At least I have my car - he he - just kidding - yeah I need to go sometime but now I lost all motivation to write again until something big happens like lotto 6/49!!! :)
Thats why I like cars they can't break your heart only get you drivers licence suspension for fast driving - girls man they can destroy you from within - oh well until next time of letter re-writing.
For Danny yes the petrol is now getting more expensive than 2 yrs ago, but yes need to go there, I have not made my move just becuase being as M. Ghandi founder of India becareful before you spill something, the thing is I still have my car.
For Rick4girl, no I didn't go since not getting a very good response that I wanted from the letters in the first place. Yes I wanted to go & check the situation but thank god I bought the ugli car which rocks still compared to other BMW or Merc's on the road with super acceleration. So for fact at least I have soemthing tangible & above average & still keeping it.
As for Kevin (Kherson girls owner) I still think he is doing a good job & nothing against him at all.
As for Elena Matsuk well well well, when will we see another babe like her born in Kherson in this century??
See the thing is love is not cheap as some people take FSU or letters exchanging, whether one writes to (now I am getting into classification or tier system) average girl or a model from anywhere.
Anyway I hope there is another model as Elena would luv to restart for sure.
I have to say that it is an expensive option to date, let alone marry a FSU girl. If your worried about budgets and money, you shouldn't try. The odds are not in your favor for it to be successful nor inexpensive.
Each girl I met in Kharkiv thought I was some sort of filthy rich multi-millionaire with wads of cash just begging to be spent, just because I was a foreigner. I hated that the most about some of my time spent there. I make great money, but not THAT multi-mega millionaire type some of these Ukraine girls dream of marrying...
Well this is my first post in here...would like to share my experience with Khersongirl (scaryy)
Agency is fine, somewhat serious about money (I mean, I asked a refund and they did with no problem and so on).
Sadly, despite we all know that this is businness so there are money around, I have to say that Khersongirl, for my taste, is too money addicted!
They do not really make a matchmaking system...I'm looking for a REAL GOOD GIRL and I was sending interview to girls that had more then 20 partners, not what I'm looking for, and in my opinion they could drive me better instead of letting me waste my money sending interview to girls that are really the opposite of what I'm looking for.
But I found a girl there :) well didn't lasted much but not for scam reason...she was a good girl.
BUT because of her I found out that there are some girl going to Khersongirl agency and they are living with their boyfriend...so...the agency shall check better who is subscribing there!
But I think they do not care, this is the problem...I don't want waste my time and money on a girl that read my letter after or before having sex with the boyfriend she's living with!
And...my girlfriend asked more then one time to remove her profile from the Kherson girl pages...but the profile is still there (well...now she's single again but...don't know...) AND it happened to me to be in Kherson with my girlfriend and people from Khersongirl was calling her asking if she wanted to date other man...and when she was saying no they was poiting out that this man was rich!
I mean...KHERSONGIRL...you found me my girlfriend, we are happy together, I come to Kherson (giving you money) to be with her, we are living together in YOUR appartment that I'm paying...and you push her to another man?!?!?
Luckly she was a good girl and in love with me...but...this is not what I'm expecting from a marriage agency and this is why I quitted with them!
That's my experience about Kherson girls mentality!
Kevin Hayes is just as much a scammer as anyone else in the buisness. He just tries to pull wool over your eyes and scam you " cleanly".
He will ask for DNA to prove these girls are scamming. And yes I say "girls", because 90% of them are not there to actually find a foreign husband. ANd the 10% that are, look like someone ran over them with a mule cart......
Kevin Hayes is out to make money. PERIOD. If you think he gives a rats ass about matching you up with a good woman , you are sadly mistaken.
I have been to Ukraine over 10 times. And I would NEVER, I MEAN NEVER , use an agency to meet a Ukrainian woman.... These women cannot keep men, so it is easy enough just to go or chat on a dating site and meet cold turkey. It is very easy to date a Ukranian woman cold turkey. Have some balls and you will wonder why you EVERY spent hundreds or possibly thousands of dollars sending meaningless letters.
I have used Kevins agency, also had a problem with one of the girls I was writing through "purchasing" her address and phone number..... Soon as you do that... BEWARE... the money will be expected.
Also, Understand the "product" he is pushing. I suggest anyone that hasnt, to read JIms LIsts or marriage agency scams "horror stories" Honest to god, it is a bang on page about how these girls are. Like everyone else I was attracted to the beauty of these women.... but the downside to that is very many of them are a mental mess, and VERY self centered. Your job is to give them everything they desire, and their job is to ask for more.... im sorry, but until you have been in a REAL relationship with one, than you will never know. With these women ESPECIALLY, you must think with the correct "head".
Agency owners are not going to deplete their stock, if they get rid of a girl , that is alot of letters and false hopes that he CANT make money on. Hes about letters, and if he gets rid of all the girls that have not so true intentions of being with a foreign man, he has no stock left. DOnt care what anyone thinks about this, I KNOW because I have been in relations with some of these women. My latest being 3 years of living with her in Ukraine. THere is ONE common denominator with these women ... NUTZ. Mental stability is CRUCIAL when finding a Ukrainian or Russian bride. And it is RARE to to find there. Agencies are for men with no balls. You want to meet a beautiful woman? Go to Ukraine Date, and write a woman about one week before you go. Tell her you are coming there and you would love to meet her, and youre in. Also, find yourself a woman that knows some english, its really quite simple, youll be beating them off with a stick.
