Glad - perhaps you make more sense here than any of these guys. I get the impression that if we were all in the same room - this thread alone would have contained six or seven "group-hugs" (attempted anyway by shaggy and wess - I certainly would have stepped away).
I have no problem being "sensitive" with the ladies I am involved with. In fact I have been most often described - by them as (blush) "tender" (and I'm not talking about my midsection here).
But among other guys - touchy feely isn't me.
It is (unfortuantely) the hallmark of a man who has been hurt before and is now picking up the pieces. That's not me either.
Shaggy - you admit you have been here only six weeks yet you advocate wholsesale chages in the forum based on what some Russian ladies have told you. Well, I'm a guy whos' been here almsot two years, and this is a Men's Forum, and I like things JUST THE WAY THEY ARE. And if telling you so and not agreeing with you is insensitive ans you try to change the world (one person at a time or several) then I am INSENSITIVE to you. (But not to ladies. See the difference there?)
Perhaps the only thing tht this thread proves beyond the shadow of a doubt is that we are NOT in comptetion for the same ladies (which is not a bad thing). Because the ones looking for my personality traits are certainly not looking for yours. And those looking for your personality traits are certainly not looking for mine.
In the US we just finished a major political season. With the end of the political campaign we are hearing fewer messages on television but other things remain the same. It never ceases to amaze me how social liberals, who advocate free expression and free speach - seem to spend all of their time telling those who don't agree with them to shut up.
Social liberals promote gay right, and women't rights, and children's rights and this program and that program. They SEEM to promote tolerance and acceptance and that everyone is free to be themselves.
But if you speak out AGAINST abortion, AGAINST, social spending programs, in FAVOR of religion - you are quickly told to shut up by these supposedly broadminded individuals. There is really no tolerance there at all - but just a need to push their own agenda.
I see the same thing appearing in the this forum as I read over the threads. Over and over and over again the same people write about nothing except their right to be heard - and they decry those who criticise what they write. Those who had criticised (for legitimae reasons all the time) have laid the matter to rest. But those whoi intend to impose their own cnesorship can't seem to stop talking about how BAD they are made to look, and how "everyone deserves to be heard."
It seems that the supposed defenders of free speach here are actually the least tolerant.
We ALL deserve the right to be heard. Even those who disagree with you. And even those of us who DON'T wish to change the forum after only six weeks of membership.
Frank, you pussy...
Get it once and for all...this a men's forum.
Talk to men here like you talk to men anywhere else.
Like Glad said, FSU women do know the difference.
They're not stupid or living in lala land about what men are really like when we talk to other men.
None of the ladies I talk to from russia or elsewhere think my comments here are rude or demeaning to women, because they read them and understand that I am talking to other men, not women.
And unless you're here to seduce men, get off the feely touchy crapola treatment expectations....or go to sweden , get a sex change operation and then come asking for soft treatment, lol
Jet you keep talking crap that everyone is trying to shut you up but in every thread I have read it is always the other way around. While you are jumping down everyone's throat that dares tell anything other than your macho dream. You are the coward you are the one that is overly sensitive. If you would take the time to read my post I said that the changes to this forum where driving themselves. I even suggested a separate forum for those purposes. It is the typical bully mentality that if you don't like it no one should and you are dead wrong as well as every other person who thinks they should piss on anyone who voices a different opinion than their jock strap mentality. The ones here that do this are all the same and really should get together and rub each other or something. You obviously are not paying any attention or you would know that I am not liberal in any since of the word. I have not offered to hug anyone and again you also assume that because I have only been in the forum for 6 weeks that I have no clue well it only shows your ignorance. I would say to these men who think they must find fault with everything should put their he man money where there mouth is and post your real names and profiles…bet you won’t because you talk out both sides of your mouth. It is strange to me that none of you have the balls to be yourself. Its of course “I am different with the girls”….you would have to be unless they are sheep or you would never see one more than about 2 minutes. It is a shame that you where not taught to be honest not only with others but yourself. Everyone in here that points fingers and yells whiner and yells pussy is only pointing out their own shortcomings and faults. It is like a mirror…. Just do a search and it is the same ones every time whining about the same things…if you do not have anything constructive to say just clinch and save your shit for somewhere else. You know how to start a thread and how to use the back button…if not I can teach you. I assume you are educated enough to read the title of the tread and decide if you have any knowledge that might actually help someone. Why does it bother that frank liked my input…. what is your real issue. You do not like my view so you will do what every you can to try to discredit me while screaming you have the right to be heard…what about my right to be heard…how do you just decide that my input is worthless…the meaning of a forum is to share and let the people decide for themselves…. you know it is kind of an old concept. You guys need to stop snorting your Viagra long enough to let some of the blood back into your brains.
