Martin,
actually under generosity i meant a bunch of flowers and may be paying in billiard but NOTHING more.
He is really strange, but you are very strict about your sayings :)
i didn't understand about sex. What did you mean? i don't have sex with a man after 2 weeks since i met him.
Anyway i am now just over the moon to have told him about my dislike...& it took me some time to make him understand it. :)))
KISKA,
If you like this man, tell him these things. Ask him these questions. Some men have never known love. Some dont know how to act. They have had no practice. Especially some of the rich ones. For instance, he could have been very rich, but raised by the hired help. And never seen his parents express love or feelings for each other. If you really like him. You should fing these things out about him. It sound like he can see you two together, but doesnt know what to do to make that happen.
During one of my times in Ukraine, I was sitting, with my lady, in the restaurant and at the next table to us was an American guy with a lady and her interpreter.
My wife picked-up on it first and then I began to eavesdrop. The guy was sitting there like a stuffed dummy, he made no attempt to start nor conduct a conversation, he sat there rigidly with his armed by his side and when asked a question he would answer it with a simple yes or no.
We were laughing on the next table, it was as if the guys's mother had sent him out to find a lady but he didn't have the first clue how to go about it. I would have put his age at somewhere around 35.
Adam, I really talked with him about it. And he said he would take it into account, but nevertheless, he continued the way of his behaviour. What is more, we never talked, i tried to support a conversation and to make up a lot of topics to discuss, because he was just looking at me very attentively. You know, his eyes are beatiful, and i like to chat, but i need the support. I got really tired...
But what killed me was when he came to me and felt himself too much at home. For instance, a door bell rang and he went to open the door. Can you imagine my face??? When he invited me to a cafe, he said that i should pay for myself. In billiard another guy tought me how to play... Very nice...i don't know. He is in Russia and we have our own rules...
Anyway, after this experience i even have no will to study french anymore...
And if you were to get engaged, you buy the ring yourself also Kiska?
I've been looking for a lady like you, the engagement ring I bought cost USD1,700.00. My now wife said 'diamonds are a girls best friend'. I joked a reply, 'they're not my best friend, they're too focking expensive'!
Kiska, just as we give advice to each other here in the forum to forget that girl, she is a scammer, She is trouble, blah blah blah.. I will give you advice on this French guy. Forget about him and move on. No real man would make the lady he invited to a cafe pay for her bill. He may be handsome and have beautiful eyes that have captured you but he seems to be a bore and is greedy with his money. Drop this guy!
Surely, Martin...he probably expected that...
But anyway it has come to an end...
Deano,
i just said about the fact that his eyes are beautiful, but you know i am not such kind of a girl who fell in love just for eyes...definitely not. I need some soul connection (i don't know how to express it in english). But now i just tell him hello and go away. I don't need him even if he were Price of Wales
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"...No real man would make the lady he invited to a cafe pay for her bill. ..."
The one who invites, pays.
-A conclusion I have come to after I have been too soft and let others make arrangements - then discovered they expected me to pay.
-And after a marriage where my ex regularly 'incurred expenses' without consulting me first...