Agencies will be obsolete in the next 5 years or so, because you really dont need them, and they need money to survive, and will do WHATEVER means necessary to keep the money flowing,which means scamming.
Agree with Shaz as he saved the money and got something tangible but also agree with Rickforgirl that if he had gone visited her flat or whatever his mind would have exploded.
But agency facts remain :-
The agency disclaimer says in small fine print "we hold no responsibility in outcome of affairs".
These girls are not here for relations, only main aim & goal is to make profit for agencies.
Yes they will write the most emotional letters/have serious words …BUT when the time comes for the man to book the flight - these girls simply will give you a million reasons not to meet.
1 out of every 100 men who actually go to meet the girl(s), end up in failed attempts.
We bet & encourage you to ask her 4 things, no matter in which level you are with the girl, you will at least get 1 out of 4 negative replies for sure! Love should get 110 % positive replies!!!
Main Questions to ask
1. Communicate with me outside the agency or use internet cafe - See what she says.
2. If she is serious, than how fast can she pick up English language, you will not get a positive reply, her main & goal is to profit the agency services, she rather says sometime in future - see what she says.
3. Ask her you want her to be the "mother of my child", she will back out/divert the topic or ask for more time - see what she says.
4. The best way to find out if she is interested in you no matter what rather than both of you flirt, tell her will you speak to my lawyer in UKR/Russia & see her reaction. These girls are scammers purely.
Please google the id before writing to all profiles, from experience these letters are good pass time & real pictures to for eyeball pleasing but only when ONE ACTUALLY GOES out to have a 1 on 1 meeting than you will understand the complexities of man to women to different countries issues & language barriers in dealing with any women from anywhere,
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Sure Kevin wants to make money, thats why he started the agency and prefers his life in Ukraine with his Ukrainian wife to life in the US.
You cannot fault him for this. Agree that he is stubborn and seems to want to control your interaction with the girls but most are real
girls looking for a better man, and yes Ive noticed that more than a few have boyfriends and he should police that better.
What many of you guys may not know is he is one of the good guys here in Kherson and helps the kids like I do by providing homeless with a place to go and a hot meal and Ive taken them in and bought them clothes and made them bathe for the first time in days, feed them and try to get them to go someplace safe. These kids hate the orphanage and internot and prefer their "freedom" on the streets. sad to say the least but I just had to take up for Kevin and let you know he isnt all bad,lol
Kevin, owner of Kherson Girls, is OK, I used to read and sometimes exchange with him in the good ol' days of some 10 or so years ago when there was a respectable forum such as 'RWGuide' around ... Who can blame Kevin for not partaking in such immature forums as this forum whereas it seems it is Australia, Sweden and Derby taking on the world?
"but not THAT multi-mega millionaire type some of these Ukraine girls dream of marrying... "
If you had won the recent Powerball lottery, the entire country would be after YOU.
"And yes I say "girls", because 90% of them are not there to actually find a foreign husband. And the 10% that are, look like someone ran over them with a mule cart......"
Beauty is just skin deep, but ugliness lasts forever.
"There is ONE common denominator with these women ... NUTZ. Mental stability is CRUCIAL when finding a Ukrainian or Russian bride. And it is RARE to find there."
Agreed. Maybe this is the reason why Psychology is so popular there?
"Agencies will be obsolete in the next 5 years or so"
Do not agree because as the saying goes, there is a sucker born every minute. The pool of newbies is constantly being replenished.
"1 out of every 100 men who actually go to meet the girl(s), end up in failed attempts."
Not sure how to interpret this. Does this mean that 99 out of 100 are successful (I think not)? Or does this mean that the very few (1%) that do meet are failures (that is, a 100% failure rate)? If the latter, then it implies all meetings are failures.
"The agency disclaimer says in small fine print "we hold no responsibility in outcome of affairs"."
As I said before, no one is held accountable for the introductions. Just think of it as a cave man coming upon a group of cave women.
"We bet & encourage you to ask her 4 things, no matter in which level you are with the girl, you will at least get 1 out of 4 negative replies for sure! Love should get 110% positive replies!!!"
There are sensible questions to ask, but scammers are sure to reply with a "wishy-washy" answer so to not appear to be giving a negative response.
Inside the seedy parties where Western men hunt for impoverished young Russians and Ukrainians to make 'traditional, sexy' wives...........
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2309867/Soviet-bride-safaris-Insi de-seedy-parties-Western-men-hunt-young-Russian-Ukrainian-wives.html
The link is dated today,,, but the photos are years old,,,, because I remember laughing at them many times before. In fact,,, at that time, I went and searched for the videos of the socials,, and those were years old!
The media often use pics that they have on historical file.
Every time there is an serious airline incident do you think they always have a pic of that aircraft, even type of aircraft, on that given day? ... Nope, let's say it was a ABC Airlines Airbus A330, they're likely to drag out a pic of an ABC Airlines Boeing 737 publishing it to be a pic of an A330!
It wasn’t just a couple of pics,,, it was all of the pics, and they might have been in the same order too?!
If it’s photos from a file,,, then it’s the creepiest, most pathetic old men’s file.
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