Jealous of what? I dont see ANY reason here to be jealous? To all these failed relationship, jelaous to people who dont know how to write in native language and who havent even secondary education. To your wife??? Better be careful, this super eduacted person might feel not happy in her suburbian cage!
I just gave friendly advice to Janne, who is from my neighbour country.
But in the end its not my business...Just an option, that culturally Baltics might be closer.
I thaught about that problem and knowing a bit swedish society, I dont think 20 years old russian bride is ever acepted!
I work with russians and ukrainians they are very nice people. Dont zip and zero me here:) So I sort of know them, I speak very good russian too. I defenetly know more about Sweden than most people here. Grown up in books of Astrid Lindgren and so on.
But I really doubt about language abilities of ordinary russians and ukrainians. Why I must read in this board that this girl needed translation and that need translation. And EVERYBODY in Soviet Union studied ONE foreign language! Why they need translators and they are young girls.
Annika, you trying to help? Please spare me. Just like you idiotic post about my wife needing help with translations and it was so difficult for her. You absolutely take pleasure in seeing people fail here. If you didn't you wouldn't comment on it. You couldn't wait to say see I told you so with Izi and others. You really don't know jack.
As for being super educated, what do you know about anything? What do you know about a suburban jungle. How many times have you ever been to where I live? Let alone how many times have you been to American. You've taken potshots at my wife and other women in here.
I just don't see what you bring to the table here to supposedly help guys here? So for the super educated women living in the Jungle this Feb. 8th she will have been here one year.
She drives, she works on her house, she designed two additional rooms to the home. Yep Annika, she trapped in her Suburban cage.
Reading books doesn't even remotely give you any understanding of a culture, just like making a few visits to a country doesn't make you on expert on the lifestyle and culture.
Most young people I met in Ukraine under 25 spoke decent english. Doesn't mean all of them, so with that hypothesis I can assume all people under the age of 25 speak english.
You giving friendly advice is an oxymoron. You have an agenda here, it's very transparent.
At least for some!
On and on in this forum and other forums I read people complain about english abilities of girls and how they have translator problems. What I see is lack of language abilities!
Nasfan again, I warned you! Working in the house might not be enough one day!
I warned Izi and told him VERY friendly (because like brits)how I see things! Year after that he cames with hes post!
I told Jetmba, that he might fail, beacuse HER attitude wasnt right!
I was sure that Toads relationship fail, beacuse they werent compatable!
I dont need the expert or read books and visite country to see things are wrong, just reading one post and I can see FAILURE! I am not happy, but why people dont LISTEN!
I bet you dont know who is Astrid Lindgren or Selma Lagerlöf, but I grow up reading these authors.
What about suburbian lifestyle...My boyfriends exwife is suburbian housewife in Florida...I can tell stories, but its too private.
Annika you've warned everyone here that has failed. Simple fact, I haven't failed nor will we fail because we have a commitment to each other. As for staying at home, she doesn't she has means to travel and she isn't obligated to a nine to 5 job. I also have a small business she tends to. Again, another observation of that you have no insight on. Little do you know anything about my life and hers, but you will comment on it with great insight. To me your posts are a farce. I personally know and have visited three couples that are successfully living together married here. Two are former forum posters. Give me your insight on that. Tell me how I have failed setting up a network of friends for my wife. Three Russian speaking families here where I live that she visits quite often. I did this networking way before she even stepped foot on American soil. Funny thing, the one couple are both russians and immigrated here and love it and have been great support for my wife, due to the fact she can communicate in her native tongue and then ask me questions after the fact. You know trust but verify.
You cannot see failure in something you cannot see. It's easy to see your bias. You try to inflame others in failure. Actually I could care less who Astrid Lindgren or Selma. It's not an issue significant to my life or ours. First and foremost, I don't really comply or endorse any lifestyle from Europe with the exception of a couple of countries.
What it boils down to, is anyone here that takes exception to any of your posts and can see through your negative bias is doomed to failure in your posts. I will stand by the fact that one you are Estonian or so you say and two there is an inborn hatred associated with Estonians and people of Russian ancestry. If that's not the case, then why has there been ethnic cleansing issues in the Baltics? This problem was even before the assasination of Archduke Ferdinand.
Funny seems to me, I recollect some Brit in the past posting here and I wish I could remember the name, was married to some woman in Florida. Unless that was just another fraud poster from the Telenova Days. I think you should spend more time Watching Inspector Derrick.
