I am just in two minds, i am totally confused. I have had a status :))) of his girlfriend just for about a couple of years. Sometimes I am not sure about his feelings and mine too. This winter i met a man here in Russia. He is a bit older than me, for ten years. I am a student. It seems that I like him every day more and more. And also i feel shame for my american boyfriend. But my beloved doesn't talk with me. When I come to his office (I work with him) he tries not to look at me. We keep silence. Not better, don't you think so?
You mean casual sex.
You're not alone Kiska, I also fail to see what casual shoes have got to do with it. I never wear them when fishing off a pier. Gumboots is what you use, all my company peers do! :)))
Kiska, if after years you're still 'girlfriend' then maybe that other guy is better, especially when 'boyfriend' is a bit too silent lately. And if you work with him, not for him, then who's he to stop you seeing others?