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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Well - I just joined Fiance.com Author Post apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/25/2007 10:44:29 AM   Thanks beemer, great advice. Agreed strongly with it. :) apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/25/2007 11:46:48 PM   But you know, I'm going to do a hail mary and go for one shot at my actual soul-mate. ... wish me luck. beemer18 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/25/2007 11:52:52 PM   Yea, I'm off down the yellow brick road in early October. I know this will be my best trip there. I am very comfortable if all else fails that I can still come out on top. I have several directions I could go. Good Luck!!! apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 12:38:28 PM   Sounds like a plan. If I meet it will be only one girl, with intentions to go off the beaten track and steer clear of any other agency girls. I will give it one more shot before concluding that the process itself breeds corruption and endorses insincerity to maintain a cash cow business model for these morally-challenged girls and agencies. beemer18 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 1:04:56 PM   Your banking a lot on only one girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would rather go off the beaten path knowing I may have something else there already. To go off beaten path, you need to be young and have 'looks', otherwise you will get brushed off. My strengths is my personality and sense of humor...not good for many girls on streets unless they are not superficial. Language can be a problem also. If you are a good door-to-door salesman then beating the streets is fine. I am kind of curious about Sumy and Nikolaev! apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 8:07:09 PM   Agreed.. Anyways, wanted to ask you guys to look at this blog I created about the Sociopath I ran into in Odessa. I am having problem categorizing her... scammer?? gold-digger?? Professional dater? She is all those in one.. http://blogs.mail.ru/mail/apalamen/ I don't have much problems with going off the beaten path for various reasons. I had just assumed my future wife (soul mate) would appreciate my letters... it's why I am drawn back into this. I just don't want a pretty wife... I can have one locally... Globus Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 9:01:09 PM   Checked out your blog Apal, I reckonize her, that girl sent me an intro letter last year on Army of Brides. Boy I'm glad I did not write back to her! Although I usually try to stay away from the really young girls for many reasons. Sorry about the crap you had with her, I can understand your pain as I'm still feeling it with what happened to me too. Everyone always talks about moving on and forgetting it but a bad experience and the pain of it can stay with you for a long time... Especially when you take down your defenses and put your feelings and heart on the line. apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 9:36:55 PM   Exactly. I was dating local girls and thought, wtf? I like writing emails, so why not give the marriage agency thing a try. I thought steer clear of the bitchy types, rule #1. This girl's profile was the most innocent looking I had ever read. Army actually removed her from their site, when they read all the documentation of what occurred - girl could not speak a word of English, so it was all documented. Hotrussian where she is right now won't remove her - not even when she wrote about admitting every letter she wrote me via ArmyofBrides was pretty much a complete fabrication. They said they wanted to review every single letter written from Army and prove she had taken money from me. They are under the impression that all guys who get scammed are jilted lovers who just want to get back at one of their girls. Instead of the cute innocent girl who loved making new friends and finding her truest love that she portrayed in her letters and profile -- She was cold, very bitchy and hated everyone around her. This is why she developed the sociopath tendencies she has that justifies everything about her. As bad and rotten an apple can get -- so fresh from the tree of life. I know all women aren't that way. I just want my future wife to see that blog one day... ... just so she can see what obstacles were in the way of finding her and how much I will always appreciate her sincerity for the rest of known time. ;0 beemer18 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 10:12:02 PM   She is very cute, Apal, but she looks 13, very young. Read her profile, something about it I didn't perk up to. Sounds a little bossy (own views).....need a strong personality on world views...what the hell is that!!!! Apal, who is that ugly looking guy in your blog, I think he is wearing glasses!!!!!!!!! :)))))))))) apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 10:34:59 PM   Heh. :) Yeah, strong personality means, he must be dominate-type personality that made him filty rich. ;0 apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 10:43:24 PM   She didn't look like her pics in person of course, but I liked what she wrote and totally lied to me about herself. Honestly? my first impression was "she is way too young for me..." I was willing to forgo all this because I believed her to be sincere, even up to the 3rd date. Girl is the most cunning Sociopath I have ever met. Truly one with the fangs that all these horror story guys are warning us about in the nightmare scenarios of meeting these immoral types in real life. Of course I did date one knockout 17-yr old Colombian model while I was there, nothing