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GLTALLTOAD

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	Send: 9/15/2004 4:10:39 PM

Jet, I'm sooooo offended, lol... I'm VERY weird, not just a little. If you gents (and other creatures) want to make it to Calif, I'll be more than happy to act as host to help arrange accomodations. toad

dreamfinder

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	Send: 9/15/2004 4:19:54 PM

Uh, I understood FSU and wanted to join...

tradman

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	Send: 9/15/2004 4:49:30 PM

I am up for California, thanks toad:-))

groon

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	Send: 9/15/2004 5:34:32 PM

hmmm sounds good to me since I live here in Clai. :-)

tradman

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	Send: 9/15/2004 6:05:57 PM

Not so easy for me, but I fancy a bit of Califirnia dreamin!!!

Turboz

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	Send: 9/16/2004 3:25:33 PM

anewlife, Well it's been a while since I've posted here and so I thought (perhaps appropriately) that your topic would be the first I reply to. I'm 23. Last year I was 22 (Rather obvious eh?). I got involved with a FSU woman who was a few years older than me. Absolute beauty she was - Still is. To cut a long story short, it went pair shaped after meeting twice. I don't beleive she ever took me seriously due to my age. See from my understandings, FSU women that date western men are looking for a new life with their 'perfect man' (only erfect men are far from perfect - being perfect they usually con more women into bed at the same time). FSU women don't want to be going down the road of divorce in 5 years time because it didn't work out. They want to settle with their perfect man for life. This is something that normally only older men can offer. A lot of FSU women are going to be doubtful that a young westerner such as you and me can offer that. You see what I'm saying? - By all means go get laid but don't hold your breath - I made that mistake myself. I had a lot of hopes pinned on this one woman and when it didn't work my world not only became shaky it started to crumble. I haven't been near another woman again since and I don't intend to for a long while either. If you find that perfect woman and she beleives that it will work then go for it - I wish you nothing but success but just bear in mind that it's not going to be a shopping trip to 'buy a bride' - these women have feelings and they're going to have to work things out in their heads just like you and me. Good luck -Turboz.

wessman

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	Send: 9/16/2004 6:23:29 PM

There is a woman for every one here. I will admit though it takes work and some destiny. Ask the woman, write them and ask, hey I am 22 but I am a different cut of other guys. I am dependable and trust worthy. Then explain this to them in logic with a story, men are visual and woman need to feel all about it. So you would say some thing like; Dear Rapunzel. I love your photo with the long flowing hair, I am writing this rather long letter to let you know that I am serious about finding a wife. I know my second half is out there some place and I only can hope it is you. I really feel as though we would be compatible together as a loving couple because of the way you described love in your profile and only a woman with great depth of heart could express herself in such a capacity. When I was reading your essay I could not help but realize you must have a great sense of humor and this is a very endearing quality to me. I wonder how it is that you have garnered such a vast proportion of knowledge in only 25 years of living you must be an excellent student of life. I want you to Know Rapunzel that because I am only 22 years old most woman do not take me so serious to be the perfect mate but that is ok I will be patient because I will only marry once and it will be for life so I will wait and make only the right choice. I have dated some women and had a couple of girl friends but I have only been in love one time. I went with a girl from school for three years, we were the best of friends and I loved her so much I thought that we would always be together for ever. I do not know what happened I thought we were so much in love, I bought an engagement ring and was about to propose to her when out of the blue she said that she wanted to date other men. I was pretty shocked and sad too because I thought we only get one person in our life to love and be happy. Well I still believe this but it is more accurately stated, we only get one but it has to be the right one. How do you feel about this Rapunzel, do you believe you can love many men? So I might be 22 and not as experienced as some men but I can learn much by being an observer and I see that being sober and not drinking and running muck is much more beneficial to meeting a woman and having a home filled with love and joy and children. My friends tell me all the time that I am way to serious, they do not understand. I know how to have fun and enjoy life, life is a dance, called the Tango, and it takes two to tango. (This is a universal saying she will understand) I want some one to dance with sort of like two halves coming together to make a whole. Earlier when I said I think we would be compatible part of that was how I see you are much more intelligent than your years, I feel that I am well beyond my years in many areas too. Unlike some guys and my old girlfriend I know what I want, and I believe in loyalty, when my old girlfriend came back asking me to forgive her I did, but I could not take her back because my value for loyalty is much to high. I am fiercely loyal and want to see that in my life�s partner. Perhaps I have said something to let you know that I intend to travel to your country and find my soul mate. I can only hope it is our mutual fate that brings our destinies together. Just know that if you wish me too I will swim the seas fighting sharks to find my way to you. I was thinking I might cross the bearing straight this winter after the freeze, but what about the bears do they hibernate in the winter those polar bears do you see them in your city in the spring and summer or winter too.(:.:)Ha ha Lol. So you know the point is to drag them into your world by touching them inside from long distance!!

