natalia,
You sound a sincere and honest lady, by far more sincere and honest than the liar you have for a boss.
Obviously your boss and her dyslexic boyfriend share some things in common with each other, lying for one, however I congratulate Ira on her good command of English and I wonder however she manages to communicate with a boyfriend that has no command of the English language.
Whilst writing natalia please may I ask of you what jetmba has done to be so privileged not to have your boss communicate with him? Why him and not me? I'd rather not have your boss communicate with me if all she is going to do is lie and talk sh1t!
Well I am a Urainian lady and no matter where the man is from i don't like if he has a big mouth. A real man must not speak much at all.
Do you know an old expression: keep silence and you will look smarter. So every woman still hopes to find a man who is smarter than she.
I worked hard for the right not to have irina ever speak to me. I hope to also get the same treatment from danny as well as any of the other salon "women".
Stop trying to hone in on my special treatment! :)
How will a woman learn if a man is smart if she doesn't expect him to speak much?
Julia, you are talking bollox, when I was dating my wife her, her family, and all her friends would want to communicate with me and often and if I was in a 'quiet' mood then I would be asked why I was not speaking and if I was not happy about something.
Poor Danny, with 24 good natured little tricksters plus the boss, I'll bet he has to have a mirror on the front and back of his head both when he gets a haircut there. I can just imagine what his hair would look like when they got done with him :-).
I called your missus a liar because she wrongfully accused me of having been writing letters, of saying that she is a gold digger, of saying she is only after financial gain, of calling her stupid and of her claiming that I am looking for a partner in her country.
Now if she has any substance, written substance, to back up her accusations against me then tell her to feel free and copy & paste it in this thread, if she has no such substance then she remains a proven liar and you can tell her to wind her neck in?
Well Irina I guess my opinion is that there is nothing wrong with finding out who has a sense of humor and who doesn't. When two bulls get pitted against each other in an unending argument I think it is good for a little distraction to break the stride. The girls showed ingenuity to pull this off and if the guys cannot laugh about it then they can just cry.
Martin there is a difference between being communicative with a woman and talking too much. To be a good communicator with a woman you just need to say enough to give her confidence that you care and spur her on to be comfortable talking to you. Men and women think different. Men think before they talk. Women think out loud and need someone to support and listen. Those are two important basic needs for a woman, to be able to talk, and to be listened to. That is the partners responsibility.
I have learned more about this communication in the 4 years since my divorce than I did the 20 years I was married. Each evening a woman will have some complaints. A man hears there is a problem that needs fixed when she only used this format to say I want you to appreciate what I have gone through today. If thinking like a man he says that is not a big problem but I will fix it then she interprets it as you really did not do that much today and you really do not need patted on the back for that but I will make it better for you. So you can do all the wrong things with genuine good intentions and thoroughly make a woman mad.
After 20 years of this here is what you get: My x wife would get mad and say I would never answer her questions. Then she would ask a question to which I wouldn't get 2 words out before she interrupted and answered her own question, told me I would not communicate and ask another question and did the same. At that point I just shut up and went about my business and let her scream asking her questions as well as answering for me. I learned a lot about myself hearing my answers :-).
So Martin you and Julia are both right. Communication is very important but talking a lot is not.
Martin I am too slow at responding. I did not read your last post before writing my last reply. And as far as throwing gas on the fire I do not think you could make it much worse. Anyhow I thought it was funny after finding out how it transpired.
Oz,
What she actually said was, to the effect, that to be smart one should keep silent and a 'real man' should not speak much at all.
All I'm saying is, to the effect, that one should be able to hold one's own in a conversation else it wouldn't be a conversation and her idea of a 'real man' is obviously not what others may consider to be a 'normal' man.
But to suggest that a man should remain silent and/or not speak much at all is absolute bollox, she doesn't want a man, she wants a 'yes dear, no dear, anything you say dear'.
OK effeminate danny,
I stand corrected thus you have the lying b1tch 'Inna' to say thank you to for for my mistaken calling you of a liar. Inna, Ira, Irina, you Russian ladies call yourselves so many similar names, such as a Natasha being the same as a Natalia, that Inna, Ira, Irina can quite easily be mistaken for the same identity.
I apologise to effeminate danny for mistaken identity, Natalia sounds a very nice and sincere lady, but as for the rest of your tribe of outcast poodles, well they can go .....................
But ..... why do you continue talking to me, why can I not enjoy the same privileges as jetmba, he's an American so no point in ignoring him, I'm a pom, much better if you ignore me instead!