danny40 - after I posted I thought to myself, 'that was dumb.' nobody wants to hear this crap. but my excuse will be my new prescription to pain meds came in :). I'll know better in the future.
point taken... after I hit send and read what I wrote I thought myself, geeeeze, what a knucklehead.
as for the 3 stooges, it's only an assumption based on her not caring for monty python. but she does like to laugh and joke. she is just very serious about many things. she loves MY sense of humor and I have a wicked sense of humor. so she can't be all that bad....