It is not so difficult to meet someone. I met three very nice ladies when I visited. I had a very nice time with all three and we are friends, but I think the one I most wanted to meet and spent most time with is going to work out, but even now I am not being an idiot. We are going to meet again. She is going to try to visit on a tourist visa. Because of her job it is looking like she may actually get a visa as amazing as that sounds, but if she does not I will visit her again and we will continue to see how things go. I feel very good about things so far but I still am not going to be an idiot. She is a very nice person and we get along very good together. Time will tell if it continues so and leads to a family relationship.
Do not send anyone money. Go to meet them and have a nice safe informal meeting in a public place the first time. If it goes well you can go from there. If they do not want this then they are not truly serious and interested in meeting you. Always have several people you are interested in meeting. How can you know that someone is 'the one' when all you have done is write letters? You can only know that from their letters they seem a person you would like and want to meet even if they are real and honest in their letters, but you cannot know or be sure of the real person. How can you write sincere passionate letters to someone that you have not even met? You are writing to a fantasy, not a real person. Nothing can take the place of actually meeting someone in person. There are things you can only know about a person by a real meeting. Even then you must use reason and good judgement and not be an idiot. If they are a reasonable and intelligent person they will understand and want to be equally sure of you and your feelings for each other. If they are not then they are not likely a good choice because they either are not serious and playing you or they don't have enough good sense to be reasonable either. A real relationship is a serious and important thing and not to be taken lightly and rushed. Get to know the real person and find how you feel about each other. A relationship with a fantasy will not last.
Dear Steve, don't feel bad about being taken you have Lear a big lesson. I have meet a girl there in Yoshkar Ola, I mail her a packet that she describe to a Tee.
I called her on the phone number she gave me it all was true. I did day of Internet research and found her picture. She was on other dating site.
The picture of her at her school. In my security check I found site of were she works, everything was up and up.
I flue with my son and we did meet and we spent the month together, but I still wonder, she never kiss me or any sexual act not that I was asking.
She sent me gifts, her father send me stamps. Before you get to send money, you should of turn your computer to google crom and have Russian site translated to english for you. You did lose money but it was not thousand. I do trust Natalia but I would not even send money to my brother. If she wish to meet you ask her address and send her a packet in a color that is describable. What you put in it also must be odd. Then call her even of it is just to say hello. I do she says hello and she always said nice to hear from you. I am going Bach for New Year and ask her for marriage. I was not infatuated by love, I alway question everything specially Yoshkar Ola. If you are looking for nice girl speak to Anastasia here is her site www.Russia-city.com she can advise you on the best way to do it. She live there and a good friend of mine. Ho yes, flying to Yoshkar Ola go to Domodedovo airport DME and fly to Yoshkar Ola it leave at 21:00 hour and it only take 1.5 hours. The train is 15 hours. you can book at the site I just mention.
I had once a girl from England who played me but I never sent money, I turned it around and google earth the address and search her on all site and contacted the Sasec polica in England were she lived and was arrested and now two year in jail.
Love is a drug, just control it. Play it safe if she likes you she will tell you all.
Yoshkar ola is a city of 289,000 and you can fly there instead of the train. the best hotel is Evrika they do have a site. They have many site about search about the city, do your home work before you send any money. I am now getting married to her. After two year of building trust and seeing family and friend and work and ...not her but yet, that is still in the work.
So you admit there are a lot of scammers in that city??? Thank you for confirming what I wrote!!!! Now myself,,, and who ever might receive a letter from that city need not bother to open it!!
If you just want to go sight seeing,,, go visit! I have a long list of places I want to see,, that city is not on it!!
“yes yoshkar is not a good place for him many scammers letter write from this area “
Why go to a place filled with scammers,,, when it is difficult enough to find a good girl in a better city??
Bad girls come from bad agencies,,, and unfortunately,,, all of the girls become tainted in one way or another.
I don’t know how my girl is! How’s yours??? Resting peacefully?? In a better place???? In a long slumber??? A little ripe???