question,
if you have a chat room set up . what about the ladies whose english is very poor or none. is there a tool for them. i am the first one to admit i am very behind in technology. in fact i have never been involved with any chatroom ever. i guess it has its better advantages?
Shaggy
"Some of it too may be the age group of women as it seems to be much more common in the ones under 24 or 25."
I have a theory about this. Many guys here are just like me in their forties and looking for a beautiful woman to be their wife. There is one difference though than with some. I am not looking for anyone more than 15 years my junior. I am 49 so that means I don't even consider anyone less than 34. And I consider that pushing the envelope. The lady I am writing to now is 37 and absolutely lovely. Generally the women in their late 30's are very attractive and I really don't feel hard done by at all. I would feel proud to be seen in a restuarant or theater with any number of them. The other thing is I don't mind children. I can avoid all that nasty diaper scene and night screaming. One more factor is that I favor smaller cities and somewhat avoid Moscow, St Petersberg etc. It isn't a hard rule but a general guideline for myself.
The end result of this is that I have a very high response rate. It is true that the opening email is often a canned response but I don't mind I do it myself. I just don't have it in me to write 5 long personal emails in one night. However after the 1st email I do not see anymore canned stuff, it is all personal. Everytime without fail.
The problem is with the age bracket as Shaggy is pointing out. I totally agree with him.
I just want to say 2 words "sugar daddy".
It covers the canned emails and the scammers. After all who wants to send $1000 to a 59 year old Boris with boobs.
Canned emails are ok. It is a process and that is bound to happen. I like the idea of a chatroom though. How would this work? Women and men or just the guys? Private or public? VIP membership only?
Just my lonely thoughts. :)
There's a lot of rules that should be added but it would require a commitment by the staff. As shag has pointed out there are men how are here to jusf play. Those should also be weeded out. when the young lady I am corresponding with wrote me the first time I was so tired of the canned responces that I decided to be pretty upfront. I expected a canned responce like all others. After she convinced me she was serious about writing me then she shared her stories of men wasting her time. The problem goes both ways. There MSU be something that you guys can do to be more serious about making sure the BS levels here are low. Just my view of this situation.
I, and others have asked about having a chatroom. We were told by Olegnay that it was coming. Months later we're still waiting. An added advantage of having a chatroom is it could keep alot of the bickering there and heated words not become History. Also the men and women could chat there together and retain their own Forums.
Dale: I dunno what's taking so long. I and some friends added a chatrooms to a friend's page which has forums and it did not take months to do. Maybe they are understaffed?