I have searched for 4 years and I have found that only 5% of women might be right for me, because when I meet them they are almost nothing like what they appear to be in thier profiles. but rejecting someone right off might not be the way either, It is also nice to see the person you speak to:-) You never know who the right person is until you meet them...any way thanks for the foto:-)
When I went to Kherson several times I persuaded my best friend to come. He found a very attractive girl, they are 4 years are happily married with 3 children. So it does work sometimes. I too dated one or two girls who were serious but I did not love them. On reflection one of them was posisbly right for me, she looked rather like Sophia Loren, from Nikolaiv.. Anyway, I went back several times including, kiev, odessa but did not find anyone special todate. I will be returning to Ukriane again soon with the hope and intention with my experience to try to find a wife sooner rather than later.
Hi Vivi,
I am somewhat irregular in reading, and happened on your reply accidently, sorry. I started researching the Ukraine since July 07, only became serious now after a few weeks after visiting Kiev for a week in September. I was shocked at the huge numbers of beautiful women everywhere, the "California girls" myth and Beach Boys song... well the Beach Boys were never in the Ukraine! The stunning looks, hair makeup CLOTHING, the manner of being super feminine... unbelievable. On top of all that the education level is so impressive. The younger women of beauty in the U.S. seem to be less inclined to education and are taken (since there are fewer per capita IMHO) rely solely on their looks to get a man. That is a broad generalization and their are exceptions to the rule of course.
hello bedpenny,
thanks for the answer. You are right about the Russian beauties...althrough there is such thing as mentality difference also:) May be you have noticed?
I have read your other post where you are looking for woman without children...as I have wrote here, my girlfriend owns her marriage agency and may be we can find some nice woman, who does not want to have children, for you. How can we contact each other?
that was a bit of a bed start to call him that first, and next asking how you could contact him. I'm sure you noticed (giggle)?
Notice too that, when logged-in here, you'll see 'Private Messages' at the top. Maybe an idea to use it? Just my penny's worth....
You are correct. Many time wasters online. Some are simply sexual predators masquerading as seriously looking.
I knew one member who wrote to hundreds of girls, reduced his list down to 6, then decided he did not have enough money to go to see them. The ladies were led a merry dance. What these selfish people don't realise is that they spoil it for everyone else. Decent ladies become defensive or disillusioned.
There is no easy answer, except to protect your feelings and your reputation until a man reveals his true colours. That applies to men as well who have to spend thousands of dollars and travel to what they may feel is a dangerous country, seduced by photographs that project the lady in a very flattering light. Meetings can be over very quickly.
She too, may quickly decide he is not for her and leave without a second thought,. Why waste time?... is her thinking.
As you say it is a lottery.
I would always recommend a man to go and visit after half a dozen letters and a few phone calls and have the initial meeting quickly. Falling in 'love' with an image, rather than the reality is setting oneself up for a fall. Keep the address of local agencies in case anything goes wrong.
Vivi,
I am knew to this forum but not to this pursuit.
It is a difficult endeavor for serious man and women. I wrote some hundreds of letters and met some 6 women before I find my GF. When I met her the first time and talk with her all night I had that incredible feeling of having found the right person. After being with her 4 weeks total time between two meetings I am counting the days until I meet her again in December.
There are many good man and good women out there the difficulty is to connect them.
Just pick a small city, under 1/2 million, go to the internet cafe and let girls use your computer to check their mail, myspace, ect. you get a lot of attention as this is expensive for them. You get the added bonus of seeing where they post and they will enjoy it if you help with english grammer.