boredfukka,
Point 1 is that she is not totty and neither can a 30 ish year old be described as young, she has an extremely mature head on her shoulders.
Put it this way, some 5 years ago a young one did come to live with me (I was naive) and I recall that she was 22 and I was 43, well she was simply immature, she found it necessary to phone her mother every day, she couldn't even cook boil in the bag rice, she would sit on the internet from morning till night and it was literally open bl00dy warfare in MY house.
At the time I met my now wife I was 45, after my previous experience I had decided to source over 30 y/o's but they are difficult to find and without kids, pretty ones anyway, and whilst my wife was less than 30 we gave it a go and found ourselves enjoying each others company and laughing with each other from our very first date, we still talk and joke about that evening.
Something clicked between us from very early on, something that I had not experienced in the previous 5 years of dating. We discussed very openly age differences etc. and as our love strengthened she even forgot how old I was and indeed thought I was 2 years older than I actually am, that's how much we care about our ages.
But, there is a lot of difference between a young 20's and an old 20's and it's around the mid twenties when a girl becomes a lady, or she should do anyway.
Just like to say hello all, i am new here and to this concept, however the idea of an FSU girl being my second half isn't... 147 letters in my first week, whats that about...?
I think you should try and meet a few.
Most likely many will not turn up for the meetings or will not be what you think.
So your choices will be narrowed down through natural selection.
Remember there is a high attrition rate among Ukrainian ladies, so good luck.:)
Yes Mir, actually it was on Anastasia, now on 260 plus, and i already knew it was just the agency doing a match and sending first letters (without the knowledge of the girls) i'm not keen on the site and only bought a handful of credits, however to use them up have now started to talk to a lovely (picture)...! hmmmm probably just blew it out of the water actually, but at least my hasty intentions will probably kill that one before it goes any further, well i can't believe that a 22 year old beautiful stunner is serious about getting involved with someone from overseas even if i do look like a young Clark Kent... Actually thats probably not what i do mean, just that i think it is not the ideal situation as pay per letter to get to know someone, it must lend itself to problems, i'm currently planning to go and stay in a small town near Dnepropetrovsk and meet some contacts of a friend, so i can start learning about the culture and general way of life out there, i feel i need to start by making some contacts in the country that i can trust... if i don't meet many lovely ladies during my stay, i may book a tour as i read a lot of people praising them...