My advice was limited to the subject of bringing up the past. It was in a previous letter inferred that to do so is in fact, a betrayal. He may never meet any of us and this lady may never read his words, but it has been reveiled to the likes of us and anyone reading this forum. He can however benefit from constructive advice on matters that do not have us stand in judgement of his relationship.
So I'm 65, I'm having a relationship with a 20 year old, I have a daughter of 45, a grand-daughter of 25, and a great-grand-daughter of perhaps 7.
Phucking hell, I need to get back to the hotel bar for another Tiger, I hate quoting nasfan but this is way too funny, particularly when the indivial concerned can source the correct info from his organ grinder, but hey, why should my Fan Club concern themselves with honesty?
Batman, I'm looking at moving location later this week to another country, can't decide if I should take a flight or book a taxi!
I have not shown Danny the website. What Danny said might not be what really happened, but it is close to what Martin was looking for. He did try to date a 25 year old and when it soured hetrumped up lies like he did me and put it all in a website, along with her picture, birth date, and contact information.
Guys, we are all trying to find a mate. We can all talk about our troubles like Santiago here in this thread. When the relationship sours, we cannot put all the blame on the woman, as Martin did. We all know and I have demonstrated that he will never admit he is wrong. If there were more Martins out there, how can one hope for women to trust us again?
He's like a poodle, he just won't stop snapping at my ankles, and he continues lying, he claims what DD says MIGHT not be what really happened thus he is saying that I MIGHT be 65 y/o with daughters down to great-grand-daughter, dating a 20 y/o etc. and then flames me for putting ALL of any blame on other parties.
Just more lies from the forum's 2nd most prolific liar, I don't take offence, indeed I feel sorry for him, I'm very happy in a relationship whilst he snaps at me because he is the one with a relationship that has turned sour, after all the $$$ he sent to Ukraine, and he's back to jerking-off between his thumb and forefinger.
And he's the one putting the BLAME of his soured relationship upon others, namely others in this forum, part of being a man is dealing with life's problems and moving on, as I have done, he's still living in denial of the truth!
No one knows who I am.
No one knows who my fiance is.
I have kept things non-specific.
No betrayal.
I think anyone who has actually aproached the wedding stage of a distance relationship will understand my reaction to finding out that I was a little mislead at the very beginning of our relationship.
I had illusions that were partially created by my fiance.
She then encouraged these illusions.
It was only when I asked specific questions that she tearfully explained she feared I would consider her "...some kind of whore."
She was mistaken.
I am certain she is perfect for me.
RodanTsunami,
From the little I remember about your opinions I believe you would settle for a HIV+, retired, sex change hooker.
Thats why you cannot understand the normal reactions of a man like myself (a man who can pick and choose, to a certain extent, which women he wants to take seriously.
Why do you think Anja Menshykava broke her own rules and slept with me???
Normally men must take her on a holiday to hope for that.
All I did was take some perfume when I met her in Gomel.
She was used to old and ugly men with far fetched dreams.
I fall into niether catergory
I never understood why this forum was a place to share your troubles. I always found this forum an excellent resource so you would't have "those" troubles. This isn't a crying room for the hard headed. This forum has degenerated into, oh looky I found a scammer, or someone hand me a crying towel because I got my ass kicked by a scam because I was an idiot.
RB what's the point whether Martin admits he's wrong? I knew he was wrong years ago, but you like the joy out of personal destruction just like your buddy danny. Don't be the pot calling the kettle black when it comes to being wrong you also never admit it.
If you guys want a group hug, join a lonely hearts club. These ladies aren't looking for guys in touch with their female side.
In the good old days, when there was an RWG forum, it had specific areas for general discussion, travel tips, scam reports, etc. etc. etc. so one had a choice to view a specific area or not, alas such forums take a few $$$ for the software and of course ..... some moderation :)
Talking of cry babies where is he? He's so thick I think I'll refer to him as 'Trigger' from now on, a Brit would understand but for the rest of you:
Save your breath, Trigger knows darn well I can admit when I'm wrong, in a fairly recent PM to him, and he knows it, I voluntarily said the words "it appears I was mistaken", that's just one example that springs to mind, I would tell you he's full of bullshit but that would be comparible to teaching you to suck eggs.
