Well, I started my search about 7 years ago. I only really committed myself fully to it (giving up all hope of meeting a decent woman here in Los Angeles and simply stopped dating locally) last October. Seven months later I found myself engaged to be married to one of the most amazing and remarkable (and well educated) women I have ever met in my life. So I am sharing some of what I went through and the amazing amounts of information I had to digest during that time. I am formally a trained scientist and engineer by trade so tend to get really deep into the data collection. So I try and post anything I can share to give you guys insight while still on your search. If nothing else it lets me get my mind off the wait and (hopefully) keeps the rest of you from making some mistakes and getting stuck in the pitfalls.
Obviously you are some what incapacitated perhaps you are down to your last two brain cells and they are working over time trying invain to keep up. I am sure that part of your problem too is the long distance communication factor, ie., one of your brain cells is in one hemisphere of your brain and the other cell is in the other hemisphere, perhapse the reason for the long lapses of inteligent thinking.
I just type and push into my man, I know im intelligent and have the means to prove it, I dont have to prove it by rereading everything I type so people will "think" I smart. But really i dont think you dumb, just a little misguied, and hard headed.
O.K. "I just type and press enter my man, I know that I am intelligent and I have the means to prove it. I dont have to prove it by re-reading everything I type so people will think I am smart. But really, I dont think you are dumb, just a littl misguided, and hard headed."
there better? but I perfer writing the illiterate way thanks.
Why to write the wrong way? If you will write the wrong way, some people may not understand you in a correct way...it makes the communication harder...
just from the quoted passage TD......almost inevitable that he would revert to type afterwards.........and anyway it's good practice for my wife,pointing the mistakes out!!....:))
She can spellcheck........I'll drink the Vodka!!!
Thought I have already commented on the subject of language before, I will restate it.
The most important reason I can provide is that these women WILL take you seriously if you DO try to speak their language. There are many women out there that deal with men that DO play games with them.
To put it another way, are you serious about pursuing a relationship with a foreign women? If so, why are you not willing to meet them halfway? Commitment works both ways, and not just for monetary reasons, unless you only want a one sided marriage, and then don't expect it to last.
Learning their language implies a serious commitment to the relationship.
By the way, that is not just my opinion, but my experience. They DO hold you in higher regard.
Though I have already commented on the subject of language before, I will restate it.
The most important reason I can provide is that these women WILL take you seriously if you DO try to speak their language. There are many women out there that deal with men that DO play games with them.
To put it another way, are you serious about pursuing a relationship with a foreign women? If so, why are you not willing to meet them halfway? Commitment works both ways, and not just for monetary reasons, unless you only want a one sided marriage, and then don't expect it to last.
Learning their language implies a serious commitment to the relationship.
By the way, that is not just my opinion, but my experience. They DO hold you in higher regard.
I detect an idiot?
Copy, Paste, and before you hit Enter get rid of the rubbish (a space I think) which has crept in? But it means you've got no idea what you're actually are doing, but here's news - a space is never allowed in an address.
I know thunder but it still dose not work. I tried with no space first as I though that it would not work and then I tried with a space. Idiots presum they know things and you presum I did not know that, what else can I say?