1. Larissa is beautiful to me, even when she wakes up first thing in the morning. Her beauty and sexiness is just as much with her mind as her body.
2. I've always told Larissa, she's not coming here as my maid or hand servant but as an individual that will be given the opportunity to chase her dreams. I don't need a cook, or a housekeeper thank you.
3. She doesn't need to worry about keeping the house clean, though she is an extremely clean person and very particular about her clothing and her surroundings and since it will be only the two of us and I pick up and clean after myself, she won't have a very big job there and I help anyways. It's a partnership not indentured servitude.
4. Since my child is grown and she has none and is 5'5" tall and weighs about 98 lbs, well so much for the baby fat.
5.She must.......................... Be herself and enjoy the life and rewards of a country that is free and full of opportunity for her to grow into the woman she wants to be.
I'm assigned to a subscribtion about housekeeping and stuff like that:) And what the author says "if you love it, you will never be tired of that". I work and will study again in a couple of days of weeks...so I don't have much time for cleaning, washing and things like that, but I love that:) With that love I can start cleaning even at midnight, and I'm not tired:) It is just a way of attitude.
Also another example, my parents are married for 26 years now, and before the marriage they lived 3 years together in the dormitory. They both work, and thus they don't have much time for cleaning and stuff like that. And they don't do it everyday, as my dad understands that my mom gets very tired and my mom understands that my dad gets very tired. But when either of them has time, he or she does the cleaning, washing plates and things like that:) And they are happy:) When I come to visit them, I see sparkles in their eyes still, and the way they look at each other...this cleaning, washing, and so on and so forth didn't kill their love...
So what I want to say to my mind it is just the way the couple treats housekeeping...it is possible to talk everything over and be happy with life:)
I also was glad for Toad and thought that he was able to accept beautiful woman as a relative, as a natural half of his life. I thought that relationship could work if he would also able to accept her kids as his own. Then he began to teach others about “discussion before marriage” which actually means a list of his rules, his ultimatums and his actual attitude to kids, it was a clear dead end.
Nasfan, Are you going to divorce if your girl get baby fat after you get a second child?
Do you have a list of rules about what she can and can not do?
First of all she is 44 and I am 47 so we are not considering children in the late stages of our life. So the baby fat is not an issue. We both like to work out and exercise so with a little help and God's blessing we both should remain healthy into our later years. Yes Cretins I made reference to a higher power.
And Yes I do have rules, but, the rules apply equally to both of us. One, we will love each other like there is no tomorrow. Two we both will be financially responsible to each other. And three infidelity will not be tolerated even one time. The perfect thing about this is she thinks the same way.
I took a far different approach to finding a lady from the FSU. Contrary to the Expert opines of Annika. I wanted to find a woman who had similar life experiences that I had. It doesn't matter what country you are from, it's how you handle the good and bad in life. What you learn from these experiences that makes you a person. Larissa's attitude towards many of these situations are very similar to mine. Not all were the same but many were the same. It makes compatibility with another easier when you know how a person will react under different situations and difficulties that life will present us in the future. She is extremely intelligent and grasps things very quickly, I call her scary smart. I'm a smart guy, but when it comes to intelligence, I'm coming to a gunfight with a knife compared to her. I like this challenge from my partner. I have learned many things in life from her in over the 20 months we have talked and spent time together. She has learned from me, another important aspect to a good relationship. We will spend a lifetime learning from each other. I wasn't looking for a woman 10 years my junior. I was very lucky in finding Larissa, very, very lucky. Someone close to my own age, someone that has experienced the difficulties in life that I have. I call her my gift from God. That's how I look at her. She is truly one of the most incredible and beautiful human beings to ever come into my life. She is my friend, my lover and in a few months she will be my wife. I cherish every minute I get to spend with her. She is a diamond in the rough, and I'm a lucky guy to have her in my life.
Well the Cat's out of the bag now. Before I become a target of the largest scam investigation of the last 5000 years I will admit I am on the payroll of Fiance.com, I make about 100,000 USD a year for being here. Any more questions Mr. Fitzgerald?
Adman, I don't read books on housekeeping, I'm just have a subscription to some advices, personal experience of an author of this subscription:) And of course practice, practice and only practice helps:))
Hey this has got to be a new record on this thread. We went from Stupid, to silly, to clueless, to dumb, and all the way back to Stupid in under 72 hours! LOL
Lets raise our standards guys & see if we can get all the way up to ignorant!
Mike... they pay you in cash???? All I got was a flippin' DONUT! :o)