I think that man still looking!
All americans seem to be here over romantic and they arent in their first youth even. Im not sorry jetmba is diseappointed in Latvia, I was sure it will happen when I read hes comments before leaving. Im really suprised when such kind of prefectionist find somebody.
Annika aren't we look what is best for us??? only some when find what is best for them stop...others never stop as they think that there is something better waiting around the corner...that's all the difference, but of course it's IMHO:)
I think that when men here will find the one and only they will stop that is for sure:)
Don't forget to mention that for YOU he is the best:) Other girls including me have other opinions:)
Madam, you have a lovely figure and I like you fashion sense... very feminine and alluring. I appreciate modesty in a woman and I’m pleased that you dress to accent your lovely curves but not provocatively. A woman should always maintain her mystique, at least in public. If she’s alone and desires her other half – her champion, confidant, lover and best friend – what she wears or takes off is another thing entirely. When a woman wants to share her body and desire for her beloved, that’s a very special gift – a pearl of great price. To know another’s pleasure and share yours is like no other present two people can share.
Annika,
Neither jetmba nor me nor many others here are perfectionists looking for some ready made fully cooked perfect woman.
What we yanks, as your limey crooked teeth boyfriend calls us are, is 'aware' of how badly the social fiber has deteriorated in western countries between men and women to the point that it makes it impossible to establish succesful relationships with traditional values for marraige.
We know who we want to be with for a serious relationship.
We understand and seek the kind of background and beliefs that create the way of thinking that leads to successful family lifestyles.
Neither you nor your baltic skirt hopping boyfriend seem to share those goals or ideas. There's nothing wrong with that.
But that does not give you the right to bark at or belittle anyone else for wanting them.
Those values do exist in many cultures worldwide and they are much more succesful in creating and supporting families than anything you've learnt, practice and embrace that the western feminist male castrating movement has been exporting over the last 30 years.
Annika, in a few years you will understand better....Because the time will come when you'll no longer be able to hold any man's balls in your purse like you do now and your skin deep beauty will fade away to make room for crow feet around your eyes and facial wrinkles of bitterness all over your face...but by then it will be too late.
You will be alone wanting to turn back the clock to do things differently. Look what's happening to US and other western women in their late 30s and 40s today. That's what you're headed for.
Have a nice feminist life, dear...
Bravo, Toad :)
Thank you for the great words: "We know who we want to be with for a serious relationship. We understand and seek the kind of background and beliefs that create the way of thinking that leads to successful family lifestyles"...
I feel yours pain, I feel that you told just 1/1000 of what you meant between lines writing about Love and Respect to each other…
You are absolutely right. Yes, without Respect Love is nothing, Love is all. When the wealth and cars and house are gone, when they are just dust, when we are old and frail all we have is LOVE and warmth of our Souls.
A bank account of Love, more wealth, more treasure than all the gold to be found. Love given is never lost, it is repaid, returned and doubled. Love is one continuous circle, all kinds of love are an expression of love. The kiss, the touch, glance, kindness and making love...
thank you, Twinkle
I don't completely agree with you either, lol...But don't let that discourage you...:)
After many years of walking in my shoes, I've discovered I am one of the few people I can completely agree with...:)
Love lasts longer when the money in the bank account does not fade or goes to waste.
And respect is repaid with cherishing.
It's up to both people in a relationship to figure which roles suit them best to provide /receive respect/cherishing.
Thanks Toad: More than once I have read comments that I intended to respond to. And as I formulated just the right response and read the next few entries in out little forum I would run across YOUR entry - where you say exactly what I would have. Maybe even sometimes better than I would have. You save me key strokes - and have great insight. Not bad for a self-proclaimed wierd guy.
Annika77 - I did find great women. Some of the most intelligent interesting and beautiful I have ever seen - better than I ever imagined. But they were in Ukraine and Moldova, not Latvia.
Argue all you want about the glory of being out from under the Soviet thumb. I am happy that you are - as you silde right into the abyss of feminism and join the rest of the selfsatisfied women of the world.
Guys who look for the great qualities of Eastern European women will continue to look, but elsewhere.
From Annika. My last comment here. Im actually 42 years old,Im mother of 16 years old son, my boyfriend is 50 years old and not rich, he still have money to dentists though. 7 is just my lucky number. We both have been married before. So guys DONT teach me life and how bad is western society, bla/bla. I dont care at all of problems american wumen have. But I know british family life very well,its quite traditional in my opinion. I havent seen any feminists around. Im seriously advise you guys take things less seriously and came down from clauds! Especially gltalltoad. Nobel literature price fairy tale writer!
Sorry just wanted to make that chatroom a bit lively. Good luck!
Annika,
I understand your bitterness and resentment towards us.
And I feel a certain amount of compassion towards you.
After all, you have posted nothing but bitter, castrating and negative messages here from day one.
It's only a reflection of your state of mind, dear...With the added pressure of wrinkles and crow feet already here.
By the way, did you also adopt the western single mother habit of training her sons to pee sitting down?
Psst, Toad, not so harsh, she's just dissapointed, that's all!
Were you thinking of love when disagreeing with Twinkle? My opinion - love is more than just a four letter word, universal - maybe, eternal - hardly. But when two get together well for XX years, they learn to work it in a way no difficulty becomes a problem too big to not be solved. And their healthy attitude to each other you can call whatever you want ("you" - I mean everybody)
What I teach my boy is : when he comes to me after few years moaning about feminism and bad western wumen lll tell him. BE a man! My boyfrind is former RAF still working in the army, he dont about family values and feminism. Hes a real man and real role model to my kid.
Half a year ago my boyfriends friend from NZ lost all hes savings to woman in Kazahstan who was family oriented and beautiful (picture was taken 10 years ago). He was housewife (unemployed actually),took care of her 2 sons (they lived with her mother).
About East Europe : soon somebody comes and say what a pity where isnt GULAG anymore. Thats why I was really angry yesterday!
Annika77 - I also wondered about your bitterness. Especially when compared to sweet Ptichka. You have a great guy now you say and I am happy for you. But the bitterness that you display is more than a little alike to that of western women who cause us to seek elsewhere. Though you are from Eastern Europe your comments demonstrate more than anything that the problem with western women has crept into Eastern Europe too. We allmust watch and be careful. Eastern Europe can be heavan fro western guys - but you have its not all wonderful.
Annika I think that the thing is not in that here we are sad about that it's not USSR. USSR died, it's time had come to the end and it's gone...everybody is happy!!! But I think that the thing is to develop and not forget the past, culture and traditions, to be still unique in this...and not become like everybody else...to differ...it's just not that easy to express this!!!
Jet thank you for your kind words a lot:) I'm a hopeless romantic and optimist:) Just kidding:)