I am a 21 year old female and the man I have been dating for the last 7 months is 50. I am not after his money because to be quite frank with you he doesn't have much. Me on the other hand I have plenty of money and work hard for it. So my answer to the question is yes a younger woman can be interested in an older man such as these age differences. I am very much in love with the man I am with. Plus I have no interest whats so ever in someone near my age. I am attracted to older men and thats just me. And we do have very very much in common suprisingly. We enjoy many of the same things. To be honest we are just alike in many ways. There may be somethings he might like to do that do not interest me & the same for him but that is a 2% possibility. But as I said I love him very much and he feels the same towards me. Also, hopefully by next year we will be married. But how you feel about eachother is all that matters. Life is about taking chances and if you don't take chances you will never know. You wont live forever so take a risk.
yep, it's always a chance. sometimes you just have to go for it. that's why i am leaving my country i guess. a bit scary, for sure, but also worth it, i hope.
"Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and take a look around once in a while, you might miss it"
Ahhh!!!! Good Ol' Annika77 I almost forgot about her. Another one of the great female bimbos to contribute on this forum. She could have easily been a Salongirl, but her spelling ability would have disqualified her from Dannys group.
Bearing in mind that perhaps 75%+ of western boy meets eastern girl meetings/dating subsequently fail, perhaps until one meets the right one after several failed attempts, I or anyone could blurt 'you're all doomed' and I/we would be right in 75%+ of cases!
"probably not but please....let me have my beautiful young girls spice up my life"
Yes beemer but theres a big difference between that and finding a life-long partner. The fact that you are still looking after 7 years, and probably met more FSU girls than everyone else on this forum combined, speaks volumes about the futility of going for a large age-gap.
The problem with being a 50-year-old is that you still keep getting older, and yes maybe you can "bag" a 20 year old if you try hard enough, but when that stunning 20 year old is a still-hot 40 year old, is she really still going to be able to love a 70 year old man ?? I very much doubt it.
If you are going to sit around worrying about what MIGHT be in 20 years then why stop where you did?
In 20 years, one or both of the peopel in the couple might have had a crippling car accident. Will they still love each other? One or both might have a teriible illness. Will they still love each other? One or both might have developed a mental illness. WIll they still love each other?
ANd these are all things that could happen even if both the man and the woman are the SAME AGE!
If you're just going to sit around worrying about what MIGHT be in 20 years then you best not get involved with ANYBODY - because you never know - something bad could happen.
You best go through life alone, living in a cave. That way you only have to worry about how time will change ONE person.
How old are you? ;-) First i've been all over the world, just not there, its coming soon, I just started my new job and with my 18k bonus in six months its going to happen, and I havd a place to stay...go figure!!!
I know girls and as my military job I know people very well also, wouldn't be good doing what I did if I didn't. But serious, you think your being a good guy by coming here and helping people but instead being an ashole and it doesn't benefit anyone, saighten your attitude man or just leave these New guys who come on here for advise alone!!!!! or at the least come to understand everyone has there own oppinion and yours just might not Be the right one.
Using the internet on my phone to email is doesnt help for the grammar does it??? haha. Oh yeah, I have heard you call so many people, stupid, idiot, or some other kind of insult, believe it or not it shows what type of character you are and also a deep burried insecurity and immaturity. For you nasfan6 you are below me and will not get another response and as much as I would like you to take these words to heart you wont.
"Yes beemer but theres a big difference between that and finding a life-long partner. The fact that you are still looking after 7 years, and probably met more FSU girls than everyone else on this forum combined, speaks volumes about the futility of going for a large age-gap."
Bassuk....please read back in this forum and tell me where you found I have been looking for 7 years? I will wait for your answer...in the mean time the earth will have died from old age. So if I am almost 70...would that make it worse in age difference???
Believe it or not, I am looking for life-long partner but situations can change and in between I will meet with very attractive young girls and have nice time. In fact, when with friends I have been know to loosen the collar and get wild...all in good fun of course. In my trips to FSU countries are meant for not only finding a girl but learning culture, laguages, meeting friends and seeing the sights. One thing is for sure, you'll never find a post here where I blame a girl for scamming.....it is my responsibility for making any monetary decisions.
I am truely flattered you think I am a womens man...in fact I can claim to have met almost 30 so I am well behind some others here.