About half of the white girls into prostitution in America are doing so at their boyfriend or fiance's asking, where these men convince them of some mutual benefit, such as "just trying to get some down payment for [our] home", and these girls, usually in their early 20's, fall for it.
Pressures on a woman in America are tremendous. For example, in most countries, wives consider it their duty to provide sex, but all their part is to lay down on their backs. Here, they must pretend to enjoy it. To do tens of things, most considered perverted in FSU. In the east, for example, biggest headache of women used to kid after kid. Now, it's down to 1 or 2 kids. They stay home, take a nap in the afternoon, socialize. An unmarried girl can stay with her family forever. I've seen even Iranian and Saudi girls returning if they came here to their husbands and their marriages don't work out.
Here, the biggest reason for divorce around age 35 is woman's exhaustion - working a full-time job, taking care of home and kids, and demanding sex afer all that when only thing on their minds is: "I gotta wake up at 6 am."
Previously I was convinced that you were an Eastern European woman, writing about life in the US. (ALL Eastern European women think that they know more about life here than we who actually live here do. Most of it based on movies.)
With your above post, I am not so sure.
ARE you and Eastern European woman - and have you had any experience previously or even NOW in the west (specifically the US)?
jetmba,
Please do not think that the USA have the monopoly on this, FSU ladies can think they know better about life in 'our' countries than all of us, not just Americans :)
Lady Jane I do agree with you
I think women that want to stay home, take a nap in the afternoon, socialize and dont even like sex, should stay unmarried and live with her family forever.
Perhaps the FSU does suit you better.
Of course, Americans know more about the life in America, but one can't smell oneself.
None of the above are isolated incidences because I have heard these same stories over and over again.
I'm work as a psychartric and at the same time studying for my PhD in America, of course.
First Russian woman I ever dated (a few years ago in the US) decided one weekend that we were going to go ballroom dancing. When I informed her that I did not know HOW to ballroom dance (at that time anyway, I have taken lessons since) she looked at me completely dumbfounded and said "ALL American men know how to ballroom dance. They do it in the movies all the time!".
I informed her that I must have been sick the day that they taught all American men how to ballroom dance as I had apparently missed that instruction!
It cannot be exagerated how muich they learn from movies and how much they think is real.
I agree with you Jetmba. Since The Fast and the Furious: Tokyo Drift came out, movie has become copycat action on the streets of Moscow at night. Much of the violence in Moscow during the 1990's had to do with Hollywood action movies. Living in America you know what the reality is, but living abroad, you don't know what is for fiction and what is for real.
One of the American women I mentioned above, her exact words to her husband's sexual advances were: "Is he joking..I gotta wake up at 6." She was only 34, but she had become permanently physically exhausted. She left him and her 4 children, and ran off with a Moroccan.
One of the girls who's boyfriend wanted her to prostitute, he would call her every hour - presumably to watch over her - but her rational was: "He just worries about me."
Also, racially, men turn their women against all races but white, but that's just for the woman - themselves, they don't mind fooling around with just about anyone.
lady jane...there is 330 million folks in the US,oops now 332 million....if you have talked to half of those, then I think you have a good idea as to what is really happening in the USA. Its a big country with lots of people.
Don't give people from other countries the idea that the USA is exactly as you described!!
LadyJane for someone studying for PHD you are really stupid. I think less time in the library reading books and more time in the real world is needed and perhaps widening your circle of friends. What a load of rubbish you write
No responsible woman leaves four children and runs off with another man simply because she is physically exhausted.
Only a woman with sever psychological problems would prostitute herself for extra money for a man.
No man can turn a self-respecting woman off against other races, and then go for others himself.
You mention that you are working as a psychiatric nurse right now? The sample group that you are drawing from to make generalities regarding American life is FAR from normal or typical. As bad as making generalities based on movies.
All grads work in McDonald's unless you are a med grad, go beyond bachelor's, are distintively accomplished or have connections.
I was shocked when I attended university here and learnt that in all male company women were referred to only as bitches.
I once brought my unattractive white girlfriend to my apartment building and 3 American guys standing outside commented loud enough for all to hear "even he's got a piece of ass"
as a soon to be former husband of a beautiful st. petersburg girl, let me ask if you all are up on the mother-in-laws, since after caring for mine 8 years in st. p. , she came here and convinced my girl that i was too old, time to go, and i came home with the bacon one evening to find them both gone, no noe, no warning, just bye bye in the mist, and i feel like crap because it was lovey dovey up to the last minute, so any mommy shots out there?
Your right on all points Jet
If LJ believed even a fraction of what she writes she would be back in the FSU living with her folks.
But she is living, working and studying in the States because she knows its the good life, where she has opportunity to do well and make something of her life. She knows the men in the States are going to treat her 10x better than those from the FSU.
She knows the divorse rate in the FSU is the highest in the world and that the problems she discribes are far worse there.
Luckily none of the Russian women or the women from my country that I have met, are like those LJ descibes, but Im sure there are some.
None want to go back to Russia.