'The other thought is have you thought if living in Ukraine with her she is your wife if she was prepared to live in your country and give up her friends and family for you maybe for the sake of your marriage you could consider that for her marriage is a two way street.'
are you a freaking idiot? marriage is a two way steet? is that a joke?
this guy was supporting her whether she wanted to work or not.
how long would she have stayed with him if he decided not to work?
So you suggest the cornerstone of marriage is money and the girl was only milking the guy for money, you obviously have all the facts. She will eventualy see the light and try and clean the guy out, most women do its a fact of life even here in the UK its a win win situation for a woman if it goes tits up. These people got married there must be some love involved at some stage, i suggest it is only natural for her to miss her life in Ukraine, lets face it if the situation was reversed i would feel the same. Sorry stupid suggestion really wasn't it to think this girl married this guy for money and not love and even more stupid to suggest a woman that moves 1000s of miles away from her family would be homesick. The guy will get his divorce eventualy but like i said its a win win situation for her.
She’s not remaining married to get an EU passport or green card as someone oddly suggested. In Ireland she has to reside in the country for 4 or 5 years before she can get a passport. Just being married to an Irish citizen doesn't cut it. Of course she may not know this. But probably like most Ukrainian/Russian woman she is stubborn and won't want to admit she was wrong and has no need to get devoiced as it doesn't change benefit her too. No doubt all sorts of nutcases are giving her advice over there as well. Good luck Colin, although you have to admit your more than somewhat to blame for the situation you’re in :)
it was a gamble that didnt work out,, I have a nice ethnic Russian/latvian girl here now, she has a eu passport
works 2 jobs and has her own car,and just 33, im quite happy, there is no comparsion,
i would live in ukraine no problem , i have a 8year old son here that i have 50 percent
rather stay with him than go after her. and no I wouldnt do divorce here because u have to be seperated for 4 years before duvorce would go through, my lawyer said not to worry it will be done eventually, divorce here also cost thousands its a simple proccess in Ukraine and only cost me 400 usd or so