Groon
"It's kinda moronic to think, "hmmm... I'm not doing so hot with women here. It must be them not me!" Let's get realistic. A whole city full of women, not to mention a whole nation, can't be wrong. If you are not having any luck then most likely it's a problem with you. Plain and simple."
That is a very sweeping statement. It is extremely subjective. I can't find a lady friend to save my life and not through lack of effort. It isn't me it is circumstances. Once you hit 30 things start drying up, 40 you are looking downhill into an ever diminishing pool of women. Those that are in there are married, can't be married because they are bonkers, financial disaster areas, loaded with umpteen resentful kids, wannabe princesses or are fully aware that they look like they are in their late twenties and can afford to shop around. If you are not wealthy, or have all your hair and teeth, drive the right car and can afford wednesday night $75 dinner dates forget it.
I do have most of my hair and teeth am not bad looking, not completely broke and drive a brand new Mazda minivan. I have looked and there is nothing out there. Nothing.
I am definitely not a 'walking wounded' just a regular guy who is looking for an even break. I am a grown up who doesn't want to play silly dating games or is willing to tolerate bloody feminazis. I don't go to bars and I don't want a woman that does.
Therefore the whole Russian ladies thing offers hope and a much more reliable prospect than any other avenue.
I like Jets analogy to a fished out lake. It is exactly how I feel.
Incidentally Wess constantly claims that he can have his way with any amount of mid twenties darlings. Forgive me but I have a hard time believing that. Maybe I am completely wrong but I would have to see that to believe it. I don't care how many miles he runs, American women who look like starlets and are 25 do not want to sleep with a guy who is 50. They want someone closer to their own age. Could be wrong though it is a beautiful thought.
tordenskjold_fan
What the hell are you talking about? Are you smoking some kind of medicinal tobacco?
Well I'm 32 working on my 2nd degree and in the middle of changing careers. I have no problem meeting girls of any age. My friends range from 18 all the way up to 65. I have no time to devote to a woman now since I work full time and school fulltime. I have had to step away from some girls because they wanted something I could not provide at the moment. A commitment of time. I never ruled out local women. I have many I am friends with that have expressed being open to exploring something more. Now I don't think I'm the best looking guy in the world. I lift weights to keep myself in shape. Shower every day, brush my teeth, and treat women with respect until they show me a reason why I shouldn't. I don't have tons of money. The consensus is personality. I just like to have fun and don't take a whole lot seriously since most of the crap people bitch about is unimportant. I don't judge the people I hang with. They are who they are. As long as they can loosen up and know what fun is it's all good. I don't feel my comment is generalizing. It's common sense. I know sense is not all that common. Come on dude, if you strike out with EVERY women near by then you have to ask yourself what are you doing wrong. Why are you attracting the wrong kind of woman for you? I had that problem in high school. I did a quick self eval and got my sheit straight. Been having fun ever since. :-) I came here out of curiosity at first.
Izi,
I kinda sorta somewhat agree with Groon.
There are local women out there to play with...I won't marry any of them, but that does not invalidate their existence.
I think maybe you're too nice to them, lol....Maybe you need toget in closer touch with your "inner asshole part of yourself".
It's funny but toad is sorta right. There are many women that seem to be drawn to the asshole in men. But I think it's simply that man women do not want to be the one leading. All goes towards wanting a man that has no problems taking control of a situation.
Sorry don't agree. I have thought this through very thoroughly over the years. It isn't me.
I had one who was jewish and when it came to crunch time the faith was more important another who decided she was a lesbian. And on and on and on. More trouble than it was worth.
I couldn't disagree more. The pond is fished out. maybe you guysare using a trawling net, I don't know.
There is nothing wrong with me. In the last 3 months it has been very simple, minimal bullshit and definite cutting to the chase. If it was that simple to find a woman here I would have done it long ago and my divorce would on grounds of adultery.
I mean no disrespect but you sound like you ar ein denial. I give you this example. I give you a and give you a huge number of targets to shoot. You miss EVERY single one. Now are you gonan blame the gun or are you gonna blame your skill as a marksman? Chances are very slim that the problem is with the gun. The same applies here.