Jet, of course there is no such thing as a guarantee, when it comes to relationships, I just don't see the point in traveling thousands of miles, spending thousands to meet women, when you can join a site like this for a few quid? and if you take your time and build up a relationship, you are lowering the odds of disappointment, use your male intuition, don't think with your cock, write to lots of girls and slowly disregard the ones who always wait for you to write,or just ask the questions. on my Birthday only one girl sent me a card and she phoned me, this showed a bit of commitment, i was still weary so when we decided to meet, i made her meet me halfway, just lowering the odds disappointment. Now we are engaged, and hoping to marry next year, we have lived together for a month and in November we are going to visit her family. Of course as you say this is no guarantee, but the odds look good.
I wish you good luck however you go about courting Mrs Jet.
Lol @ jet - guess I hit a nerve on your complete misunderstanding of these social events.
Stop being so defensive and more than a little immature in these posts.
You got some real insecurity issues going on. If you met your girl in a social, fine. If you think you can win over some argument on whether or not I call something a meat market or cattle call, who cares? I call it a cattle call - get over yourself. ;)
I didn't say they wouldn't be cool to attend if a guy needed to get an immediate ego boost. Yet, I still hold out hope like the rest of the guys in here, who say they have had success at writing girls, then meeting them.
You do realize what you are telling MOST ALL of us? Wtf are you telling us when you post how ridiculous it is to write a girl and then go meet her...?
... or didn't you realize you are stomping on pretty much all of us with your opinions that socials are better than writing ANYONE?
Your posts are too stupid to even comment on. Its ME that misunderstands Romance Socials!?! Just because I've actually been to two - while you've learned all about being on the moon while watching a video?
This is a great forum - but from time to time it seems to attract resident idiots who comment on ever thread but don't have a clue about this subject or any other.
Been wondering when the next resident idiot would pop up.
I've read all your posts, you think to try and win arguments by using immature personal attacks whenever you feel you are losing.
Get over yourself, you had luck at a social - congrats. I call them a cattle-call, you take offense. I admit they could be rather entertaining and fun.
I am sorry I hurt your feelings by my comment on them being "cattle calls". I got no beef with you. Good luck with your relationship. I am glad you had luck at a social... lol ;0
You just are not going to convince me they the superior way ANYONE needs to meet a girl. Its a ridiculous comment... I will continue writing girls who have profiles written by Marriage (Advertising) agencies... ok. That's your comment on letter-writers not mine. ;0
I have - at one there was 15 guys at the other there was 18. 200 different women every night. Three Romance Socials on every tour.
I know several guys who met their wives this way. Don't actually know anyone persoanlly who flew on the shuttle.
You want a guarantee that there are no professionals, or hookers there.... do you have a similar guarantee for me regarding profiles or any other method of meeting women?
PLENTY of good apples there - sincere women who come a long way for a chance to meet a decent western guy. Not all like to write endless letters to guys who may never show up in FSU anyway.
Amazes me that people here are so frightened of Romance Socials. Don't attend if you don't want to. But don't cry if your letter writing schemes aren't producing the results you want either.
zeeco: If your method works for you terrific. Bit I've been reading a lot of discouraging comments in the forum recently failures in letter writing. Guy going a long distance to discover that the girl isn't who they thought. The Romance Social idea offers an alternative. Its not guaranteed, but I place the odds of success a lot higher than letter writing in general.
Congrats zeeco. Mya all things work out wonderfully for you.
yes i agree with Apal Romance socials are cattle shows. and many of the women that go to socials look like like cattle as well - just like a lot of american women. The only difference is Russian women dont take prozac.
Also a lot of the Ukranian ladies that go on these cattle show socials are the same women that go to Dubai during the october to March winter season, and sell their bodies to rich muslim arabs. When these ladies bodies are shagged out,and they have made enough cash they come home to ukraine to recuperate, go to the socials and suck the money out of gullible western men.
Jet, i agree, if the social worked for you, then good.
From reading numerous posts,it amazes me that some men are willing to cross the globe and part with tonnes of money, to see a girl they haven't even spoken on the phone too, it is possible in today's modern age with e mail and skype, to build a good foundation of a relationship, in the mean time ask the agency if she is Kosher and check her on google etc, this doesn't mean it will certainly work, but the chances are better.
zeeco:
One of the legendary problems that we have heard about in this forum is the guy who writed to a girl, falls for her, decides that she is the one, (maybe his phone conversations are limited becuase she doesn't speak english but she SOUNDS SINCERE?!?!) and then the guy goes to see her and discovers, she has no real interest (no chemistry), she just wants to shop, she is turned off by him, he is turned off by her, she forgot to tell him about her several kids, she has a local boyfriend, she DIDN'T write the letters at all - it was the agency translator -taking certain "liberties", she has personal problems, maybe she is psycho.... I could go on and on.
The guy may or may-not have a backup plan, (most of us advise to ALWAYS have a backup plan) - suddenly he is in a strange town where he knows nobody and doesn't speak the language, facing the prospect of staring at his hotel room walls all day or finding a local agency. Maybe he finds and agency - and they instantly recognize hims as fresh meat for the gnawing. They set him up with agency girls (professional daters) charge him ridiculous translation fees or "introduction fees". Now he suddenly need a driver, and to be JOIN this agency, and he pays to meet several girls who are nothing at all like he prefers.
The potential problems go on and on.... so he gets home and writes about the terrible scamming girls of the FSU and how he never wants to go there again - they are all dishonest and disloyal - and now he wants to go to Thailand etc. etc. etc. (sound familiar?).
He is thousands of dollars poorer and very discourged.
With a Romance Social - NONE OF THIS STUFF CAN HAPPEN!
You have a chance to meet the girl face to face, actually to meet several girls. And they know that you are there to find someone special and are quite serious so they regard you as a prize. I collected some twenty phone numbers/contact information of women that I was intersted in at the Socials. I made no absolute promises but told the women I hoped to contact them during the week and if our schedules permitted maybe we could meet for dinner or coffee (ya gotta eat anyway!).
It is a GREAT alternative and I can only speak from expereience that the two sets of Romance Socials I ATTENDED (some 3 1/2 years apart) produced results that were worth EVERY PENNY spent.
and there is also the not so small matter of the price of the socials,about 1500 to 2000 dollars if you go with those cowboys located in Phoenix Arizona - that particular agency seem to have got a monopoly on those socials along with those other cowboys anastasia com.
Have to agree with bored - I seen a lot of those event videos and actually I just wasn't too overly impressed with the quality of women I saw in them.
I'm sure I remember there being more rump roast than filet minon there. ;0
When I went to Colombia I met more women there outside agencies than most probably should... The one thing that lacked, was that I never wrote one of them beforehand... I don't have problem meeting women locally or 17-yr old models off the streets of Cali, because unlike one of these guys posting on this topic - I'm not such a huge 50yr old flake that sometimes has to have every last bit of help to catch some young girls eye... geezus...
apal:
before you so readily agree with boredfukka,take a little time to see just how far he speaks "tongue in cheek" or just how often the post is worded to solicit a caustic reply!!!!
Quite honestly how you can comment on something you have never tried is beyond me too.