jetmba.

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	Send: 9/16/2004 6:46:42 PM

Might take you up on that offer sometime toad.... though Latvia (and a stop in London) beckon right now.

gladiatorUK

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	Send: 9/16/2004 7:08:03 PM

Just a quick one Jet....to wish you good luck in Latvia......and good drinking in London,although I'm sure Uncle Tim will look after you in that corner!!......:)

jetmba.

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	Send: 9/16/2004 7:12:43 PM

Hey Glad and Turbo - nice to see you two come out of the woodwork. Thank you for the nice wished Glad - as I said it would be nice if many of us who have been members here and partners in our quest - could get together in one big Social (of course we better have ten time as many Russian women there too to have it even more interesting.)

GLTALLTOAD

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	Send: 9/16/2004 7:54:42 PM

I can only imagine the permanent and drastic transformation any FSU community would suffer if all the regs in this forum met there, lol....

gladiatorUK

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	Send: 9/17/2004 4:40:21 PM

the mind boggles at that thought toad.........never really considered the consequences!!!....especially from "he who must not be mentioned"..LOL

anewlife

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	Send: 9/18/2004 7:57:09 PM

"Being that most FSU women prefer older men, I strongly suggest you either: 1) Research, obtain and carry a list of Odessa elementary grade schools to help find a suitable female for your age group when you get there... (That�s just plain wrong) 2) Cease and desist from any further attempts to find a woman for a serious relationship until you are at least 28 years of age. (Why?) 3) Screw everything female that moves within striking distance for the next 6 years. Believe it or not, eastern women who today will not take you seriously understand that's what you're supposed to do to build your character, career, assets, value scale and overall direction in life. ( I've been with more then my share, the bar scene around a military base makes that pretty easy. I don't know you could be right, but I've been down that road many times and I got tired of driving it.) 4) Summarily, permanently and categorically disregard any and all influence and advice on relationships you may have soaked in from your US mom if she raised you as a single parent. ( Well shit you hit the single parent nail on the damn head. So your saying I shouldn't respect women, or treat them like human beings because that�s all my mother ever taught me.) You have arrived to the one website whose members may efficiently act as adopted fathers for your misguided goals. Good luck, son...:) " ( I Realize you may have some wisdom that I don�t yet. And yes I did ask for it. I really hope there is a lot of sarcasm and humor in your post, otherwise your outlook is fairly pessimistic. As far as my goals being misguided, I�m not sure what you�re getting at. If you�re implying that I�m going to Odessa for a meat market your wrong, I simply need to head out the gate for that. I�m not sure how this trip is going to end up I have been corresponding with a few girls and am looking forward to meeting them. I leave on the 22 Sep- 01Oct I plan on attending one of the Anastasia socials. Thank you every one for your input and wisdom.

Dale E

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	Send: 9/18/2004 11:49:09 PM

Hey Toad, This party your throwing sounds great!!!!! Just tell me the time and date and I'm there!! BTW, I need you to set me up with a nice three bedroom ocean-view condo, no higher than the third floor. Stock it with a dozen of those fine Russian women who are looking for a "good man". You can also throw in a couple of cases of that cheap grape juice you call "fine California wine".Also I must tell you that since I'm strapped for cash right now and you're in the "upper five percentile" for U.S. income, It should only be right that you foot the bill. Let's not forget about the roundtrip ticket ($1100) and Ohio Visa ($400). I know plane ticket sounds expensive but they told me I would be sitting in the nice part of the plane! The Ohio visa is a newly passed law which allows us to leave the state. Don't worry about my spending money, I could never ask that of you.I will privately e-mail you as to where you can send the $1500 via Western Union. I am not interested in hearing some "Psycho-babble remark that you're known for or something stupid about never sending money to someone you have not met in person. That rule doesn't apply here Buddy!........ I AM WAITING!!!!!!!! 3 important things to remember. 1. Toad- "upper 5% income" 2. Dale E- Strapped for cash right now! 3. $1500 immediately via Western Union Just messin with you Toad lol

