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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Small town vs Big City Author Post Neonred Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 10/31/2004 6:14:53 PM   Thanks Wessman You have helped me get my focus again. The important theme here is that all marriages take some work. If one is willing and does their part.....it will work. I just want us both to be happy in our new life together. I guess that's what we all want. wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 10/31/2004 7:48:09 PM   Yes stay focused and that is sometimes hard here for me with all the negative rubbish, and squabbling gong on about me. I just got off the phone with Tradman and we talked about you because he got a little off focus there a bit too but all is well with him and his new family so it works if you work it and in fact he helped me rethink some stuff too. We need to support each other here not drag each other down, good luck! idiotdetector Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/1/2004 1:39:30 AM   wess, what are you doing, do you always nned to give such bad advice on a topic you have no face to face expereience with. This is why I get so mad at you wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/1/2004 9:50:36 AM   Because I have not been to the fsu does not leave me powerless or inexperienced at life. People are my business, you are part of the problem here just because your thinking is different from mine does not make you right or me wrong just as it does not make me right and you wrong. you need to grow up and learn tolerance of other peoples views whether you like it or not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! idiotdetector Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/1/2004 2:30:24 PM   you need to assess a situation before you give stupid advice to to a man who seems to know its not real but is having trouble coming to terms with it. You are the one who needs to grow up wess, thinking you know people. If that is your profession how do you earn a livivg. Work it out if you want you say. If she is what I think, no matterwhat he wants it is doomed. If thats your best advice then just shut up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he said himself he thinks that she dose not love him but he wants to think it. If not for love wess, then for what? Please engage your brain before replying. Buy the way I see he connected with what I had to say, therefore stating ho has similar problems. But just wotk it out wess in you happy land wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/1/2004 8:49:10 PM   You Id are a fear monger and live in the negative, your most positive experience that you have posted is surviving an ass kicking in some far away city. You try to transfer your negative experiences on people all the time. Just because he voices his fears does not mean that is the reality of the situation, I beleive that he was looking for positive feedback and rreassurance, even if you disagree it is not your position to launch a personal attack againts me, obviously. Whether you like my inout or not it ismy input and my right to speak my mind. Others seem to appreciate some of my input. Neonred appreciated my response. "Thanks Wessman You have helped me get my focus again. The important theme here is that all marriages take some work. If one is willing and does their part.....it will work. I just want us both to be happy in our new life together. I guess that's what we all want". Perhaps more time is needed for these two to figure out their position,perhaps he is discouraged, you think he skould just dump the girl. I thought you had some class obviously it is all lower class! Idotdetector, alot of the talk about the rude f+n as*ho**s they are writing about is you you are the biggest f'n idiot here your idiot detector must never shut down! I asked you before to just leave me out of your tirades but because I like to keep the peace. I try to be civil to you how ever your attcks are unwarranted and not tolerable so this is my last response to you. Neonred Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/1/2004 10:04:35 PM   ID, Wess Please don't get so hostile and angry over my dilema. I surely did not want to cause any problems here. I appreciate both your opinions and want to hear what you both have to say. I will look at both sides of the argument and give it some thought and some time to come to a conclusion. ID now knows a lot more of the details of my relationship with this girl. I know there are some problems in this relationship, but I need to figure out if these are just the same type things any two people have to deal with and work out, or if it is time to start all over again. Should I settle for what I have, or move on? Is there something better out there? Will I find anything better? Do I have the patience and time to keep looking? This is where my mind is now. wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/1/2004 10:20:55 PM   This is not about you he is caustic and abrasive plus he has a hair up his butt about me and made it plain before he likes to try and antagonize me, I have asked him several times to write to me at my e-mail address if he gets upset about something I say yet he insists on taking me to task in public and I am tired of it. His behavior is offensive, sorry you are in the middle of it! Hey neonred a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, from what you have written I felt as though you had something special going on and I was trying to support you, I am not any athourity on anything I was just trying to get you to look at things from what is real with you and her(personal experience) and not what is going arround in your head. I am more a parrot I know a few Russian women here that