Thunder,
Nothing against you, disgrace, well we may agree to differ on that however loud-mouthed, naive, newbie, ignorant, liar, just for starters are some things that I am not.
Toad believes it correct to open his big mouth, insult and lie about others then hide behind his keyboard pretending he's a big man.
I'm sorry if this inconveniences others however why are you lot repeatedly criticizing the victim here, perhaps because I'm thought of as an easier target. Please, get the assailant to retract and apologise for his lies and you have my word that I will stop, do you believe I enjoy this?
This is a forum for everybody, not merely the chosen few. It's not for me to take away others enjoyment but that very same enjoyment has been taken away from me, what justification was there for Toad's outburst? None!
Once again my apolgies but until Toad retracts and apologises it's going to get worse, not better, this is just the beginning. Now please try having a word with the assailant.
"I'm sorry if this inconveniences others"
Others? ALL, no exceptions, not even the inherently friendly, utterly goodthinking and extremely patient Santa, and do keep in mind he by default likes kids!
"do you believe I enjoy this?"
I do indeed, worse, I'm absolutely convinced of it. In contradiction to the other site this in NOT a dead forum, the proof of the pudding you frequenting here. No John Anthony's here, in fact there's very few with their brains removed here.
But on occasion some pass by, and I am no exception in having been called anything you care to mention. They're better off telling someone who cares, but in general there's two (2) ways to handle the persistent one's, and you know them both: reply or ignore. Your choice, nobody's forcing you, but I can tell you only one (1) is exceptionally effective.
"this is just the beginning."
If that is what you want be all our guest, and I refer to your opening line in this post. This forum is for anyone, wide-open, however it helps not to kick the doors for they can shut.
I suggest a change of tune, same album.
"We got to show some respect
we've got a love to protect
don't take it for granted, I know
and if we want to stay close
we got to show some respect"
We are addressing the assailant here. The assailant, Martin, is YOU.
If you want to use your school-yard analogy Martin - perhaps Toad nudged you, perhaps he pushed you. We are guys here and we jostle a little bit. That's what guys do.
But since that time you have stalked Toad, you have harrassed him, you have run him over with your car time and time again and taken up a position as a sniper firing many shots.
And you insist that you are justified, because he nudged you first?
Now after all of this you insist that HE has to apologize to YOU?
Martin you are a sick little boy - and you need to do some growing up real soon.
I'm glad you are from the UK. The US has enough problems.
Thunder,
If you guys were to put the same amount of effort into talking to Toad as you have in talking to me, then perhaps all of this would have been unecessary.
Unfortunately, weight of numbers, ganging up, is not going to work on this occasion, I WILL NOT BE BULLIED.
You, others, can call me any names you like, you don't know me, I do, name calling will have no effect whatsoever, I WILL NOT BE BULLIED.
Can we please end all this bickering and name calling and get this forum back to what it is primarly intended for, the giving of sound information and mutual support. Thanks!!
Frank,
I couldn't agree with you more. It is no surprise there exists global warming, the amount of energy that has been wasted here by guys criticizing me, that energy would be far better utilised criticizing the root, the cause, of this situation.
I know who that is, you know who that is, they know who they is but they, perhaps you, are living in denial.
Martin: Only one person is doing any Bullying at all in this forum. And that person is you.
You are holding the entire forum hostage as you try to Bully us all into putting pressure on Toad to apologize to you, for your little hurt feelings.
It ain't going to happen. WE will not respond to Bullying as a Forum. And if Toad ever gave the slightest thought at this point to apologizing to you for anything I would PERSONALLY try to talk him out of it.
IF Toad ever did anything for which an apology would have been appropriate - you have FAR overshadowed it in every means of accusation, name calling and Bullying since then.
People have bent over backwards here hoping that you would get iver your stupid little game. But I can tell you that no matter what the outcome - you will have no respect in this forum from anyone as EVERYONE will know what kind of an ignorant child you are.
Jetmba,
Whilst you might not have read all of my recent posts, which is understandable, I am not going anywhere.
I have enough respect in real life, I don't need it here. In modern day society bullying is considered unacceptable, there is no place for it, that includes on this site and I will not go away, I say again, I will not go away, until that statement is retracted and apologised for.
Martin YOU ARE THE BULLY HERE!! Do you get that? Are YOU in denial?
NOBODY ELSE is coming in here and trying to force others to do something by pulling crap like you are. You are attempting to bully Toad into apologizing and you are attempting to Bully ALL OF US into putting pressure on him. Can't you see who the bully is?
How long will it take you to retract all of the things you've said and apologize to each of us individually for violating every reason this forum has to be - its a communication source for those of us looking for Russian women. You have denied us what we paid for with your childish acts. When do the apologies start?
Again, please stop responding. Ignore and only respsond to constructive postings. If we can't get along with each other how are you going to have the interpersonal skills to select your battles and be god husbands. Perhaps the forum moderator could step forward and intervene. Olga, you there?
Olga,
Let him rant against me all he wants.
While he does that, at least he is not posting false accusations agaist innocent women's reputations.
lesser of two evils.