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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Ouch: Made a Mistake Author Post durak Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/7/2012 12:33:31 PM   @rb, I an vulnerable to rescue fantasies, but as kiwinorth observed, E is doing alright in life and seems fairly content ... she isn't sending out signals that she needs anybody. If there's a "damsel in distress" in my eyes, it would be her little daughter. She's a sweet child who is quite normally friendly and playful. At the same time, she usually has a very serious expression on her face, seems quite shy when meeting other children, often walks with her head down, and shows other signs of insecurity. Feeling about children as I do -- and especially about this tiny person -- it is might tempting for me to imagine that if I were her stepfather, my love could help her to feel more secure in this world. This might be true, but at the same time, my experience and learning have shown me that my rescue fantasies are about me (the "hero") a lot more than about the person I dream of helping. In other words, imagining that I can put on my superhero cape and come to the rescue is a trap I can easily fall into. This is especially tricky with FSU women. It is quite common that they are in circumstances that are awfully painfully if you think seriously about them. At the same time, they are usually extremely strong people, and often fiercely independent -- so the man who thinks he is "rescuing" such a woman can find himself in very hot water. ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/8/2012 12:12:52 AM   Why do I need a costume? I have not worn that thing since Halloween. http://benbaligad.com/spiderman/ Mr. Durak from my experience, if she isn't sending out signals that she needs anyone, it could be that she has not decided yet. She might have someone else in mind and she wants to see how that will turn out. This is only logical unless she intends not to marry again. Unfortunately, us foreigners are likely to be second choice, if they find a decent man in their country. I think being aware that one of the components of our feelings can consist of the "damsel in distress" is enough. It gives us a feeling of adequacy. (A pretty thing like that does not have to live like that. I can fix that.) I know how dangerous that can be if it is the only basis of the relationship. Scammers know it well. The conclusion of a "Damsel in Distress" relationship is you end up with a distressed damsel. ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/8/2012 3:45:30 AM   I had to go look outside and see if there was a blue moon. Danny just made a post without making things up. ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/8/2012 11:57:21 AM   Not correct, Danny. It was a joke that went over your head. You are now back to making things up. nasfan6 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/13/2012 3:25:29 PM   Wow and to think Fag Danny and RB were the bestest of buddies LMMFAO!! ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/13/2012 3:46:43 PM   Reading is not one of your best subjects, is it Nasfan? nasfan6 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/13/2012 4:09:54 PM   Surely isn't your's dumbass, what's the scam dollar amount up to now RB?? Reading is a skill not a subject. ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/14/2012 12:29:52 AM   What does that got to do with it? Changing the subject because you are dead wrong? Reading is not a subject? Again, you are dead wrong. You missed that part in school, didn't you? ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/14/2012 1:35:56 AM   "Wow and to think Fag Danny and RB were the bestest of buddies LMMFAO!!" That was grammar school where reading was a subject that you missed. Even if I saw it your way that it is a skill, you are lacking in it. Then, you laugh. That is surely a sign of mental deficiency. tearepa Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/14/2012 12:32:53 PM   Keep at it Durak, I wanna see a nice guy get the girl! In my experience with FSU women just be yourself, play your own ace - yeah I know its a bit cliche - but you'll receive more sleep at night, and possibly not alone. ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/15/2012 3:17:55 PM   Have you ever heard of the golden rule, Danny? Would you like your wife to be spoken of like that? JayH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/16/2012 4:21:12 AM   Durak -I can relate to nearly 100% of your story here. What is your age> her age? Apologies for not knowing your story. I am thinking she needs you to be decisive--take control and sweep her off her feet. She needs you to be a "man" in this way.I also understand the difficulties of pushing to hard-- but maybe you have not pushed enough. have you been in relationships in your life previously> ? What I am getting at is that I am completely house trained !! That could be mistaken for being weak. I like the sound of her! ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2012 12:43:11 PM   One of the hardest decisions for some of them is leaving their homeland that they love. From then on, they will be just visitors to what they once called home. If you promise to live in their homeland within five years as Danny did, she might latch on to you like a crab. ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2012 2:30:26 PM   I don't believe pushing is the answer. I think persistence is. There is a saying about women: easy come, easy go. Those you put your time to, even when the odds are against you are the ones that last. Lots of times, I had given up on a woman. But, I still went through as if I didn't. I broke a few hearts because when they finally came around, I was no longer in that frame of mind. lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/17/2012 10:54:59 PM   “Have you ever heard of the golden rule, Danny? Would you like your wife to be spoken of like that? “ Rb,,, Yes he would!!!! If we make fun of him and his’ family, it becomes more real to him and to others who read this!! He just wants someone to think he has something! “why would you push at all ...if they want you they will latch on like a crab” Danny,,, the women you encounter sound a little desperate?!! But if that’s what you want,,,, then that’s okay,, as long as she has some cash in her pockets,,,, Huh?? durak Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/18/2012 12:20:06 PM   Thanks to danny, tearepa, and JayH for your kind and encouraging words. To answer JayH, I'm 54, she is 40. ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2012 10:49:22 AM   "it mean alot comming from two men that cant evern get a date" Again, you make up lies. You are dead wrong, if you are talking about me. "rb ... they didnt come around ....they wanted more money" You have a one track mind, Danny. Your mind is like a video tape that has nothing else. I am not just talking about FSU women. I am also talking about women who have means. ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2012 11:03:46 AM   Over and over again, you are like a video, Danny. Nothing is new. Why is it that you like to talk about other people's money? Don't you have any of your own? Try answering a question without making up more lies. ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2012 6:08:49 PM   Surely Danny must know that to talk about someone else's wife that way is an invitation to do the same to his wife. Either his wife doesn't exist or he welcomes her getting trashed. lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/19/2012 10:18:14 PM   Rb,,, you are exactly correct!! Who would let this happen to his own wife??? She doesn’t exist,, that’s why he is dancing around about her photo!! The woman in his video two years ago, is somewhere in Russia!! NOT in Australia!! Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Ouch: Made a Mistake
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