happened. Her mother approved of me fine. I just didn't see any future in it. Way too young looking. I saw her waiting for her bus on the street. She turned my head so far around I had my chaffeur driver/translator turn around so we could talk to her -- that stunning... beemer18 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 10:54:43 PM   She's way too young for me... I hope you are not talking age, don't disappoint me!!!! Young as in immature or young way of thinking........right??? I tell you Apal, Of all the girls I've met only 1 has looked better in person than in pics. Trouble with looks..is eventually it goes away and what is left.........a bitch. :)))))))))))))))) apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 11:03:21 PM   lol! You know in certain lights both girl's were hotties to the nth degree. But when that light isnt on em, their looks belie their age. You know when girls turn on the charm, their entire face lights up? That thing. ;) I have met 18 yr olds that you could swear were sexy 25's... I thought this girl would be the same - more mature looking. ;) I am leery of meeting girls who's personality go from narcisstic to cute and overly sweet in a heartbeat. Throws me way off guard, until I realize way too late which one was fake and which wasn't. It's too late because they are talking to me and I can't excuse myself out of their life quickly enough! ;0 Adman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 11:11:48 PM   I like her blog apal, I think you miss understand it. apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 11:16:07 PM   Explain adman... apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2007 11:35:37 PM   Because after she accussed me of demanding sex, and told this to senior management of ArmyofBrides they had had enough of her. I translated: Damage to most recently, it was super, money, cars, restaurants, the proximity. Although there was no oath and love, but it was just fine. This is a pleasure to know that you are sure with whom sleep and laugh and just to wake up. And when it is lost, your heart goes to the fire of hope, a hope that the world does not yet filled Freaks." You can read into it whatever you want, but after a year of understanding the way this girl writes, I caught on to what she was saying about her boyfriend one of her penpals was writing to her about on her own blog. She was dating other men while still writing to men in the agencies. It might may have been the reason the guy suddenly dumped her a few days before his birthday. Her's was coming up at the end of May. I thought she was referring to our own breakup a few months earlier in December right around my birthday, but it was not "very recent". Don't get me wrong, there are good sides to this girl - to the extreme. She can be very spiritual, its what made me come all the way to see this girl, but she is as cunning as they come and will bring both angel wings and a venomous dagger to any relationship. She has pathological tendencies on the admission of her lying about who she was the entire time I wrote her. But she let me see the gold part of her - the one I fell for too. Her current profile does mention she is 'multi-sided', almost borderline multiple-personality. Unfortunate.. Adman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/27/2007 12:01:58 AM   You wrote that the girl was out having casual sex with local men and that it all meant nothing to her. But her whole blog is about how worthless she has been left feeling. She desired to find love and give all but ended with what so many there experince. Simply to be tossed aside like a rage doll. >"You continue to live, wake up in the morning as before, but lodged in your heart melancholy and grief which gnaws you from nutria, not giving rest in the afternoon at night. This awful feeling...." "But where to find love which is pure and eternal?"< The men in FSU really do treat there women badly. It is no surprise that they would consider living family and friends, if they could find better man. And even move to the evil USA ) Adman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/27/2007 12:15:05 AM   "proximity" translates more correctly as "affinity". >There were no oaths of love ....but it was simply good< She really cared for the guy. We can agree on one thing. She is a great writer apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/27/2007 12:28:16 AM   Agreed - she went after a local rich Ukrainian guy in Kiev. Her writing is good and this is the real her. Listen, if you're single, rich millionaire, young and handsome and can speak fluent Russian -- and can tolerate completely narcissitic, patheological sociopaths with a spiritual side who likes to think of herself as a creative writer -- this is your dream girl! ;0 apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/27/2007 12:35:28 AM   It's why guys like him leave girls like her. He's got a gold-mine, why bother with the nuggets who are digging for gold, when he has the motherlode? This is the guy that will love em and leave em. She knew what she was getting into. You overlook an important detail. She wrote this the exact same day I sent flowers to apologize for not forgiving her quickly enough when she admitted she had lied to me about every single she wrote me. See what side you want, but compute that one into your equation too. Well atleast you see how I fell for a girl like this only with letters. Too bad she is as immoral as they come... she has a good soul - just too corrupted for me to keep believing she was my soul mate. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Well - I just joined Fiance.com
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