//R-web/R024.jpg When marrying, she was 23 and I was 45. A photo of her together with our boys in the Crimea 2011 http://www.northkape.com//R-web/R090.jpg We decided to divorce (as good friends) more than two years ago. At that time, I made the decision to find a new wife in Ukraine, and to have her here as soon as the divorce proceedings were finished. My requirements were high. A young, non jealous, beautiful, slim, highly educated, kind, happy, good english, single mother with a single child aged 6-11 (my twin boys are 11) She also had to have a happy life with a good job / good economy, and love sex (which most young Ukraine women do) A woman that highly values working, and a close family life together with children. And on top of all this would be compatible and friendly with my ex-wife. When starting out, I was truly in doubt about this being possible at all, and wondered what corners I would have to cut. But the incredible amount of available women in Ukraine, gave me not only one,, but several very good candidates, that fulfilled every one of my requirements, within a year of searching. Since March 2013,, I have sent 3000+ intro mails, communicated with 300+, making close to 15 trips, 4+ months on ground, and driving 60K kilometers all over Ukraine, meeting with a total of nearly 40 women that fulfilled my search criteria. And having shorter or longer relationships with 6 of these women (all between 32-35), before making my final decision about whom to marry when the divorce was final. In fact, I could easily have married and been happy together with several of them. (Most of them are still single, so many women and so few serious men) I married on the 3rd of January this year with one of the nicest women I ever met in my life. A 32 year old small business owner that fulfilled all of my requirements and more. (I am 59) http://www.northkape.com//R-web/R488.jpg http://www.northkape.com//R -web/Zatoka-29-07-2014-xs-k.jpg http://www.northkape.com//R-web/Zatoka-03-08 -2014-xs-f.jpg She loves my boys, have met with my ex in Ukraine this summer, and have talked on the phone with her several times. Her daughter 11, like me and my boys, my boys like her and her daughter, all of us living together for 3 weeks this summer, partly in her small (45m2) apartment in Kiev. TomZ Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 5:04:26 PM   "We decided to divorce (as good friends) more than two years ago." You are a testament that these marriages never last a lifetime. Shame on you both for not keeping the marriage together for the sake of your children. You think your new marriage is going to last? No you are just trading in for the latest model... or so you think. TomZ Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 5:06:34 PM   finding a good woman in Ukraine is relatively easy "Since March 2013,, I have sent 3000+ intro mails, communicated with 300+, making close to 15 trips" 15 trips? Holy shit what are you smokin'? 15 fucking trips to find your current wife? You call that easy? TomZ Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 5:23:43 PM   Your first wife used you just to get out of Ukraine just like your second wife is doing. You poor schmuck. TomZ Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 5:59:37 PM   northkape your first marriage probably ended because your wife was a cheating whore. Admit it. Most of them are. durak Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 7:36:27 PM   Wow, got some exposed nerves? dcguy Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 8:27:53 PM   My guess is that your ex-wife returned back to the "motherland" after the divorce? Perhaps she really did not want to leave in the first place? As I said, to emigrate and leave your "comfort zone" is a destiny changing decision. Very few will have the courage to make that kind of decision. poppy Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 8:45:19 PM   do you screw the x and current wife .... you know ... tag team Rick4girl Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 9:28:02 PM   geez guys! why so harsh??? he has now done twice what most here havent done the first time. 15 trips in less than 2 years means he was very dedicated to his quest and he has achieved success again. staying together for the sake of the children can make for a very toxic environment for them and is rarely recommended. he has also been able to have good relations with ex and new wife and old wife apparently get along which is critical because of the children involved. he is also being reasonable in the age range as once over 30 the range can extend to their 29 years without significant risk of long term issues as opposed to a 20 year old with a 49 year old which carries significantly more risk. ( my relationship falls into the 20 vs 48 high risk category) why so much hate???? why not be happy for him??? ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 11:44:08 PM   Why so negative, TomZ? beemer18 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/14/2015 3:15:50 AM   Sure I am happy for him but I thought it was rather odd on his decision process. He is a good looking guy and it is a very short trip to Ukraine for him( ~3hr). And he seems to be pretty detailed on what he searches for. The oddity?? Having your current wife help you look for your next wife!!!! Most people get divorced before starting to look for next wife. And the smart ones have some time in between, especially when you have young children. I do understand he 'jumped' into another marriage, but I do wish him and his kids many good years!!! Rick, I question the 'success' part. AS you mentioned in another thread, what is success? What if you marry 10 different times or 15 times.....is that success 10 times...or 15 times???? If someone gets married, isn't that SUPPOSED to be for rest of your life???? And if it doesn't last that long...is it really a successful marriage? TomZ Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/14/2015 3:44:33 AM   R4G - I am not hating on him. I am just pointing out the inconsistency in his post "finding a good woman in Ukraine is relatively easy" "Since March 2013,, I have sent 3000+ intro mails, communicated with 300+, making close to 15 trips, 4+ months on ground, and driving 60K kilometers all over Ukraine, meeting with a total of nearly 40 women that fulfilled my search criteria." 15 trips? 60K of driving all over Ukraine? That does not sound easy to me my friend. But maybe for him it was easy. Maybe he enjoyed the trips and driving all over. On another note success is just accomplishing what you're trying to do. If you're just trying to get laid and you accomplish that then you're successful. Even Py would meet this criteria. Our_Poetic_Prince Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/14/2015 6:16:32 AM   Well I'm not going to be negative. Well done for being specific and sticking to your criteria and ultimately finding the second right one. Rick4girl Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/14/2015 10:08:23 AM   Rick, I question the 'success' part. AS you mentioned in another thread, what is success? good point beemer! my marriage was 15 years to German girl I met in America as our OP wrote, my ex also had a new replacement for me as soon as the divorce process started. I often call her American wife as she had been in US 6 years when we married and quickly came under western influence. Its taken awhile but we are civil and were both together for one of our kids events yesterday evening. She used to be very jealous of my young girlfriends but is actually approving of this newer one Pythagoras Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/14/2015 10:53:18 AM   "Since March 2013,, I have sent 3000+ intro mails, communicated with 300+, making close to 15 trips, 4+ months on ground, and driving 60K kilometers all over Ukraine, meeting with a total of nearly 40 women that fulfilled my search criteria. And having shorter or longer relationships with 6 of these women (all between 32-35), before making my final decision about whom to marry when the divorce was final." I buy that. This guy had a plan, worked very hard and make it happened. Personally , i wouldn't be able to do that because i'm a lazy bastard but i admire your commitment to the goal , wish you all the best! ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/14/2015 11:55:20 AM   "northkape your first marriage probably ended because your wife was a cheating whore. Admit it. Most of them are." This was uncalled for. I don't know how anyone dating FSU could think of such a thing. kaiserdag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/15/2015 4:54:40 PM   Holding off any critic to anyone but I will like to praise NorthK for proofing something we all knew but....we all cannot achieve... the fact that NorthK was able to replace his ex Ukrainian wife with a BETTER Ukrainian wife ...is priceless. So if my (your) FSU girl/ wife gives me any crap (gets bi-polar, fat, materialistic and cold just to mention a few) just close the chapter and move on to something better... " if you are a decent man..." any woman will find you.... bondel Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/18/2015 5:48:45 AM   an ex Ukrainian wife is an expensive wife kaiserdag Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/18/2015 9:09:10 PM   "an ex Ukrainian wife is an expensive wife" ....not for Ukrainians and child support is non-existent in Ukraine. bondel Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/19/2015 6:10:06 AM   once they get into a western country an ex Ukrainian wife is an expensive wife Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > If you are a decent man, finding a good woman in Ukraine is relatively easy
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