Sex is not dirty, these are the people who make dirty are dirty themselves!!!
I'm very sorry Bagira for what had happened to you...I hope that you will find your happiness, if you still didn't find it!!!:)
Bagira:
Sex is never dirty,between 2 people who lov and care for each other.You say your american man pushed you to feel like this.........HOW?
I can understand that somebody from let's say a sheltered upbringing could percieve of sex in this way,but in most other cases we are brought up to understand that it is just a physical expression of love for your partner.
Maybe the two of you had very different views of love and sex???
Maybe there was panic because of different views Bagira........I don't know,only you can tell that.But to teach children that sex is dirty is a very narrow minded and backward view of life.
I have 2 children and I can say in all honesty that I have always been open with them regarding sensitive questions.Kids are like a blank sheet of paper and we should not impose our views on them in that way,just let them know right and wrong and if we do it correctly then they can form their own opinions.
You sound like a very sensitive lady and I can only add my good wishes to those expressed by Ptichka and hope that the future is happier for you.
You know there are some people who think that sex is dirty and they call themselves "anti-sexuals" or something like that. They deny to make love in their life ever, even for having children, and they choose medical way for that...I don't want to say anything for sure...but maybe he read too many of such things...
For people to be so against a natural funtion of their bodies they have to have something wrong with them. I am fairly sure if they sat down with a psychiatrist they would find such feelings come for some past trauma they witnessed or experienced first hand.
I know I am late with my responce but here it is. People here in the US do not value fidelity. They value the idea but not the reality. All you need to do is look at the percentage of marriages that fall apart and the percentage of them due to infidelity? The reality of our current social condition is not very pretty but untill we stop ignoring this fact then it will only get worse. How can I condem another man for doing something the majority of people in relationships usually do eventually? And to be honest you should not give a damn what other countries or people for that matter think of our moral values and such. Who cares?
To the typical Anglo-Saxon, sex is dirty.
If you take your wife away to a holiday resort for a romantic weekend, most of your Anglo-Saxon colleagues will use the term 'dirty weekend'!
The 'doing it and feeling guilty' is the 'bread and butter' for the psychiatrist of USA.
And they do very well economically!
Groon, as for those people, they say that sex is not that natural function, that sex was thought out by people. That it is needed just to have children so once or twice is enough, but with such a development of medicine even this is not needed....
Geri- that is just language, mates at wirk talking. How is it the same thing. If those people realy thought it to be dirty and discusting, they would not even say that.
idiotdetector
Perhaps you are right.
Perhaps.
They seem to be the same mates who have premature ejaculation, so they can rush down to the pub and tell their drinking mates about their sex life.
Well, one must get his priorities correct, if these fool spend to much time giving there wifes real pleasure, it will cut down on the amount of beer and piss talk can can fit into an afternoon.
Let us all be honest.
We have all met some of those from time to time.
And of course we do not behave like that ourselves.
(Do we??)
But, women do it too, of course:
I have met women who, while not dreaming of offering me sex (?), did offer me much more intimate information about her family life than I thought she should have done.
(this alone would by the way put me off sex immediately. 'Kiss and Tell is not my scene.).
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