big subject. endless .. for those who read the long story I can say one thing. Man do not let screw you up. it is your FULL responsibility. listen, there are much more stories about been screwed by wives met normal way . he he
if you pick up wrong girl it is your fault, not NATIONALITY. I always say : people are people everywhere. there are good people, and bad people. f... if you screwed up do not cry loudly
I agree, can't blame a whole country on the acts of 1 person. Everyone here should know the riskes associated with meeting someone off the internet, much less meeting someone halfway around the world. Personally, I search for mid 20's women with no kids, seems they are grown up enough to handle responsibility, and really want a change in their life, not some teen looking to verbally seduce a guy for money, nor someone just looking for support for herself and child. I have great sympathy for you, my heart goes out dude, but don't go pointing the finger unless it is to yourself in the mirror.
I had great fun reading the story... it's not the first time I've heard this story... suckers!! why do you guys think this ladys looking for American life styles???? the answer is Dollar$$$$$$$$$ "lol"
Hello!
At last I found time to write results of my search in this issue. First of all – thanks everybody for your opinions – they were really helpful! Even odd reaction of few guys was interesting to read about.
Now I understand much more then I did when I wrote first message.
Lets face truth - there is a very small amount of good Ukrainian and Russian men (unhealthy, lazy or just crazy :-( ) and if woman’s age is more then 27 and if she has a kid – it will be very hard to find a man, at least some man… So now I think it is not so bad, that men from USA or Europe come to meet our women, but only if they want to build serious relationships. Our women are full of love that they cannot share. You are right Thunderdome, it is question of demand and offer!
Sure, for many women it is very big plus that foreigner have more money then they have, but it seems to me that not only FSU-women care about that – all do :-) (or not?).
I even start to think that governments of our countries should have programs for people, who want to find love in other country – to give them kind of benefits :-))). In this case government can effectively control scams from both sides! International marriages are one more step in world globalization, which I second.
Unfortunately, there are bad people in all nations, in mine too. Most of women do scams because of poverty. Forgive them… But it is SO BASELY when foreign men (who have at least enough money for tickets to Russia) use our women just for sex or some fun. It is sad – we cannot do anything with that, so sad to think that because of bad economics compatriots of mine can be used so easily.
I have finished my home work and gave it to my teacher. She was impressed and asked me to read it on conference on next month, so I need to prepare and I already worry :-)
Yea people… time for me to get serious for a while. You people way to often put the great knight from the West in the first room and like to contemplate good or bad girls in former USSR.
Sad is the guys that have to travel all over the world to find a sex partner. Can you handle the truth people? These guys search for superiority. Why western men looking for girls in poor continents are because they miss enough social competence to receive the strong own minded ladies from West. Most likely the great western Knight hopes to find an inferior and grateful lady… why’s that? Not all males but most of them wants to be in charge and control, I would say… bad self confidence. It’s easy to buy something where people are not that well-to-do (affluent) right. The only difference from the regular prostitution in this issue is, the western dude looking for a poor Russian lady can have some true attraction from the girl instead of a cold professional whore.
I know it stings to read and some of you guys will be pissed of but deep inside you know what I’m talking about, right.
So who is risking their ass for falling rocks in this matter? I would say it’s the lady that is prepared to leave her home and families behind for love and comfort. Let me put it like this, she dates a guy from the great Western part and sometimes do what it takes to win his heart. She might even give her self to this guy all the way but the Western Knight is only there for sex and adventure. Most likely he’s by now addicted to all the mail order catalogue girls and have major problem to make up his mind. We are complaining about awful scammer girls in Russia and Ukraine taking advantage of western fellows. What do we call Western guy visit former USSR for love and sex adventures? I would say it’s far worse than scammers so in my opinion as long as there is idiots sending money; suck them dry
And who the hell is this crazy person writing this nonsense. I’m a financial secured man from the great “we rule and God bless” part of the world. If I find a girl from Europe I’ll move my ass over there. Our country is not safe anyway and most of the people in the former USSR don’t know about our class society where the poverty could be just the same as in former USSR. My visits in Germany and Scandinavian impressed me big time. Cultivated, peaceful people with humility, I bet I’m going to find this in Russia as well