Still trying to figure out what a "flailer" is here's a TV programme, quite a good one, focusing on an AFA Romance Social (once one gets past the 4 intro adverts):
Ranger,
Am I on the list of successful people you know?
The truth is that marriage (especially a international one) is a marathon and not a sprint. It is not about who finds a prized posession first. It is about who finds a woman who devotes herself to her man for years to come, despite the difficulties (because an international marriage is full of difficulties).
So, even though I think that I married "the one," we have not been together enough time to consider ourselves "successful." If I am still happy with this woman in 20 years, then I will consider myself very successful. For now, I feel very happy with the girl I married. And so far I feel that I married the right one.
I just hope that I don't have to start this search again, especially after reading how difficult it can be for many ... even Giss, who thinks that he has the right recipe for absolute success.
Hey Giss, why don't we talk again in three years to check out how our different "success" stories have turned out?
Danny,
I have heard of very good scam artists who put up a beautiful act until they get their final documents, and then they show their true selves. The victims are blindsided and never see it coming, until it is too late.
That is why I prefer to wait enough time before I claim "victory."
But for now, I'm loving it!
And FSUlover makes 3!!!
You are now! Otherwise it was Ralph and baron! I would like to hear all about your success!! All the; who, when, where, and how’s!!? What we need here on the forum, are more of the real success stories.
How can success be measured?? I think you had it right on another post, FSUlv!! Definitely after the “Green Card” stage,,,, or after the point she no longer needs her man!! Or,,,,, any man!!
Danny had a question, “what if” something happens to your wife, and she dies??? Strange question danny,,, do you have something on your mind?????? Anywho,,,,, how would a guy feel about his marriage, if it ended unexpectedly??? I think it would be based on how your marriage was, when she passed!? If you had a happy marriage,,, how could you have any other feelings?? The same with the reverse!
Another possible measure,,, would be to compare it to the average marriage length , in your own country?? Just a thought,,, now tell us Durak,,, (please),,,, what are the average marriage expectancies in the various countries??
Oh,,, danny,,, did you mean,,, “Would you ever know, if you were successful??” Instead of;
“would you never know if you where successful ? “
Just trying to help,,, no need to throw me over the,,,, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
She loved him so much and wanted to be with him that she jumped to her death. Like I said, Danny. Watch the one you're with. Don't worry about anyone else.
Oooops I wasn't supposed to post anymore. I couldn't resist that one. That's for everytime you called my partner a scammer when I told you to quit.
danny,,, I wasn't here two years ago!
Happiness is the ultimate reward!!!! However,,, I was happy in Kiev Feb of 2010,, and you know how that turned out????
Oh,, it's; "You're a strange guy lonely!!" I'm just me!!
There you go, Danny. You have problems. Concentrate on that. Common in Russia? And you think you can drill into me the problems you think I have? Get your girl some medication, or at least have some ready. You think she's healthy because of the embassy physical? Think again.
You don't think your she is a scammer? She has not asked you for anything? Soon she won't have to. She can take what then she wants. Everyone is after a better life. Your gf is no exception. What prospects does she have except you?
Bullsh*t, Danny. There's one thing you don't wish on me and that's good luck. You wish you know what I'm up to so you can tell me all of the "wrong" things I'm doing and tell me what to do. I don't tell what I'm doing because exactly of what you did. You were dying for me to tell and when I didn't you went at it anyway, as if you knew. You communicated with a scammer, linked her to me, and then slandered a beautiful person every chance you got.
Your gf is the same way, laughing at tourists that they sound like monkeys then laugh the same way. Worry about yourselves. In the next few months, you will have your own scammer. Live with it and don't try to live with anyone else's business. Then, you can feel good about what you are doing.
If I listen to what you say, and do what you do I will surely fail.
I posted a youtube link previously in this thread of quite a good TV programme of an AFA Romance Social, member(s) reported back to me that they couldn't view it in their country(s), obviously because it is a UK TV programme, however I'm trying a trick I've picked up and, appently, by 'doctoring' the link as I have it can be viewed from other countries.
Here's the 'doctored' link, give it a go and let me know how you get on: