It is the opposite for me. I seem to be getting more letters from women closer to my age. Fewer very young women are sending me messages now (other than the obvious scam sites).
I just saw an old TV sitcom episode that dealt with a young adult daughter who fell in love with her boss who was about 25 years older than her. He proposes to her, but her parents have a difficult time accepting him. After she starts to have reservations as to how she can fit into his life (different interests, friends, activities), she decides not to marry him. Her arguments to her parents about him are somewhat valid - like why keep waiting for a "perfect mate" at a later age who might never be found? And since her parents were divorced, she also said that their previous marriage and breakup should not be compared to her relationship with her boyfriend.
But in the end of the episode, love does not conquer all.
This time when I came back as memeber again I have "filtered" all answers by saying that I am only interested in those whe can send email.
Those who came back on email seem to have good jobs all of them, so that is why I am surpried they have interest in an old man.
My daugher is 17 so it would be very odd to have a wife who is 20..
A genuine girl who is 18-19 is going to be interested in someone till 25. In some cases maybe up to 30. No more than that.
Something is afoot here. Either the site you're using is scamming you or as Martin mentioned if it's really the girl she's after your money (if you have any) in some way.
Frankly speaking I don't think girls of this age should be in agencies anyway as they are not mature enough to engage in relationships with foreigners.
99% chance they are just after your money. Based on my own experience, many arent really interested in going to USA except to visit.
I have had a 20 year old girlfriend in past year for about 6 months (broke up with her in February because she would occasionally communicate with a ex)
and have a just turned 19 year old with me now who I can say is likely with me because I can help her get into University this fall and give her
some financial assistance in exchange for a mutually beneficial relationship. In both cases, Im quite sure the relationship would go nowhere back in USA.
while I would like to get married again if the right girl materializes, I am enjoying life as it comes.
I will add that I am athletic build(6 pack abs ect.) and dont really look my age, understand the language and how life works here.
If you are fine with being in that type of relationship and can become an ex-pat in Ukraine then thats one thing. If you are looking for marriage and her to come home to your
country then start at 35 and up. I see lots of attractive and fit 35-45 year old ladies all the time.
Rick I am 40 years old and have am in good shape and do not look my age, if I wanted to bring a girl home to the west what age would you say would be the youngest I could marry and still work?
Or what age range should I be looking at? Thank you.
Tommy, at 40, for bringing a girl to USA and have a good chance at success you should probably not go lower than 25 or so because its not until then that many
girls have matured enough and have had a taste of real life. At 30 there isnt any issue at all because 10 years is a normal age difference. Most wont consider it an even remote issue.
10 years isnt really a problem in US for that matter
I have two 25 year girls that write me every day, and one 18 year.
The 18 year has never even had a boyfriend.
She is interested to be my gardener for a few weeks this summer.
Tommy wrote: "I looking mostly at 27 to 30 year old girls, so I think I should be ok then."
I think so because its realistic. There are some of us, like me, living in a fantasy world. I know the girl Im with now will never last
and that I am a way to improve her life, which we are doing, but it is a fun and exciting fantasy until a permanent solution presents itself.
The good thing is that I can now say with authority to those older foreign men who are considering a hot young girl from here is that they are only wasting their
time and money
Rick4girl a couple of years ago I was in Odessa and observed this rich older American (he was in his 60s) with his hot Odessa Barbie (early 20s) shopping bags in tow. She was prim and proper. High heels and dressed to the 9s. Everything you can imagine in a hot smokin' young female.
It is possible but you have to have a lot of money. And I mean a lot. I say if you have the bread and that's what you want go for it.
I chose 51, because that's the average age of menopause of women according to one figure. If you'll have to populate the figures yourself for more details for the additional five years.
According to wikipedia, age at first marriage for a Ukrainian girl is 24.5; 27 for an American girl. According to cia.gov, the average age of first birth among women is 25.8 for Ukraine and 25.6 for the U.S.:
I'm 34 years old. There are 2036 total 24 year old girls available who have a soft limit max of 34 years old for a man at that site. So if a woman is 24 years of age, then for me, roughly 87.57% of the time, they are available for dating, and possibly a serious relationship based on the age filter alone. Of course your situation in regards to having compatible expectations will vary.
Sites like wamba messup the screening process options however, since the ladies can't pick an exact date. There are other limitations with the data presented, but you can get a rough idea.
Bachelor's degree takes 4 years there and a Master's 5-6, and 5 years for a Specialist's degree. You'll have to have an eye out for people like rick4girl and girls with a history of such men because other stats. show that virgins as a group have less frequency of divorce.
So the figures show that age can bring stability in a relationship through personal maturity, increased reliability living the role as a man, job stability (education and job experience), and financial stability through savings, assets, investments, etc.
Finding the 'soulmate' has not only to do with the age difference however.
I am older than you and sorry to tell you, I think the young girls just want your money. I do have a few young girls on this site who are pen-pals, who like to write and just talk with me. No problem, I think that is fine. But most of the women here are too young for you. You might look at the categories of older women and you might get lucky. I haven't, but you might.
I am older than you and sorry to tell you, I think the young girls just want your money. I do have a few young girls on this site who are pen-pals, who like to write and just talk with me. No problem, I think that is fine. But most of the women here are too young for you. You might look at the categories of older women and you might get lucky. I haven't, but you might.