When I posted my spisok poleznikh virazhenii, my intention was ironic. Obviously, "single_lady" didn't get that. I thought people in your part of the world were masters of irony. Another belief shattered...
I've suffered heavy heartbreak twice in Ukraine -- which (by the way) had nothing to do with scammers. These young women weren't seeking money. They are narcissistic, self-centered, and more than a little hard-hearted.
My little joke was a way to express my bitterness, about experiences there.
Time can change many things, but at present when I think of visiting Ukraine again I have a bit of sick feeling inside.
Steve,,, it’s best to ignore the new profiles that start with a blast and then just fizzle out.
Most likely was a local trolling for personal info on hard luck cases,,, hoping to take advantage,, or a forum nutcase.
Well, this new profile is still here. And it wasn't a local trolling for any personal information.
When we had a deal with a marriage agency, we had enough of personal info :)
As for hard luck cases, as a bride, I have heard about all that already.
Dear Foreign Men, you can blame our women for being materialistic, selfish, etc. But if you only knew how we usually see these situations....
There is nothing to start or to finish. We have some useful experience to share.
If you have some questions or want to know anything, then drop us a line :)
Lonelyranger I got to admit reading single_lady's first post made me laugh. New there would be some interesting comments. I found this one fun to read. a few posts made me laugh. I am sure you are right about single_lady. Is to bad. Made for some fun reading. So lets invite her and her friend back. my life will be changing shortly. When I first entered this forum I was not laughing. Been a long interesting road since my first entry.
I talked to her on Skype for about 10 minutes and she didn't try and sell me anything, and said she has a man already (so no dating scam). It was weird though, I wasn't sure what she wanted.
single_lady wrote:
"Dear Foreign Men, you can blame our women for being materialistic, selfish, etc. But if you only knew how we usually see these situations...."
that is why so many foreign men fail. they live in fantasy land.
People, what's wrong with you? Instead of asking any questions, you try to blame us in anything. Besides, you are looking for a dating scam even here, on this forum. It looks like paranoia.
Instead of solving your problems practically (for example, you don't try to understand the situation, analyze your personal experience, get some new information to know foreign country better) you sit here, moaning, complaining and proclaiming how bad Ukraine/Russia and our women are, and how much you suffered in your love. And yet... you come back to Russia/Ukraine always.... Do you really like to step on the same rake time and again?
If a person doesn't move, he starts degrading. Maybe it would be better to try to develop yourself?
If you tried to see the reason of your mistakes and to get new knowledge, you would be able to understand what kind of a person you deal with.
We are all grown-up people, we all do what we want, so it's up to you.
WTFisgoingon, I also remember our Skype-conversation. It really was weird :)
And because of this I want to clarify the following:
- my friend and I are not looking for a boyfriend or a husband abroad (so don't try to suggest your services :)));
- we don't help foreign men who want to have sex only or to have a free slave;
- we all know that Ukraine is a poor country, but! please, don't think that our women are that desperate that they are ready to bear everything from you.
Please, show more respect towards women in general. If someone really wants to find his second-half and to build own family, we will be glad to help.
And those who only want to moan, to continue looking for a scam or just to talk here about nothing... there are a plenty of other topics here where you can do this.
Survival sex is a form of prostitution, engaged in by people in extreme need. It describes the practice of people who are homeless or otherwise disadvantaged in society, trading sex for food, a place to sleep, or other basic needs, or for drugs. The term is used by sex trade and poverty researchers and aid workers.
Some thinkers suggest that people are motivated to prostitute themselves because it is familiar – specifically to victims of child sexual abuse. Other researchers state that, while some see it as a normal job, the vast majority want to get out of the industry given the potential for disease and dangerous clients.
Remember guys that Ukraine is a poor country, but rich in culture. better noticed in small town “…don't think that our women are that desperate that they are ready to bear everything from you. “
Is the lack of quality men to build a family!
Regardless of our own battles scares ;“Please, show more respect towards women in general.”
\Hello single_lady as I have said My wife comes to Canada in a few days now she speeks English well. We get along great and have spent the time to get to know each other well. There will be some cultural adjustments. You have any advice?