'give them absolutly nothing until a genuine relationship happens'
i agree. who is disagreeing with you? if your familiar with my posts i have always maintained this.
i've always said, if i girl GENUINELY likes you, she will be thinking of ways she can please you instead of thinking of ways to spend your money. i.e. cook for you, sex, etc...
Please don't say that. I know of men who are loved with go to the end of the world to win the heart of girls they love. Guys that would put all his efforts into learning their language, impressing her parents without throwing money around, scheme of ways to be next to her in her country for as long as possible (until the visa expires). He would be far from handsome, but in his early 30s and slender.. oh wait that's me! What city are you in again? lol =]