Age difference
In UKR is not a problem at first but becomes a problem in the long run as the girl get fed up of this boring relationship with you ( ask expats living in kiev they will tell you)
In US, it's the reverse, its a problem at first to get it accept by your environment but if you manage to get through it the relationship stabilize.
Py wrote: "Age difference
In UKR is not a problem at first but becomes a problem in the long run as the girl get fed up of this boring relationship with you ( ask expats living in kiev they will tell you)
In US, it's the reverse, its a problem at first to get it accept by your environment but if you manage to get through it the relationship stabilize. "
agreed! As an "older" guy I know this predicament as I now date a 20 year old girl. I often remind her of the possible scenario but as a young girl she only looks at out active present as a measure. We likely will spend the first year in Ukraine as it will take awhile for the visa to be processed anyway. She will live in my home while we get used to our life together. I know what to expect in the US from negative people but as I have a good Ukrainian diaspora in my US home, I think we will adjust well plus we will end up spending equal time in both countries because of my work. I think she will adjust well to US culture in time and we can have good prospect over the long term(20 years)
The first 5-7 years is key
ukraine women will stay with you until your money runs out then she will run out
nah, Now western women will absolutely leave you when money runs out. I lost $1.8 million in 2007-2008...about the same time my ex
decided to have a problem with Ukraine.
"ukraine women will stay with you until your money runs out then she will run out"
Some will, some won't. I ran into a Ukrainian woman, working as a receptionist in Las Vegas. She doesn't have it in her budget to go back to Kiev for a visit, although she has not been there for five years. She is still married.
I tend to agree age should not matter if the couple are happy with each other .It is when the older in the couple gets old and with age possible I'll health,will the younger in couple still be there for them .I guess it's a gamble who knows ,but I wish you all luck and good health.
masher, it IS a gamble! So much that I cannot recommend it to anyone! It is a clear cut case of "do as i say and not as i do" and
I freely admit that. If you are willing to risk it all then go for it! I am willing to do it for a few more years because at this point
the risk is worth the reward. I cannot say at this point that I know she will stand by me if I become "disabled' in some capacity.
I returned to Ukraine today with some limitations and so far she seems ok with it. lets see what happens....
"Just think, here is a middle aged guy, either Hispanic or Asian, fat and balding, and he drives a bulldozer...who has married a baby 20 year old pretty girl, from a very disfunctunial family. He continually tells us all how well he has done...while he also brags about how his EX wife was under the dining room table at his his family Thanksgiving dinner wanting to give him head!!! Well, he sure can pick em!
I certainly wish him well....but would give his latest relationship 2 years and one day!!!!"
From Russianwomandiscussion.com forum concerning the marrige between a 40 something with someone under 21 (over 23 year difference).