You know which duo invented the jockstrap huh? Herby Hangkock & Alfred Hitchcock !
Then you continue to say you're different with the girls, and in the same breath you have the audacity to mention sheep. Who do you think you are - ID ???
On a more serious note - you snort your Viagra? Jeez, that's a novel one, and of course I've heard about the dangers of swallowing them dry: if it sticks in your throat you end up with a stiff neck!
So, snorting it down - you're sure the subsequent panting does not eject it again?
Right, now we all had our say we... oh, excuse me, I forgot the obnoxious octet, saynixmore. Right then, can we indeed lay all to rest now so that I can continue my SLEEP?????
You men argue about some silly things hahaha, so friggin' hilarious man!
a) "im a manly man"
b) "no, your a sensitive twat"
a) "no im not you hefer"
b) "stop crying"
a) "grow up"
b) "what were we arguing about again?"
a) "you called me gay"
b) "i did? I sorry about that ol' chap"
a) "no big deal, love ya man"
b) "love you too."
That reminds me viagra was a complete accident. They had given to a bunch of men to help their heart problems but they notice in one group they were all considerably taller when the study was over. More over they discovered that every one of them was a lawyer. That is how the found out it made pricks grow.
If in your vast six weeks of experience - the forum is not to your liking - fine. Start a "sensitive man" web page with all the niceties that you think Russian women would like.
You offer it as a coed alternative. Fine - post the website and if any of us are interested we'll go. I'll be the first to sign up - if I like the idea (sure I will - don't hold your breath).
You can call the shots - you can make the rules. You can be as macho (or not) as you want to be.
Shaggy - I'm doing fine with my life and my experiences. I'm not telling others how to act, and you are sure as hell not going to tell me. You are a pushy controlling condemning troublemaking person who I would never associate with in real life.
You have not made a point worth reading or commenting on thus far in thsi forum. As far as I am concerned you warrant nothing but to be ignored. And that is exactly what I intend to do with your post from here on out.
There are no more rounds Shaggy - you are a pushy controlling self centered fool. And fools deserve to be ignored.
We all have that option. Anyone who doesn't like me is invited to ignore me. And Shaggy you can spend all your time looking in the mirror, sniffing your viagra, telling others how they ought to behave in the forum, promoting your moneymaking video conferencing to Russia and complaining about this and that while telling others that they complain more.
I'll tell you one forum member I WON'T be meeting in real life under any conditions.
Go find Scooby Doo, Shaggy and lets not deal with each other again...
Again you twist and spin everything to make yourself justified but again you are so sadly mistaken. In every instance my comments are justified. I have done nothing here but make my suggestions for everyone else to hear and ask advise of those around me. I have done nothing to warrant your personal attacts or those of others. Again it is you that has an agenda. I am only asking that you act as a human and not the bully that you are. Yes it is you that is personally attacking me. I have done nothing but offer my input with wich you scream out of one side of your mouth is wrong so I must be stupid or gay or anything else you can think of to justify your stupidity. I would really like nothing more than for you to give me the silent treatment as it makes you look so much smarter. Anyone here that has read any of my post knows that I am trying very hard to give honest input. Yes I will defend myself when attacked. I am not feeling any great loss so again your childish games have no effect.
Glad's posts often have an angry undertone ??
I wonder, are we reading the same texts, maybe our default lang's differ, or maybe you're a bit slow in picking up British humour? Whatever the reason, for anyone here a nick triggers an unconcious opinion. Yours of Glad is apparently an angry one, utterly different than mine - which would make us very different persons.
Vive la differance? I'd say so, can live with it also.