Hey
My first two letters to ladies are pre-written. The first is to introduce myself and to see if she has any interest. It is two paragraphs long and I send two photos of me.
If she or the agency writes that she is interested then I send the second pre-written letter which is about 5 paragraphs and tells her more about me. This site even has a function where you can store pre-written letters. This second letter had specific questions in it. What is the big deal? In the beginning both of you are just trying to establish interest. Now on my third letter I write more one on one stuff. I ask specific questions again. If she does not respond back with some answers then I will ask her if she had time to thing about my last letter and to please answer my questions. If she is vague or ignores my request then I politely tell her I am not interested in corresponding and I move on.
Forget the agencies --waste of time - find your girl in the street / cafe / whatever as gemini dreams knows only two well / as i do agencies waste of space they'l fix your pocket right up .
Who needs that ?? ive never used agency in my life -------never will either --its a bit like employing somebody to hang your washing out !!!!!!
Crazy i would like $10 for every guy the agencies have wroughted id be filthy rich
Cycleserg,
my first letter is pre-written too, with one or two sentences which are specifically adapted to the girl I am addressing. The second usually contains one or two pre-written paragraphs, but the rest is original and contains specific questions. I also tend to drop the girl and move on if my questions are repeatedly ignored. But the thread here isn't about pre-written letters from the girl. Rather, it's about letters which are even too good, often very pleasing and full of compliments. These letters aren't pre-written but sometimes your instinct suggests that they may be written by someone on the girl's behalf. Very specific questions can be a good test, as well as comparing the loving tone of the girl's letters with her indifferent attitude on the phone. By the way, the Ukrainian girl whom I suspected to have her letters written by someone else, after failing to answer a few specific questions, finally answered in a detailed manner, and she also gave me her phone number though I didn't ask her for it! Too good to be true...? :-)))))
I had a similar exp as yours with fiance.com. Mine was a little different in that the letters she wrote seemed more egineered to keep me writing letters with no serious intent of going any further. Was as if she were getting paid per letter she gets. She was a Ms. wow. You have good instincts. Listen to them. If you smell smoke there probably is a fire. Move on to the next girl.
I am ALSO having an experience very similar to that you have described. I wouldn't give too many details that could point to the specific girl. Smoke smell again, but different wood on fire :-)))
A suggestion from me, that was triggered by groon. Do you want to exchange dozens of letters with a beautiful girl, without going anywhere? Try a miss wow! Very good chances! Actually, she wrote to me first, before becoming a miss wow. So, she became a miss wow thanks to my letters, too! I should claim my reward!
Again, "my" Ukrainian girl has failed to answer a couple of specific, and quite important questions I asked her. Though she's so... absent-minded, in the same letter she gives me her private e-mail address. My interpretation: Vladimir - or whoever in the agency is writing the letters for the girl - is starting to feel really uncomfortable, not being able to promptly answer questions, and decided it's better for him/her to be by-passed, with the girl's consent, of course. I will soon check my theory! :-)
Is this one of your Miss Wow girls??? They seem to be on some sort of revolving structure. Not all are
can't miss or have 100's of letters sent to them
I realize that some confusion may arise from my recent messages. The girl I mentioned in my last message, dated 29.12, is that who "inspired" me with this thread from the beginning. She is not a miss wow. I am corresponding with a miss wow too. My experience with this miss wow could be very well described by the words of groon. I had, and have, exactly the same impression groon had with his miss wow. I am still corresponding with this miss wow because she is kind and cheerful, but I don't think she is seriously interested in me. Rather, she seems to be interested in exchanging massive amounts of letters. But, hey, I do not exclude that a miss wow can be seriously looking for a serious relationship with a man. It's just not the case with MY miss wow and I. As from your comment, they are a - rather slowly - revolving structure. Anyway, I never wrote first to a miss wow, though I could potentially be interested in some of them. Too many doubts about their real motivation, and too much exposure to idiots who write for the sake of writing. Just my thought.
Facts confirm the theory! I've called the Ukie girl. On the phone she was a little absent-minded about a couple of things she should know from my letters... :) On the contrary, she gave me detailed answers to the questions which were repeatedly ignored in her letters. The girl is REALLY nice on the phone, speaks a good English - possibly better than mine :) - and we had a pleasant, rather long conversation. I am happy we've broken the ice in a nice way. It is clear that, in a case like this, as soon as one gets rid of the agency, the relationship will go on faster and better. I feel I'm doing fine with this girl, as well as with a few others, though there is still a long way ahead. Hopefully, the next year will be a lucky one for me :-)