GLTALLTOAD

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	Send: 9/20/2004 1:04:24 PM

Dear Dale, If you changed your sex, grew DDD boobs, waxed off the hair on your back and even found a way to fix yourself up so pretty as to compete with the most sought after Miss Wow of this site...what do you think of your chances of me sending you a penny cut in half, lol? I often host small get-togethers among friends at my house. But this is a completely different beast, lol... toad

GLTALLTOAD

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	Send: 9/20/2004 1:15:43 PM

Anewlife, HUMOR and SARCASM are two of the very few things I take seriously in life....Go figure, uh? Everytime you read one of my weird posts know that I try my best to make everyone sprinkle humorous absurdity with my not so humble opinions... Now let me retort to your comments or questions. 1) Research, obtain and carry a list of Odessa elementary grade schools to help find a suitable female for your age group when you get there... (That�s just plain wrong) OF COURSE IT IS, LOL...!! 2) Cease and desist from any further attempts to find a woman for a serious relationship until you are at least 28 years of age. (Why?) BECAUSE AT AGE 22 YOU'RE NOT COOKED YET, MEANING YOU'RE NOT MATURE ENOUGH, MENTALLY FINANCIALLY AND LIFE AWARENESS IN GENERAL. 3) Screw everything female that moves within striking distance for the next 6 years. Believe it or not, eastern women who today will not take you seriously understand that's what you're supposed to do to build your character, career, assets, value scale and overall direction in life. ( I've been with more then my share, the bar scene around a military base makes that pretty easy. I don't know you could be right, but I've been down that road many times and I got tired of driving it.) I DON'T BELIEVE YOU. IF YOU'RE TIRED OF CASUAL SEX, PLEASE ASK YOUR DRILL SARGENT TO LET UP ON YOU SO YOU HAVE SOME ENERGY LEFT TO SCREW AROUND. IN ANY CASE, YOU PROVE MY POINT BY ADMITING YOU GET PLENTY OF PUN FROM THE MILITARY BAR SCENE...TRY GETTING IT FROM THE ACADEMIC SCENE, FOR INSTANCE AT A LIBRARY...OR THE CORPORATE SCENE...OR THE SCIENTIFIC SCENE, ETC ETC ETC 4) Summarily, permanently and categorically disregard any and all influence and advice on relationships you may have soaked in from your US mom if she raised you as a single parent. ( Well shit you hit the single parent nail on the damn head. So your saying I shouldn't respect women, or treat them like human beings because that�s all my mother ever taught me.)

GLTALLTOAD

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	Send: 9/20/2004 1:29:13 PM

SORRY, I PUSHED THE WRONG BUTTON TOO EARLY....:) 4) Summarily, permanently and categorically disregard any and all influence and advice on relationships you may have soaked in from your US mom if she raised you as a single parent. ( Well shit you hit the single parent nail on the damn head. So your saying I shouldn't respect women, or treat them like human beings because that�s all my mother ever taught me.) I mean no insult to your saint momma, but the proof is in the pudding, Anewlife. Every single western mother I have ever talked to is adamant about teaching HER version of respect for women to their sons. This ranges from 'pee sitting down' training to expecting to marry women before having sex with them. There isn't enough thread in here to teach you all you have to learn...I suggest you find and read the book titled "STIFFED, the betrayal of the American Man, by Susan Faludi, published by Morrow. Susan Faludi is a world reknown author who rocked the feminist boat by switching sides after decades of fighting for women's right in our society. It is widely gossiped that Martha Burke has hired dozen of caribbean voddoo witches to cast spells on Faludi. That explains M. Burke's collection of dolls, lol... toad

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