Santiago, you are in fact talking crap about your women, not mine. My point was, whatever woman you choose, honor her. Or if you choose, treat her as you do. However there seems to be a pattern of how you express your thoughts of the women referred to on this forum. It is best that you stay on the other side of the fence and bark at your own. You do not need my advice, nor do you understand how it is relative to your interaction with everyone in your life
"I knew he was wrong years ago, but you like the joy out of personal destruction just like your buddy danny."
You allow Martin's lies and think I'm out for his personal destruction? Did you see the names he called me and the lies he accused me of? Have you seen the website? I called Chrissian and got her story. That website was out to destroy her life just because Martin did not get his way.
Why in God's name would you call a total stranger out of the blue to get the dirt on someone RB, you have mental issues. So since you don't like Martin this girls story is absolutely the truth without a doubt? Nope sorry doesn't work with me, I lived among the Filipinos in Subic saw the treachery and saw how cheap life was so don't go spraying your bullshit here regarding that this woman is telling the truth since you don't know shit about either side of the story. The FSU women aren't the only ruthless scammers in the world.
And you don't know the average Filipina beyond the corruption created by the American base in Subic Bay where sailors have money and nothing to spend it on except where poverty lurked around them. Whose story here is the absolute truth without a doubt? Whose story is the absolute lie without a doubt? (Martin's Marriage) We have her story, a little of it, anyway, at least for now. If you want to believe Martin, that's fine. I don't go by what works with you.
Ok. Let's go by what's being discussed here. Given the big lie that Martin gave about his marriage for five years, do you think he's capable of telling her he's 45? That's one of the things he is hinting on. Imagine her surprise when he saw a 65+ year old man. (Her words)
Just one lie I've told and in some 5 years, Raging Bullshit, the Dyslexic Dynamo and Mini Crapper tell more lies than that before breakfast.
He called the Chrissian lady ..... what bullshit, did she mention that she had been in subsequent contact with me offering her apologies for her behaviour etc?
"Did not get my way", it's on the website, communications between her best friend and I, her best friend, who knew me, acknowledged that I was not that sort of guy offering explanation that Chrissian has immaturity issues!
Why the phuck am I still discussing her??? She's been out of my mind since 2009, I've been in a relationship with another since then, DD complains of old news, RB drags this up because he's got no life of his her ..... aw bless him.
Right, time to go, there was a 6 inch lizard on my bottle of beer, as I went to grab the bottle, last evening in this resort's bar, now I've an inter-city (cross jungle!) taxi to take before, hopefully, taking a sea catamaran to my next port of call.
Talk to y'all tomorrow from my tropical beach villa :)
One lie, Martin? One lie you got caught with, which you perpetuated for five years. How many stories were connected with that? Those were not lies?
Chrissian might have apologized to you. That shows what kind of person she is. But she did not know of the website until I told her. I know she was really upset about it. No way would she have apologized to you if she knew.
RB, I spent more time than just in Subic when I was in the PI. The American base caused the corruption, my ass it gave Filipino's job who wouldn't have had them. Who worked in the shipyards, oh I guess it was the Americans who were sitting on the fantail of my ship eating fish heads and rice. I spent time in Manila, Luzon and various other areas of the Phillipines. You are a dumbass beyond all I have ever seen on this forum. It was the same shit in Manila, or anywhere else I went in the PI. Maybe it was Clark Air force base and all the Americans there. I remember my bus ride from there it wasn't an American driving the bus to my ship.
You're pathetic and for all we know you may be spreading bullshit here on the forum calling this lady. If it isn't it proves you need some professional help because most normal guys wouldn't go to such a silly extreme.