keep urging me to find a girl from Russia. They offer some good insight and I know how hard it is for them to make it here, they often exspress to me that it is hard to adjust but it is no where near the trouble they had coming to terms with leaving home and coming here. I wonder the stress that they deal with trying to debate the pros and cons of leaving home and family and a known way of life. Just thoughts. idiotdetector Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 2:53:33 AM   you are (deleted by moderator) I do not need to hide in email to say that. A lot of people are tyred of you backyard cyciatre also. ( and I do not care how it is spelt) I have giving many positive responces and the only 2 people I have realy been rude to are you and sanch. You are the negitive person who dismisses anyone who has had real experience over there that disaggrees with your reseach (deleted by moderator). You are such a moronic fool it scared me to think that you acualy get paid to give people guidence. Money down the drain. And neored is not in the middle of anything. He and I have talked and no outcome has come from it, just stories and facts to think about so he can make a deccission. I am not trying to tell him what to do but I am also not telling him that all is well and just to carry on. If you have them tell anyone who thinks I have beat them up to say so and I will apolagise if I have unknowingly offended them. If I or you were dating a local girl and we were not happy we would just move on or if you try to work it out, its not a big problem if things fail as its local. Big difference her wess but your advice, bring her here on the good ship lollie pop and work it out. ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? idiotdetector Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 2:55:22 AM   It is not easy Neonred but if you work at it and she works at it it will work..Many others have overcome more obstacles in the name of love. You can think your way to disater or to victory it is your choice. It is his choice?? Poor advice when you do not know why he says this Olga Moderator send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 3:30:59 AM   Idiotdetector , wessman, you are both right. you represent two different types of thinking. Idiotdetector is practical man , wessamn is a theorist. you are always welcome to debate , but your fight is getting too abusive. please don't insult each other. Idiotdetector , "f " word is not working here. idiotdetector Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 3:44:04 AM   wess said it and used funny symbols to cover it. Its still the same word olga, no different. He called me a fuching asshole and a fucking idiot in case you cannot see it her it is so read it again Idotdetector, alot of the talk about the rude f+n as*ho**s they are writing about is you you are the biggest f'n idiot here your idiot detector must never shut down! I asked you before to just leave me. Intent is the same olga but again you leave there insults in, as always and you wonder why I get angree I will stop using word that are not nice, but as long as people can not hide there intent behind code and get away with it idiotdetector Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 3:46:38 AM   Olga, I do not mean to get angree with you but you again tell me to do correct thing and let other do as they please, it is not correct Olga Moderator send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 8:37:04 AM   Wessman, when you cover offensive words with symbols, everybody can guess what you intend to say and overall tone of your message remains offensive anyway. please take it into consideration and don't do it again. geriatrix Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 10:09:33 AM   With all due respect: The thread is called "Small town vs Big City", and the first posting asks questions along the lines of 'what is it in particular that makes a big city attractive', if I have read it right. (what happened to the idea of playing the ball instead of the man?). Bastard_Kid Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 10:21:37 AM   Oh my GOD!!!! you people are not men!!! not today anyway. I am embarrased for both of you. jmoluv Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 11:06:37 AM   jmoluv, LOCK AND LOAD shaggy47435 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 12:25:52 PM   Bastard get ready cause these two are some of the better people here. There are far worse. jmoluv Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 12:50:23 PM   hey quiet charm, the saying, (I GO WHERE MY MAN GOES). in america, that is only good till the money runs out. wish it was still true. i live in the past. i use my parents who are still alive as a role model. 84 and 83 years old. i cant role with the changes . my values are still from post world war two. it was my family genre and home environment and upbringing that makes me the king of male chauvenist pigs. actually i am quiet proud of it. anyway getting back, as i stated in a thread long ago, my father met my mom in WW-TWO within five blocks of the roman coliseum at her villa. he was a GI. she left the melting pot of civilization and art to come to a stinking mill town outside of pittsburgh to be with him. sixty years they have been married and she never did like it here but she had a family to raise and she never left him even though she could have for whatever reasons. i still ask her to this day why she didnt? and she tells me in her broken english, because i ( GO WHERE MY MAN GOES). take care Q.C. i know what you mean jmoluv Bastard_Kid Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 11/2/2004 1:00:10 PM   I never said they were bad people, just...a little to emotional dont you think? 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